Plato ubwenzi - ubwenzi zina kwasanduka chikondi chenicheni

Pali kuona kuti sangathe kusokonezedwa ndi wina aliyense, mwachitsanzo: mkwiyo, nsanje, udani, umbombo, etc. chikondi ndi ndani, kumene ndi mzere chimene chimasiyanitsa izo kwa chikondi alipidwa kapena chilakolako? Kodi si kuonedwa posankha mnzanga, kotero kuti pambuyo chochitika zoipa kuti angakhumudwe mu moyo wanga kwa nthawi yaitali ngakhale kupondereza malingaliro za mnzanuyo latsopano ndi akazi? Good kudziwa wokonda amuthandize kuti ubale Plato, mwatsoka, nthawi zambiri, anataya kufunika poyamba. Koma, ngati mawu ukupita, zonse zabwino pang'ono ...

Achinyamata si achinyengo nthawi panopa kulekerera, akukumana kumverera choyamba cha chikondi, kwakukulukulu sizikhudza pa chitukuko mofulumira buku, chifukwa ambiri a iwo sitikudziwa momwe zinthu zina. Kawirikawiri pa m'badwo uwu ndipo ubwenzi Plato, ndipo zikuoneka kuti ndi zoona. Monga ulamuliro, palibe wabwino ndi kuwapeza oyambirira kugonana. Chirichonse ndi nthawi yake. Ndipo ngati inu mubwera chikondi choyamba, ndiye chirichonse apite pa mwachizolowezi. Ndipo izi Mwachidule cursory ndi kukhudza wamanyazi, amene mtima kwenikweni kudumpha kuchokera chifuwa, ndipo zokumana nazo mtima. Kodi tikudziwa bwino - pamene kumverera choyamba ndicho, ndipo mukhoza kuchita zinthu zambiri opusa kapena chosagawanika kulola kudziwa ubale oyera Plato. Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti chinthu ndikuusa ndipo sadziwa mmene kunayambika ubale yokha. Kaugwiritseni ndi zopweteka, ndi lokoma ndi zopweteka, ndi zosangalatsa, koma chikondi unrequited ndi wokhoza kuteteza ndi mimba oyambirira ndi zina khalidwe wakulungama, monga achinyamata, akukumana kumverera woyamba amphamvu, sangathe kudzigwira ndipo, mu dziwe ndi mutu wake choviikidwa mu anachitika chilakolako chawo.

Komabe zimachitika ndi choncho, pamene bwenzi kapena mnzanu kugwa m'chikondi ndi wanu wosankhidwa ali okhwima. Mu chochitika ubwenzi weniweni, wachikondi sapereka ngakhale mtundu wa mobisa akukumana amphamvu mosayembekezeka kumverera. ubwenzi Plato ndipo chopweteka kwambiri:

"... mkazi wanu - maso,

Ndipo palibe milomo - milomo.

Ndimakukonda kwambiri,

Koma pamaso oyera ake ... ".

Zikatero, munthu mphamvu zonse imakhudzanso kuthetseratu kwa mtima wanga ukhazikike mu chikondi chake, kuti vuto kapena bwenzi wanu / chibwenzi, kapena lake / wake wokondedwa, iye / iye ayesera, monga pang'ono ngati n'kotheka kukumana nanu, ndipo ngati ndi ayi kupita ku mzinda wina.

Bwino kuti mulibe kumva zoterozo, chifukwa pachibwenzi - ndi kumvana ndi ulemu, ndi chibwenzi chabwino kugonana. Mabanja ayenera polenga chikondi muwone kubereka ana. Banja losangalala moyo - ndi wauzimu ndi thupi abwenzi amgwirizano ubale, chifukwa chokonda, amasamala za wina ndi mnzake ndi achinyamata.

Musaiwale kuti ana athu amalankhula kumanga miyoyo yawo pa analenga stereotype ubale makolo. N'chifukwa chake muyenera analumbira patsogolo pawo. Zikuonekeratu kuti ubwenzi wachikondi si nthawi zonse yosalala, imene onse kudutsa njira yaminga ku chiyambi cha moyo limodzi. Pa otchedwa "akukuta" otchulidwa chabe kuti tikhale ndi moyo. Pamene anthu awiri wachikondi kuyamba kulumbira (ndipo popanda sangathe kukhala moyo), ndi woyamba koyenera kukhala ndi abwino mu mikangano banja, kupita kosayeseka amene ayenera kukhala kwathunthu impermissible. Kulemekeza ulemu, osati mbiri wina ndi mzake, inu nthawi zonse kupeza kukondera, ndipo m'kupita kwa zaka zapitazi, onse ndewu olowa pang'onopang'ono kubwera kwa "ayi". Koma mabanja oterowo, akazi amene anakhala nthawi yaitali, pomvetsetsana osati kwambiri pa Mwachidule - poluvzglyada, ndipo alidi achimwemwe.