Fast chinsiriro Women

Pali njira zambiri kuphunzira msanga kunyenga ndi kunyengerera akazi. Chimodzi chofunika umisiri ndi kudya chinsiriro kutumiza maganizo ndi malamulo chobisika. Ichi sichina koma wina wa zinsinsi za mapulogalamu ntchito nejrolingvisticheskogo (NLP mwachidule). Mwachidule, muli zoika maganizo ake akufuna kuti anayesedwa, motero kumachita ngati iwo anachokera penapake kuchokera kumbali. magwero awo amene ndi zimene mukufuna: maganizo anu, mkhalidwe Wonenedwa, bwenzi, ndi pa TV kapena magazini. Njira imeneyi angagwiritsidwe ukutchedwa monga "mpheto zokhutiritsa."

Pa mlingo zofunika, izi ziri chitsanzo yosavuta akuyambitsa gulu lanu. "Kodi munayamba chotero mtima, ngati ...?" - chiganizo lonse ndi kutchulidwa ndi chizindikiro cha funso, koma ngati maganizo msungwana adzipereke kwa mphamvu ya lingaliro limeneli zamatsenga wa pano. Mu zonse, inu mukuti, izo ziyenera kukhala mtundu wina wa Kuzindikira chenicheni. Pa nthawi yomweyo tiyenera kukumbukira za mbali n'zosiyana a ndalamayo: mfundo chongopeka analenga ndi zopeka. Mochenjera ndipo ndi Sewerani zinthu zenizeni ndi zopeka, kuwapanga limodzi.

Kayeseleledwe wa zinthu makamaka chifukwa mawuwo. Izo ziri zonse zimene mukunena mukufuna zichokera milomo ya anthu achilendo kapena anamva. ganizira akuitanidwa Chinsinsi mwakuchita Ross Jeffries:
Amuna ndi zina yaukali kwambiri. Ine simungakhoze kukhulupirira kuti anaona ndi zochitika wosaiwalika. Tsiku lina madzulo, mkulu wina anabwera kwa mtsikana atakhala pafupi ndi ine pa mowa, ndipo anati: "Werengani, ife kupanga chikondi, ndipo ndinu ochokera kayfuesh izi chiyani usiku wautali loto la cunnilingus, ngati inu mungakhoze kuchita izi zenizeni ndi molunjika. tsopano. ndikulonjeza kuti zavedesh osati mwana. " Kodi zikanakhala kuti mkazi wachilendo ndi wakhalidwe maganizo?

Koma buku la nkhani kumanga Intaneti chibwenzi:
Inu mukudziwa, ine amakonda kufunsa akazi njira yoyenera kufufuza ndi, maganizo awo, zoipa. Kodi mukuganiza za izi? (Iye amayankha.) Inde, ndi okongola kwabasi. Taonani, ine ndikuuzani inu chimene ndinachimva kwa mkazi mmodzi. Panokha, ine sindingathe kukhulupirira iye anati. Nthawi ina, pamene iye anali pa bala, iye anafika kwa mtundu wina, ine ndinayang'ana mu maso ake (kutenga dzanja lake ndi kuyang'ana iye mu diso), ndipo anati: "Tangoganizani kwa kamphindi, pamene ife anagonana m'kamwa, ndipo ndichita zonse zimene inu kudzala. Ife tiri tonse osangalala, inu mukuti mukufuna ine, ndipo anayamba kupempha ine kukutengerani inu kumene pano. " Kodi kanthu izi akuyembekezera reciprocity? Mwachitsanzo, sindikanakwanitsa analola zoterezi.

Inu mwachita chirichonse yoipa? Monga ndinamupempha kuti aganizire mmene waukulu kuti azipanga chikondi kwa inu, ndi kuti iye akukonda. Zonsezi inu anati, kotero kuti iye analibe ndikuganiza panali kugwirizana ndi khalidwe lanu. Kuti mauthenga izo sanabwere mwachindunji kwa inu.

Pogwira gwero - chida chachikulu chifukwa amalekanitsa inu kuchokera kukambirana za. Zimenezi n'zofunika kwambiri makamaka pankhani manyazi kwambiri kapena atsikana chikhulupiriro mantha kwambiri pamaso pa amuna. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, posachedwapa iye adzayamba chabwino chirichonse, ziribe kanthu chimene inu mukunena, ndi kuyamba kulingalira kulankhula nanu, komanso zokhudza kugonana, ndi izi ndi mfundo yofunika ya chinsiriro mwamsanga ndi akazi kunyengerera.

Tikalemba ndi zofunika kwambiri makamaka ngati inu modzidzimutsa zopita ku nkhani zokhudza kugonana, amene zoona, anatchula zitsanzo pamwambapa. Pokambirana za kugonana ndi mbali yofunika ya chinsiriro, koma kunyamula pangozi yaikulu. Ndi lemba la mmene kukhazikitsa maganizo abwino mu malingaliro a akazi, pamene otsala zimakumana mawonetseredwe zoipa za maganizo ndi zochita (monga, Mwachitsanzo, mbama loti mu nkhope).

Komano, tikalemba akhoza kukhala chopinga chachikulu, ngati inu kukacheza ndi atsikana, patsogolo m'zonse ndi wofuna.

Mtundu wa chikhalidwe wamkazi wakonda pamene iwo mwachindunji kuthetsa maganizo awo ndi kulankhula za m'miyoyo yawo onse ndi chilakolako ndi kuzizira patalipatali. Pankhaniyi, ngati pereuserdstvuesh ndi ogwidwa, inu mukhoza kulenga pa ganizo chabe, wosangalatsa munthu, ndipo ichi, nayenso, kuti alenge mtunda pakati pa inu, kuti zoona, tiyenera kupewa mu alankhulane ndi chinthu chinsiriro. Ngati mkazi ali ndi malingaliro chonde, omasuka Konzekerani nkhondo ndi kupita mu kuchitapo kwambiri.

Chidwi kuloweza dongosolo Sindizakubweretsanso zotsatira oyenera maluso a akazi kunyengerera. M'pofunika kudziwa momwe ntchito bwino, momwe angakhazikitsire nokha ndi kunena iwo mu nthawi.