Mnzanu weniweni

Aliyense akudziwa kuti mnzanu wokhulupirika kwambiri kuposa chilichonse. Nthawi zambiri anthu kuti anzanu safuna iwo chifukwa iwo ali wokondedwa. Komabe, kwenikweni, chifukwa ndiwotani kapena ankakonda kwa ife, nafenso, kukhala bwenzi, ndipo kotero palibe wina pafupi iwo. bwenzi lokhulupirika osataya mtima m'nthawi yovuta, iye ndikuganiza za mmene muyenera kuti pakadali pano. Komabe, vuto ndi zambiri kuti ife zambiri kutenga mabwenzi alendo ndithu, imene nthawi zina ife kugawana zinthu wamba. Ubwenzi - ayenera kukhala moyo, osati kwa kanthawi.

Wosangalatsa kwambiri kutipatsa anzawo amene angathe ndi kukuthandizani m'nthawi yovuta ngakhale prisutstviem.Cheloveku awo nthawi zambiri ndimakonda idealize malo awo, kukamuwona bwenzi pa anthu amene si ndithu ali. Ndipo kotero chovuta zinachitikira kuperekedwa pa gawo la iwo amene anavomereza kuti moyo. Ngakhale anthu kuti bwenzi okhulupirika si adzandipereka, ife uyu si ndithu kugwirizana. Anzanga muli anthu kwambiri, ndi ubwino wake onse ndi kuipa. Ndipo chizindikiro chachikulu cha choonadi cha ubwenzi - luso kukhululuka ngakhale patapita zaka zambiri.

Monga mmene zofunika thandizo la wina ndi mnzake pa nthawi yovutayo analemba olemba ambiri ndi ndakatulo, kulankhula pa mutu wa kuperekedwa, bwenzi osiririka, etc .. Koma chidwi kwambiri fanizo la wolemba kwambiri Oscar Wilde a "Wangwiro Bwenzi" .Pritcha limayamba ndi chakuti ndimasewera mkulu anthu anayamba kulankhula za ubwenzi. Choncho, bakha, ndi Khoswe Madzi ndi Linnet mukuti adzaperekedwa ndi mnzake. Ndipo m'kamwa mwa yamasika Wilde anatituma ife nkhani yake. Padangokhala munkakhala mtundu mnyamata wina dzina lake Hans. Koposa zonse ankakonda munda wake wawung'ono ndi maluwa. Mwachibadwa, bambo wabwino ndi anzako. Komabe, ankaona wapafupi Big Miller. Ngakhale kuti iye anali wolemera kwambiri, ubwenzi wake chinali chifukwa chakuti nthawi iliyonse mutapeza m'munda Hans yaikulu maluwa, kusonkhanitsa zipatso zambiri ndi kupita kunyumba. Ndipo ine kuti ichi ndi onse Miller kuti mabwenzi enieni uwagawire onse. Komabe, iye si kuthandiza Hans, Ine anabwera kudzamuona mu nyengo yozizira, kapena anaitanidwa Hans kwawo, ubwenzi wawo osati zowawa chifukwa cha nsanje osauka mtundu wamng'ono mnyamatayo. Spring anabwera, Miller zopita ku Hans kwa maluwa. Wodzipereka bwenzi Hans anapereka Miller dengu lonse la maluwa, koma ankati akagulitsa, ndi kugulanso wilibala wanga, chifukwa m'nyengo yozizira, iye anali zolimba, ndipo iye analiyika ilo. Olemera Miller anati kuti am'patsa wake wilibala wosweka, amene Hans mokondwera kupita kukonza, chifukwa akudya chikuni gulu latsopano. Komabe, "okhulupirika" Miller anamufunsa kukonza nyumba yake komiti iyi. Hans anavomereza, ndipo anayamba kuchita zokhumba zambiri, ndi ntchito anachita kutaya m'munda wake. Decoupling kwambiri. mwana Miller anali kudwala, ndipo iye anafunsa Hans kupita kwa dokotala, ngakhale mphepo yoopsa. Ndipo ine bondo ngakhale tochi, chifukwa kamwanako akhoza nam'menya, iye latsopano mwamtheradi. Ndipo Hans, ngakhale nyengo zoipa, komabe izo kwa dokotala, koma anafa pamene ndimabwerera. Pa maliro a chisoni munthu wosauka onse chifukwa iye anali wabwino kwambiri ndi zonse kutikonda kwambiri iye. Koma makamaka chisoni Miller, popeza Hans munthu wapafupi kwambiri mu dziko, anali ndi khalidwe la mnzake ndipo anali kupita kumupatsa wilibala.

Nthano-fanizo Wilde sakanakhoza kudza njira iliyonse nkhani imeneyi. Muyenera kuti azitha kusiyanitsa mabwenzi enieni kwa anthu amene pansi pa amati ntchito zina ndipo amasangalala kukoma. Ndipo anthu awa, mwatsoka, likupitirirabe kwambiri. Anthu kuiwala kuti mu dziko, koma zofuna zawo, palinso ubwenzi, chikondi, kubwerera. Ndipotu, omwe amatha kuzindikira makhalidwe onse a pamwamba angatchedwe mabwenzi enieni.