Magetsi ndi zamatsenga: momwe mungalankhulire ndi munthu wakufa

Ambiri amachoka mwadzidzidzi ndipo mosayembekezereka, pali zovuta zina, mwinamwake simunakhale ndi nthawi yopepesa chifukwa cha ntchito iliyonse, ndipo mwinamwake mumangofuna kubwereranso nthawi yomaliza. Pali chikhulupiliro kuti thupi lokha ndilofa, ndipo moyo sufa, ndipo nthawi zonse udzakhala pafupi ndi okondedwa awo. Koma momwe mungalankhulire ndi munthu wakufayo? Tidzakayankha funso ili m'nkhaniyi.

Moyo

Tisanadzifunse momwe tingalankhulire ndi munthu wakufayo pambuyo pa imfa, tidzakhala ndi lingaliro loti "moyo", umene mukufuna kulankhulana nawo. Kuchokera ku ma Orthodox, ichi ndi chiyambi chachisavundi, chimene Ambuye Mulungu mwiniwake adachilenga. Monga malembo amanenera, Mulungu adalenga thupi kuchokera ku fumbi lapansi ndikupumira moyo. Mpweya uwu ndi moyo wathu.

Amakhulupirira kuti ndi yopanda nzeru, koma ali ndi nzeru, moyo wathu wokha, pamene umalowa m'thupi la thupi lomwe limatha kuthera, ndiko kuti, kukalamba, limapatsa mpata wakukula ndikukula m'maganizo ndi mwathupi.

Mpingo

Kuchokera pakuwona kuti moyo wathu sufa, sitiyenera kuwopa iwo amene akupha chipolopolo chathu, koma cha iwo omwe angakhoze kupha moyo wathu ku moto wamoto. Kodi mungalankhule bwanji ndi munthu wakufa? Kodi mpingo ukuganiza bwanji izi?

Choyamba muyenera kudziwa cholinga chenicheni cha zokambirana zanu. Palibe amene angakulepheretseni kulankhula ndi wakufayo, koma yankho lokha, monga tchalitchi chimakhulupirira, simudzapeza. Mungathe kuyankhula nawo paliponse komanso mulimonse, koma malo abwino kwambiri oyankhulana ndi kachisi. Mawu athu mu fomu yamakono sangathe kufika kwa adiresi, koma mwa mawonekedwe a pemphero adzatimvera ndithu. Kodi ndi bwino kupanga bwanji? Bwerani ku kachisi, kuyika kandulo kumbuyo kwa mpumulo ndikukambirana ndi munthu uyu.

Kulira

Momwe mungalankhulire ndi munthu wakufayo, wopatsidwa ziphunzitso za tchalitchi, tafotokozedwa pamwambapa, koma nkofunika kuti musaiwale mfundo zina. Ndizokhudza misozi yomwe imatayidwa pambuyo pa imfa ya anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi ife. Ndikofunika kudziwa kuti misonzi yathu ndi yovuta kwa iwo, ndipo ntchito yathu, malinga ndi tchalitchi, ndikuwasangalatsa m'dziko latsopano.

Lembani utumiki mu kachisi, muike makandulo kuti mupumule, onetsetsani kuti mumasiya mphatso, kotero kuti panthawi imene mwatchulidwa atamwalira.

Kusamala

Kotero, kodi n'zotheka kulankhula ndi munthu wakufa? Yankho la funso limeneli lidzakhala inde ndi ayi. Zonsezi ndi zowona komanso zabodza. Kuti tiyankhe funso ili, tifunikira kudziŵa lingaliro la "chidziwitso."

