Mgwirizano mu banja: malangizo maganizo kwa bwino mu nyumba

Banja - ichi ndi malo mapangidwe munthu, ndi okondedwa, nkofunika kuti munthu sangakhale. Choncho, banja kusewera chachikulu, mbali yaikulu mu chitukuko maganizo ndi umoyo wa yense wa mamembala ake.

Zamaganizo salembedwa kugawanitsa mabanja olemera ndi ovutika, nthawi zonse kusintha okha: Banja lililonse lili ndi mavuto ena. Kuchepetsa vuto asatayike, kusintha zinthu mu nyumba yanga zofunika pulayimale kudziwa zofunika za kuwerenga maganizo a banja ndi chilakolako kulenga malo abwino chimene munthu akhoza kukhala winawake njira chilengedwe popanda chopinga ndiponso akuluakulu matenda, maofesi, olakwika ponena za dziko, za anthu ena.

Kuti zimenezi zitheke mfulu, ndi chifukwa cha iwo okha, kuphunzira kumanga mgwirizano mu banja. Kaya ndinu mutu wa banja, mbuye waukulu wa nyumba kapena mwana (ngakhale mutakhala pa 20), simukufuna kuphunzira za yosavuta malamulo kulankhulana m'banja.

1. Musati kutseka maso anu kwa chipongwe, uike ena pansi. Ndipo ngati izi sizingatheke (pali zikutanthauza milandu chikhalidwe oopsa Mwachitsanzo, mu nkhani ya mwamuna chidakwa), kuchepetsa kuyankhulana ndi m'banja yochepa.
2. Phunzirani kukambirana. Popereka vuto, ife bwenzi bwino, mwana, kholo, ali okonzeka kukambirana njira za njira, kufika kukondera. Choncho amalemekeza mzake, yomwe n'chofunika kuti ubale yachibadwa banja.
3. Limbikitsani chithandizo mgwirizano, chifundo, chilakolako kugwira bwenzi olowa mu njira zonse zotheka (inu bwino kudziwa amene amakonda zimene, zomwe mungachite chilichonse - zambiri sayenera kugwiritsa ntchito). Ndikofunikira kusunga lamulo limeneli kuti mupange ubale wa ana m'banjamo. Ngati muli angapo a iwo anakweza motsindika kuti iwo anali m'bale ndi mlongo (abale), chimene chiri mokondera ndi pafupi alibe wina ndipo sadzatero. Bwerezani izi nthawi zonse, ana ali tcheru kwambiri mawu makolo. Kwa zaka zambiri, mudzaona umboni wa zimenezi, khama lanu ndipo tcheru samapita pachabe.
4. Kodi mumathera yopuma, ndi njira, n'kofunika kwambiri. Payokha? Chabwino, koma muyenera chinthu chimodzi, ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi, ndipo makolo ndi ana. Kuyenda mu paki, ndi pizzeria, masitolo, kuyenda - ofunika zinthu zonse ang'ono inu zidzalumikizana momwe sunachitikirenso.
5. N'kofunikanso kuti miyambo banja. Ngati ayi, ndi nthawi kubwera nawo. Miyambo kuti tigwirizane, kulimbikitsa mgwirizano pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi ubale ndi ana (makamaka chofunika komanso mwachangu ngati muyeso mu nkhani ya achinyamata). Kukwera kwa agogo ake, holide yekha, limodzi kuphika mbale mumaikonda, yokongola mtengo Khirisimasi - zingakhale chilichonse. Ngati miyambo chabe ambalemekezedwa mwa onse. Kodi anamvera, ndi nthawi kumaganizira za ena.
6. Mabanja zochokera makamaka maudindo ndi maudindo anagawira mwa inu. Udindo mu banja lanu anaika kale. Adadi - earner kapena mtsogoleri wauzimu. Mama - ndi mayi kapena malonda mkazi. Koma pa nkhani za ntchito za onse kovuta. Pamwamba chitonthozo ayenera ntchito zonse. Kamodzi adzakhala kufotokoza, kugwirizana amene ali ndi udindo wotani, ndipo inu kumana banja chifukwa ambiri kwa mikangano.
7. Khalani chikondi kugona ndi mkazi wa (mkazi) ndi ana. Zilibe kutha, kuti pa nthawiyi sanalankhule. Ngati banja ndi ulemu, luntha ndi kukhulupirika, chifuniro ndi chikondi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ubale wanu ambike zochitika wamba, ndipo ngakhale mavuto. Ndinu pamodzi ndi inu ndi mphamvu. M'pofunikanso kulabadira kwa wina ndi mzake! Musaiwale kupeza nthawi yolankhula ndi mwana wanu ndi mnzake, makamaka ndi makolo anga (amafunanso ife, monga ife tiri nawo, kaya zapita kuyambira kubadwa kwa nthawi yathu).

Mabanja amafuna kudzipeleka kwanu zonse, ziribe kanthu kodi muli si wotanganidwa. Musamalandire mzake mwachibwanabwana ndi monga chinachake wosatha. Kamodzi kuvomereza kuti maganizo kuti banja langa amayamba kutha. Ganizirani zimene mndandanda mukhoza kuchita kwa banja lanu.