Chibwenzi, ambiri a akazi ndi ana popanda kukwatirana. Pankhaniyi, lamulo salola monga kulowa dzina la papa satifiketi kubadwa kwa mwana. Choncho, ndondomeko imagwiridwa kukhazikitsa bambo kudzera m'makhoti kapena pa maziko kwawo. Iwo ali zina ndi mayendedwe.
Choncho, ndondomeko ya bambo zaufulu yotentha ndi pempho tonse makolo mwana. Komanso, angagwiritse ntchito pokhapokha mwana m'kaundula mu maudindo mu kaundula. Komanso, iye akhoza kulemba mawu amenewa ndi bambo ake enieni a mwanayo, ngati si mwamuna wake, iye ali pa banja. Nthawi zina zonse adzapita ku khoti. Ndiye ntchito mukhoza kugonjera mayi kapena bambo.
Ndondomeko bwalo yaitali ndipo zinadzala ndi mavuto ena, monga wozengereza Kupenda chibadwa. Mwachibadwa, ndondomeko kukhazikitsa bambo akuyamba ndi Kutengera wa amanena ndi munthu yemwe akufuna kuti pa choonadi. Njira zimenezi zili zotheka ngakhale ngati kholo limodzi sangathenso kapena akufa. Pamodzi ndi mawu zonena mkazi ali ndi ufulu kugonjera ofunsira kupereka alimony mwa wozengedwa, ngati bambo wake zatsimikiziridwa.
Kupita kukhoti, muyenera zikalata zina: buku la mawu a amanena, amene ayenera kuwerenga wotsutsana, buku la mwana satifiketi kubadwa (original kupezeka pa msonkhano), polandirira msonkho chiwombolo kuchuluka kwa ndalama za boma. Komanso, iwe uyenera kutenga thandizo ku malo a mwanayo amakhala, komanso umboni zotheka kuti akhoza kukhala maziko ndondomeko kukhazikitsa bambo. Mwina kugwirizana ndi matupi a trusteeship. Pambuyo kugonjera mapepala onse ndi kuganizira za bwalo aponda tsiku limene lidzakhala kumva waukuluwo. Pa nthawi imeneyi kusankha pa pokwaniritsa mayeso ndi kufunafuna umboni zina.
Mayeso kukhazikitsa bambo akhoza anachita isanayambe kumva walakwitsa lapansi. Tikadzifufuza imachitika mu Laboratories palokha. Ngati zinthu zamoyo akhoza kumwedwa magazi kapena chopaka ku M'mimbamo m'kamwa mwa mwana ndi akuona bambo. Mwachibadwa, njirayi linaperekedwa Koma ngati bambo zatsimikiziridwa, ulusi zinyalala angakhoze kuikidwa pa wozengedwayu. Komabe, mayeso sungathe ikuchitika mokakamiza. Pankhaniyi, woweruza chiganizo chokhala ndi umboni wina liliri, umboni uliwonse zopelekedwa za unansi wa makolo pa nthawi yomwe mayi kapena mwana akabadwa. Choncho, makutu angapo komanso kuganizira za umboni onse zopelekedwa malamulo bwalo.
Asanayambe Kuthi kudzayambitsa bambo, onetsetsani kuti kufufuza "ubwino" ndi "kuipa." mfundo ndi yakuti mu nkhani iyi, mwana zowawa, kuyambira malingaliro ake sali okonzekera mavuto amenewa. Makamaka ngati munthu m'gulu alibe kuzindikira bambo wake ndipo sakufuna chochita ndi mwana.