Pali lingaliro lakuti dziko lathu liri ndi ululu wosadziwika wa chidziwitso. Munthu wosiyana akalengedwa, ulusi umenewu umasakanikirana ndikupanga mtolo. Chovala ichi ndi chidziwitso cha munthu payekha ali ndi makhalidwe ake, makhalidwe ake. Timafunikira ubongo kuti tigwiritse ntchito mtolowu ndikutipatula pakamwa. Kodi chimachitika n'chiyani tikamwalira? Mizere iyi ikuwongolera, kusunthira zochitika zonse zowonjezera ndi chidziwitso, ndipo ife tikubwerera kumene ife tinachokerako, ndiko, kwa Mulungu.

Ngati timakhulupirira mu Chikhristu, ndiye imfa yomaliza, munthu salipo, koma achibuda amakhulupirira kuti munthu amabadwanso mwatsopano. Kodi muyenera kukhulupirira chiyani? Ziri kwa iwe. Komabe, ngati tigwirizanitsa ndi lingaliro lakuti dziko lathu lapansi ndilo zingwe zazingaliro, ndiye tikhoza kunena molimba mtima kuti tapulumuka miyoyo ya anthu onse ozungulira. Mitundu imasungira mwa iwo okha chidziwitso ndi chidziwitso cha zamoyo zonse, motero, kuwongolera, sizikusintha kusagwirizana kwawo. Choncho, mzimu wathu umakhala wosafa ndipo umasungidwa m'magazi omwewo.

Komanso, ena amati ngati mumaphunzitsa ubongo wanu, ndizotheka kukumbukira moyo wanu wakale.

Kubwezeretsedwa kwa munthu ndi ziweto

Kufunsa za momwe tingalankhulire ndi moyo wa munthu wakufayo, timayesa kubwezeretsa moyo ku thupi, koma izi ndizotheka posachedwa (masiku makumi anayi). Thupi lathu limachepetsa chidziwitso chathu, ndipo pamene thupi lifa, chidziwitso chimayendayenda ndikuyamba kuyenda pang'ono.

Chidziwitso cha munthu chimakhala champhamvu kwambiri kuposa chidziwitso cha nyama, motero ndi mphamvu yake tingathe kutsitsimutsa thupi lathu mthupi latsopano. Ng'ombeyo idzakhala yosiyana, koma chikumbumtima chake chimakhala chofanana.

Ngati mutayesa kuchita chimodzimodzi ndi munthu, simungapeze zomwe mukufuna. Gawo la chidziwitso, maluso ena adzatsala, koma ena mwa moyowo amakhala kale kwinakwake ndikupeza zochitika zatsopano.

Kulankhulana ndi wakufayo

Kotero, momwe mungalankhulire ndi munthu wakufayo? Chikumbumtima chathu chimasokonezeka patatha kanthawi, mpaka chitachotsedwa, ndiye kugwirizana kuli kotheka. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira kuti mwa ichi sitimalola munthu kuchoka, moyo wake sukhazikika, komanso sadziwa zambiri.

Ambiri ankadabwa kuti tidzakhala bwanji pambuyo pa imfa. Amanena kuti ngati mumaganiza za imfa molakwika, izi zikutanthauza kuti mungadzipeze nokha muvuto, mukamwalira, ndiye kuti tidzawona. Awa ndi malingaliro olakwika, ngati inu simukuganiza za imfa ndipo kenako moyo, ndiye palibe chomwe chidzachitike. Chidziŵitso chidzangowonjezereka pang'onopang'ono m'magazi. Ngati mukufuna kuyendayenda m'mayiko ena, onani zomwe ziri kunja kwa dziko lathu lapansi, pezani zochitika zomwe simungaiŵalike, ndiye ganizirani za izo, malota.

Nthawi yotsatira, pafupi masabata makumi anai, miyoyo ya okondedwa athu ili pafupi ndi ife, tikuchita mofananamo monga momwe adakhalira m'moyo. Ife sitikuwawona iwo, koma ife timamva kuti wakufayo abwera kwa ife mu loto kuti ayankhe mafunso athu. Kulankhula kwa wakufa m'maloto mkati mwa masabata makumi anai pambuyo pa imfa, mumalankhula ndi mzimu. Sitiwawona, chifukwa sali m'lingaliro lathu, koma m'magawo otsatirawa.

