Kulekerera - izi ndi ufulu?

Kulekerera - izo kosaoneka anakhazikitsa malamulo ndale komanso khalidwe anthu suona ufulu wa ena ndiponso kukhala chilango. Zimenezi n'kopindulitsa kokha munthu kuchita iwo, zotsatira zake za amene ali ndi dala kapena wosasamala kupereka kwa zoipa kwa ena.

Ufulu - kulekerera izi?

Nthawi zina ufulu ndi kuwamva monga kulekerera. Ndipotu mfundo zimenezi ndi zofanana mu kulira, ali ndi tanthauzo losiyana kotheratu.

Ufulu - chinthu chofunika moyo wathunthu, chimwemwe ndi mbali yofunika ya munthu aliyense ndi olimba maziko a boma iliyonse yomwe ulamuliro zachokera ku mfundo za demokalase. Ufulu wa chipembedzo, kulankhula, chikondi, chikumbumtima, kayendedwe - akwaniritsa zimenezi kupanga maziko a kukhazikitsa utumiki wa anthu onse m'dziko. Ufulu umene muli kumenyana ndi kugonjetsa, limayamba waung'ono munthu kuwina munthu ndipo itha kutsatira ufulu wa limati lonse.

Lingaliro la ufulu chimakhudzana pamodzi ndi udindo (okha ndi anthu) kuti aliyense anapatsa yokha mu ndondomeko ya kuchita zinazake, kumvetsa ntchito mwachinsinsi cholandiridwa mwa chimango cha malamulo alipo. Moyo anthu kumabweretsa akukankha kumasulika kwa anthu osiyana, chimene chimafuna lamanja, mopanda tsankho kwa ena, kusinthasintha. Nkofunika kuzindikira kuti ufulu mtheradi sizingatheke, chifukwa anthu amakhala amadalira anthu - mavuto a (lamulo, ufulu ndi kumasulika kwa ena, mfundo pagulu, kulemekezana).

zitsanzo akuwakonda

Ufulu umatha panthawi imene zimene anachita bwanji zofuna za anthu ena mu mbali negative. Ndiko kuti, munthu amamva yekha, izo si ndi ufulu wa ena ndi ntchito yekha kupindula zofuna zawo. Zinali nthawi yomweyo ufulu wake umakhala ndi kulekerera mfundo zoopsa imbaenda chisokonezo. Aliyense ayenera kukhala bwino ndi kumvetsa zimene ndi zoopsa akuwakonda. A chitsanzo chapadera cha ichi akhoza kukhala French kuukira boma, pamene maganizo a ufulu wa munthu m'zinthu nkhani yolakwika, kuti zinachititsa kuti ndi kupondereza wathunthu.

Kulekerera - ichi ndi gulu zoipa, kuchirikiza chiwonongeko, zowawa ndi imfa, anasonyeza ake mu maganizo a andale ena ndipo zinachititsa kuti zochitika oipa kwambiri ku dziko lonse. The mzaka zana makumi awiri Likutchulidwa malingaliro lamkunkhuniza a Hitler ndi Stalin, omwe anapha miyoyo ya anthu ambiri.

Kulekerera yaikidwa ana?

Nthawi zambiri kulekerera (ofanana matanthauzo - "vsepozvolitelnost", "chisokonezeko", "bespredelschina", "vsenipochomstvo") anthu yaikidwa ana, mwana, osadziwa kulephera chilichonse, kupereka kufunika mosavuta ndi bwinobwino. Ndi omasuka ichi kuphedwa kwa zilakolako amachititsa kukula osaganiza akamakula munthu.

Nthawi zambiri mu sukulu ndi banja mchitidwe, pamene ankalengeza maphunziro aulere chikuchitika ndi kulekerera, monga mfundo wodzilamulira umboni wa mwana ndipo sanali kulowelera mu ndondomeko chilengedwe cha kusinthasintha kwa anthu. Ovomerezeka monga limodzi kuyesera kulekerera - izi ndi kachitidwe mwatsatanetsatane mu ndondomeko ya maphunziro mphunzitsi ndi maphunziro; koma aphunzitsi ambiri ndi makolo pa za ana, ndi kulola kuti iwo ufulu, kuti chifukwa kuvulaza ana okha, kupanga nkhondo yawo ndi dzikoli ndi osauka iwo mu mtundu wapadera chodzikonda - despotism. The mwana m'malo mofulumira kumvetsa njira iye anakwaniritsa kufunika, chida chimene izo zakhala kulira, kulira, hysterics.

Osati kuti awachitire akuwakonda

Pamizu ya kulekerera waima mantha zopanda nzeru ya dziko lonse ndi mwini, kukakamiza munthu osati kuteteza komanso kuti aukire. Amphamvu ndi chikhulupiriro umunthu konse zina ndi ufulu wa munthu wina. The kulekerera owopsa - ndi makhalidwe abwino, osautsa umunthu mkati ndipo si choncho kuonekera. Komanso zotheka moyo wa munthu amadziwika akamanena za wachikhristu ndi malamulo 10, yaikulu ya lamulo lililonse ndiponso chilamulo;

Osati kuti awachitire kulekerera athe:

• chikumbumtima;
• makhalidwe anga banja chibadwire;
• miyambo wadutsa kuchokera m'ma wina ku mibadwo;
• zinthu zauzimu za makolo awo, amene anapereka chitsanzo chabwino kwa achinyamata, miyoyo yawo ndi zochita.