Kodi kusankha bwino? Phunzirani kukhulupirira liwu la mkati!

Kodi timaganiza: "Kuti tidziwe kumene kugwa ...". kangati bondo za mwayi untapped kapena kuchita zolakwika. Aliyense akufuna kuti adziwe ndi kumvetsetsa mmene kusankha komwe angawatsogolere panjira adafuna chandamale. Komabe, nthawi zina tiyenera kuiwala za zofunika kwambiri. chakuti wathu umunthu ndi kutukuka zonse. Kuthetsa mavuto onse latsopano zinayang'ana zinthu zikuluzikulu ndi zachilendo, ife kusintha. Choncho, zolinga, mfundo zofunika, ndipo musaime chilili. Iwo kusintha ndi ife. N'chifukwa chake funso mmene kusankha bwino, ndi bwino kuika mu "pano" m'malo moyang'ana patsogolo ndipo makamaka popanda kuyang'ana mmbuyo.

Author nthawi kulankhula ndi anthu ambiri amene nthawi zina amapezeka mu mphambano zovuta moyo. Ndipo izi n'zimene ndi anthu amene anapereka kuona ndi chikhulupiriro unachitika munthu - iwo anapulumutsa zakale! Musati kuluma elbows anu, ngakhale mutakhala nayo nthawi yochuluka kusintha njira ya moyo, dziko, kuchuluka kwa zinthu. Musaledzere naye kudzimvera chisoni, ngati inu munayamba kutaya katundu ndi kuyamba onse kachiwiri. Choncho, pofuna kumvetsetsa za mmene kusankha bwino, muyenera kumvetsa bwino: izo zimatengera ife kwambiri, koma si zonse. Kodi zikuoneka woona pa nthawi inayake, angachotsedwe kulakwitsa. Ndi chifukwa yaitali Anthu onse amadwala kulephera okhwima, amene ali ovuta kumanganso ndi kuchita mogwirizana ndi mmene zinthu zilili. Ndipo njira yathu si nthawi zonse yosalala ndi wotakasuka. Choncho malangizo loyamba: kuchotsa katundu wa udindo kwambiri. Munthu moti kuti nthawi iliyonse sangapeze chimwemwe ndi kukhumudwa. Ngakhale mwagwira wanu "cholinga" nthawi zonse ngati "nyumba ya chochepa, ndi madzi ndi wokoma kwambiri."

Kotero, momwe kusankha bwino zimene inu bondo? Choyamba, yesani kukhulupirira tsoka ndi yodziŵiratu zinthu pasadakhale. Nthawi zambiri, ife safuna ndi kukayikira, ngati pali mtundu wa nkhondo intrapersonal, mwachitsanzo, pakati pa maganizo ndi mphamvu, pakati chilakolako ntchito. Koma zikatero ndiye zokoma chitukuko. Ndipo yodziŵiratu zinthu pasadakhale kuti anthufe kuderera kapena osalankhula - n'zimene zimathandiza kusankha mwanzeru. Musaganize kuti ndi chinachake chauzimu, "mawu ochokera kumwamba." M'malo mwake, ndi njira zanu chikumbumtima vuto lake. pulayimale, zochita zathu thupi kawirikawiri akusonyeza kuti ife kumene icho chidzakhala chabwino kwa ife, ndipo pamene ayi. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna ntchito atsopano, mvetserani ku yanu yodziŵiratu zinthu pasadakhale. Ngati kukambirana ndi bwana tsogolo amakhazikitsa inu mu njira zabwino - ndi chiyambi chabwino. Koma ngati nyumba yokha, m'mlengalenga kulamulira kumeneko, maonekedwe ndi mtundu wa antchito kulankhulana chifukwa maganizo ndi ziletsa, ngati mulibe womasuka mu malo awa - mwina ndi chenjezo.

Ndipo mmene zochita mwanzeru pa moyo wanu? Bungwe la chimodzimodzi. Musayese kuganiza, dongosolo, kuganiza siyana lalitali. Ndikungomverera zinthu, kumiza nokha mu zomverera za. Kuti, monga padzakhala kulumikizana ndi ichi kapena icho munthu, nthawi zambiri mphindi yovuta choyamba. Ndipo ngati ife omasuka, ife otetezeka, zikutanthauza ubale uyu ali ndi tsogolo. Ndipotu, ngati zimativuta kupeza ulusi wamba, ngati ife womangidwa, koma Mwachitsanzo, mu maganizo munakhala kuti anali phwando lalikulu, yesani kukhulupirira yodziŵiratu zinthu pasadakhale. Timakhala ndi munthu, osati udindo wake, ndalama kapena udindo anthu.

njira ina angakuuzeni mmene kusankha zochita mwanzeru. Njira angatchedwe "m'tsogolo." lingaliro ndi kuyesa kuona mmene zotheka zochitika zambiri mwatsatanetsatane ngati n'kotheka, umene kutsatira maloto anu. Kukupatsani ntchito, koma sindikudziwa ngati kuti nditenge izo? Monga mukhoza kukhala mwatsatanetsatane ndi mtundu mungazione nokha pa malo ano chaka, awiri, asanu. ndi tsiku mumachita chiyani, momwe iwe wavalira, mmene kumasuka? Ndi zabwino ngati inu kubwera ku ofesi kapena inu mukuyesera kuti abwere ndi zifukwa zochepa ngati n'kotheka kuonekera kumeneko? Kupereka, inu Subconsciously kukonzekera kuchitapo kanthu.

Ndipo mwina kwambiri odziwika ndi ogwira njira - "tulo" ndi vutolo. Mudzifunse nokha funso madzulo pamaso yogona, mmawa inu tipeze yankho wokonzeka. The ntchito kwa inu adzachita chikumbumtima kapena yodziŵiratu zinthu pasadakhale. Nthawi zina zimathandiza kulankhula ndi alendo ndi munthu siziwakhudza. Popereka mokweza onse mfundo zawo ndi kukayikira, mukuvomereza kubwera kwa lingaliro. Zabwino zonse!