Mages

Anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi mphamvu zamatsenga, yesetsani kumangiriza mfundo zawo zodziwa kwambiri kuti pambuyo pa imfa, zimakhala zofanana, sizinasinthe makhalidwe ake. Munthu amene mzimu wa matsenga ukhalamo adzakhala chimodzimodzi ndi momwe zinaliri, maonekedwewo amasintha.

Momwe mungayankhulire ndi munthu wakufayo, ngati panthawi ya moyo iye amatha kuteteza kwambiri chidziwitso chake? Izi sizingatheke, chifukwa palibe ngakhale kamodzi kokha kamene kamasiyidwa mu mzere wa mdziko, ili kale munthu wina wamphumphu. Kuposa zoipa?

Munthu aliyense amapezerapo zodziwa ndi kudziwa, kugawira iwo pamzere umodzimodzi pambuyo pa imfa. Choncho, munthu yemwe analibe malingaliro apadera pa moyo wake, m'thupi lina akhoza kukhala wenizeni weniweni. Ngati pali chitetezo, moyo sukhazikika, sutengera zochitika za ena ndipo sichigawana nawo. Mbadwo uliwonse watsopano umaposa chinthu china m'mbuyomu, ndipo anthuwa amakhalabe ofanana.

Magetsi

Kodi mungalankhule bwanji ndi munthu wakufa? Magetsi owala amapereka miyambo ina yoitana moyo wa munthu. Tisanayambe kupita ku miyambo, tidzatha kuganiza za "matsenga", zowopsa, zotsatira, ziphuphu ndi mawu ena omwe ndi ofunikira ngati mukufuna kusankha lusoli.

Mpikisano woyera umatha kusokoneza pakali pano kuti asinthe tsogolo. Zimakhulupirira kuti kuchita chilichonse mwadala ndi mwachangu ndi matsenga. Tikhoza kupangitsa munthu kukhala ndi mawu ovuta, zochita, kaduka kapena kuyang'ana.

Munthu aliyense, mosasamala, ayenera kukhala ndi iye chiwombankhanga kapena chithunzithunzi, chomwe chimateteza kusokoneza mwadzidzidzi. Ndingachipeze bwanji? Njira yabwino ndiyo mtanda wanu, makamaka mtanda wa ubatizo. Musati muwonetse izo, musalole kuti izo zivute ndi anthu ena, ngakhale achibale. Kotero, momwe mungalankhulire ndi munthu wakufa kunyumba pogwiritsa ntchito matsenga?

Gwiritsani ntchito njira yabwino yofotokozedwa m'mutu wotsatira.

Maloto

Ndi chiani ndipo zingakhale zaneneri ndipo zimakhala ndi tanthauzo? Inde, mwinamwake, ndi chikumbumtima chathu, chimayenda mu miyeso ina. Kodi mungalankhule bwanji ndi munthu wakufa mu loto? Ndi zophweka, chifukwa miyoyo ya anthu akufa ndiyandikana kwambiri, iwo asiyidwa ndi chizolowezi kukhala pafupi ndi ife. Mu maloto, tikhoza kuyankhulana bwino ndi munthu wakufayo. Ngati wakufayo sakufuna kuyanjana, mukhoza kumufunsa.

Momwe mungalankhulire ndi munthu wakufayo mu loto, ndi chiyani chomwe chikufunika pa izi? Ngati simukufuna kusokoneza munthu, tengani chinthu chake musanagone ndikumufunseni kuti abwere kwa inu mu loto ndikuuzeni zomwe mukufuna kudziwa, kapena funsani funso lanu. Ngakhalenso ngati wakufayo sanabwere pa zokambirana zanu, nthawi zambiri yankho likupezeka pakutanthauzira zomwe adawona.

