Kulembetsa ukwati. 10 Malamulo zogwirizana ukwati

Kotero iwe kusankha kukwatiwa ndi theka yake yachiwiri. Tikupereka inu Malamulo 10 kukuthandizani pambuyo kulembetsa ukwati, osati kukangana ndi moyo mwamtendere. Kotero, ife malamulo 10 a banja ogwirizana. Apa iwo ali.

1. Kumbukirani kuti zonse zomwe mumam'konda, ngakhale ngati simuli nonse, muyenera kukambirana ndi bwenzi lanu. Kumbukirani kuti muli banja ndipo tsopano mavuto onse ayenera pamodzi za. Ngati simumvera lamulo limeneli, kulembetsa wanu nthaŵi yaitali.
2. M'banja simungathe kuona pyonsene, kumbukirani ndi kumva. Muyeneranso kudziwa ichi ndi asonyezedwa chikhulupiriro chachikulu mu theka lake chachiwiri, chifukwa china kuti inu mufika pa kulembetsa ukwati ndi banja ndi anthu amene sakhulupirira ndipo akuganiza zonse.
3. Sitiyenera mwakhama ndi zambiri amawanena kuti munthu womanga naye banja. Mukanakhala inuyo amachepetsa wachiwiri. Ngati inu amangokhalira kukalipiridwa, ndi kuumirira kwa inu? Ndi motalika bwanji inu mudzakhoze kupirirako milandu yonseyi onse? milandu yonseyi mudzakula mu nkhanza zonse ndi nkhanza, kupanikizika m'banja chidzakula, ndipo kenako, kulembetsa ukwati ndi lomaliza yaitali. Kutsutsa kwambiri kawirikawiri, ndipo kokha ngati alidi ofunika! Never kutsutsa zinthu chochepa, kuyesera kuti azolowere zolakwa zazing'ono mkazi.
4. Pewani zoipa amphamvu ndi zithunzi mafunde ndi okondedwa wanu, kuyesa kukangana kwambiri zamtendere zinachitika chintchito ndi kuchepetsa zoipa pali njira iliyonse yomwe inu mukufuna.
5. Never kukangana pamaso pa ana awo. Zimawawa ndi psyche a ana, ndipo mudzataya ulamuliro wawo. Ana amafunika kukhulupirira banja umoyo wa makolo awo ndi kuona ubale wangwiro wa makolo, chitsanzo chawo cha Chimwemwe cha Banja. ana ambiri amakhulupirira kuti chifukwa cha mikangano ya makolo, ndi iwo okha, ndi makolo kukangana chifukwa cha iwo, iwo kukutsutsani.
6. Musanayambe kuchita kanthu muyenera kuganizira zonse kasanu ndi kawiri. Mwina kuchita zimenezi si ofunika mkangano, imene kungachititse. Ndipo kumbukirani kuti chiwerengero cha mikangano sangakhale wopandamalire, ndipo posapita nthawi adzatsogolera kuwononga ukwati.
7. mafunso onse za kulera kusankha nthawi zonse pamodzi, konse zochita iliyonse kwambiri paokha, nthawi zonse kukaonana ndi mnzanuyo.
8. Sasamba nsalu yakuda pagulu, tiyeni zosiyana zanu musalumphe pakhomo la nyumba yanu. Tiyeni banja lanu lonse kukhala mwamtendere kwambiri ndipo popanda chisokonezo aliyense m'banja.
9. Mu mabanja, pambuyo kulembetsa ukwati, palibe malo Izitu n'zovutitsa ndi mwamwano.
10. Kumbukirani kuti ndi mwayi banja udzachitike pa mfundo zotsatirazi: chikondi, mgwirizano mgwirizano, kuthetsa mangawawo.

Odala ndi amphamvu banja si yofanana. Amphamvu ndi odalirika banja likhoza kulenga amphamvu ndi kanthu anthu paokha. Tikufuna inu nonse kulenga amphamvu, odalirika komanso nthawi yomweyo banja losangalala.