Forum za thanzi: kodi ntchitoyi ndi iti?

Anthu amasiku ano amathera nthawi yochuluka pamakompyuta, akuyendayenda malo osiyanasiyana komanso malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Pano iwo amadziwana, amalankhulana, amasangalala, amapeze zambiri zothandiza. Posachedwapa, ntchito yotchuka ya akazi ambiri inali kuyendera maofesi odzipereka kwa ana, kukongola, thanzi, kusinthana ndi zina. Kodi chimapatsa nthawi yotani?

Pambuyo paukwati ndi kubadwa kwa mwana, moyo wa kugonana kwabwino ukusinthidwa mozama. Tsopano ntchito zake zazikulu ndi kusamalira mwamuna wake, ana ndi kusunga nyumba. Komabe, amayi ambiri, makamaka omwe ali paulendo woyamwitsa, alibe nthawi yokwanira yolankhulana ndi abwenzi awo, ndipo chikhalidwe chimakhala chosiyana kusiyana ndi cha atsikana omwe alibe banja lawo. Panthawiyi ndikofunika kupeza anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro omwe tikhoza kugawana nawo zomwe takumana nazo komanso anthu omwe amadziwa zambiri omwe angathe kupereka malingaliro othandiza.

Mbali zina za moyo zimakhala zovuta kukambirana ndi achibale ndi odziwa. Izi zimafooketsedwa ndi manyazi, mantha, kusowa zofuna zambiri komanso nthawi zina. Ndiye osadziwika mwamtheradi ndi anthu osadziwika amadzapulumutsira, omwe salibe chifukwa chomveka chofotokozera kapena kufotokoza. Kuyendera, mwachitsanzo, bungwe la thanzi, mukhoza kubwera ndi dzina losiyana ndikuyika chithunzi cha wina. Motero, kuunikira vuto lake, munthuyo sakhala wodziwika.

Kodi ndingalembe chiyani pa maofolomu? Pa masamba okondweretsa mukhoza kusindikiza chidziwitso chirichonse. Pano, abwenzi enieni akukambirana njira zowonjezera chitetezo cha ana, chakudya choyenera, kugawana maphikidwe, kugawa mapulogalamu olimbitsa thupi, kulankhula njira zothandiza kuthetsa kulemera kwambiri ndi mavuto a tsitsi, misomali ndi khungu. Zolankhulirana sizimangokhala pazinthu zokhazokha, mamembala a pamsonkhano sazengereza kukambirana za zomwe zimakhalapo panthawi ya mimba, zochitika za kubala, kukangana ndi amuna komanso ubale wapamtima. M'malo oterowo, mungathe kuthandizidwa ndi maganizo, omwe nthawi zina sali okwanira pamoyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku.

Kawirikawiri, kuyankhulana kumakula kumakhala bwenzi lenileni. Anthu ochokera m'midzi yosiyana ndi mayiko osiyanasiyana, omwe ali ndi zikhulupiriro zosiyana siyana ndi magulu a zaka, adakumana mwangozi, akukonzekera misonkhano, ndikuyendera. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, ubale wawo ndi wodalirika kusiyana ndi mabwenzi enieni, chifukwa chidziwitso chinayamba ndi kukambirana za zofunikanso ndi mavuto.