Dziwani kuti pamene mukugona mungapeze miyoyo ina mofanana ndi munthu amene mwakhala mukumuyembekezera, nthawi zambiri zimapezeka ndipo zimatha kukusokonezani. Pamene mwambo ukuchitika, mutsegula chitseko, kumene miyoyo yonse yosadulidwa ndi omwe mumapempha kuti mufune. Ndichifukwa chake muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito matsenga okha.

Mirror

Mosiyana ndi Baibulo lapitalo, ichi ndi choopsa kwambiri. Chifukwa chiyani? Zojambula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kuchita miyambo yamatsenga.

Pa mwambo uwu, kukonzekera kwina kumafunikira. Ndikofunikira tsiku lirilonse litadutsa dzuwa kuti liyankhule ndi munthu uyu, funsani mafunso anu kapena fotokozani vuto, zomwe mukufuna kusokoneza wakufayo. Njirayi iyenera kuchitika kuyambira masiku atatu mpaka makumi anayi. Muli ochuluka bwanji? Chilichonse chimadalira vuto, monga lamulo, panthawiyi chirichonse chimathetsedwa paokha, wakufayo amathandiza, popanda kulankhulana, ndi owopsa kwa inu. Inu nokha mudzamva kuti mwakonzekera mwambo.

Ngati mumasankha kuchita mwambo, muyenera kukhala okonzeka kutulutsa moyo. Pakati pa mwambowu, sipangakhale mantha konse, ngakhale mutayang'ana chithunzi cha wakufayo. Chilichonse chiyenera kuchitika dzuwa litalowa. Kusinkhasinkha kwanu sikuyenera kupezeka pagalasi. Muyenera kulankhula mokweza komanso molimba mtima. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti simunayanjane, funsani chikhululuko ndikuwuzani zabwino kuti mutsirize mwambo.

Njira: Ikani magalasi awiri moyang'anizana wina ndi mzake, ikani makandulo kumbali zonse, ziwonetsero zawo zisamawonekere. Pachiwonetsero makonzedwe amapangidwira, akuyatsa ndi moto wa makandulo. Magalasi sayenera kukhala ndi mawindo, zitseko, moto, madzi.

Limbikitsani munthu wakufayo kuti alankhulane molimbika komanso molimba mtima, ngati munthu sakudziwa nawe m'moyo, ndiye mutenge chinthu chake ndi chithunzi chake. Chinthu chachikulu ndikusowa mantha, chidaliro, kusunga chitetezo cha mwambo.

Pepala

Njira ina yolankhulirana ndi gulu lauzimu. Mwambo umenewu umagwiritsidwa ntchito ku matsenga amdima, monga omwe amatha. Ngati mulibe bolodi lokonzekera, mungathe kuchita nokha.

Momwe mungalankhulire ndi munthu wakufa pamapepala? Pa ichi tikusowa:

• Makandulo ang'onoang'ono okwera anayi osapatsa;
• Chiyani;
• Saucer;
• Chizindikiro, chizindikiro kapena pensulo (simungagwiritse ntchito pensulo).

Pangani bolodi lauzimu, lembani makalata mu bwalo, ayenera kukhala aakulu ndi omwe ali kutali kwambiri. Ikani makandulo pambali pa pepala, ambiri a iwo, amphamvu kwambiri.

Pamene mwakonzeka, funsani mzimu womwe mukuufuna, khalani olimbika ndi otsimikiza, kuti mukwaniritse zotsatira. Ikani chovala chanu pa saucer. Funsani mafunso anu ndipo dikirani yankho.

Kuyambira koyamba sizingagwire ntchito, muyenera kudziphunzitsa nokha. Yesani mwambo wanu usanamvetsetse bwino maganizo anu, musalole kuti maganizo anu asinthe. Zikuwoneka kuti palibe chinthu choyenera kuganizira - ndi zophweka, koma yesetsani kuchita! Zimatenga nthawi.