Nkhope mawu. nkhope ndi manja polankhulana. Language mimicry

Man - izi ndi zosangalatsa kwambiri kulenga kuti mawonetseredwe onse a mzimu, makhalidwe ndi maganizo zazindikirika ndi chidwi. Nkhope mawu Mwachitsanzo, ndingawauze anthu ambiri mfundo zosangalatsa, ngakhale iwo amakhala chete. Manja amathanso apereke boma lina. Zochitika anthu, mungaphunzire zambiri zokhudza zosangalatsa, zimene zingakuthandizeni kudziwa zoona kapena bodza, kutengeka, maganizo, ndi zina za ena. Psychology nkhope mawu kwenikweni kwambiri. Kufufuza izo bwinobwino, sikokwanira kwa nkhani imodzi kapena buku. Komabe, malamulo ndi malangizo kudzakuthandizani kudziwa osachepera zofunika "zidule" maganizo kwa m'tsogolo.

General mfundo ndi matanthauzo

Physiognomy - munthu luso la kuwerenga mu makhalidwe ake akunja, makamaka mu nkhope, nkhope yake, mbali ndi nkhope. Akhoza chimatanthauza makhalidwe umunthu ndi ena deta maganizo, ukupeza. Njira imeneyi si sayansi kotheratu, koma ambiri a iwo ndi chidwi ndi maganizo kwambiri kwa ena unali woyenerera.

Mimicry - kaonekedwe ka nkhope umene munthu amapereka awo maganizo mkati, maganizo, mtima wosangalala, maganizo ndi makhalidwe ena maganizo.

Manja - manja ndi zambiri dzanja / manja, kuti aziyendera limodzi kapena m'malo mawu payekha, kuchita iwo.

Kaimidwe - kaimidwe. Munthu akukhala, waima kapena kunama monga zosangalatsa / omasuka / omasuka naye.

Manja, kaimidwe, nkhope - onse mbali yofunika kwambiri miyoyo ya anthu. Popanda, palibe mtengo, palibe munthu mmodzi, chotero, ngati inu kuphunzira kuzindikira moyenera, ndiye moyo zidzakhala zosavuta ndi zambiri zosangalatsa. nkhope ndi manja akulumikizana ntchito ponse ndipo basi, palibe amene amatha kudziletsa iwo. Zikomo anthu lino, chidwi kwambiri ndi khutu mwayi kuphunzira anthu.

Nkhope ndi nkhope

Ndi bwino kumuuza za munthu? Kumene, munthu. Kuti angathe kupatsa munthu guts pamene amakhala mtundu wina wa kutengeka, yatikhudza chinachake, iye atagona kapena zoona, ndi zina zotero. D. chinenero Nkhope ali wolemera zosiyanasiyana. Kungakhale kovuta kukumbukira chilichonse, koma mbali yaikulu ya chimwemwe chenicheni, mwachitsanzo, kapena kukhumudwa akhoza kusungidwa mu kukumbukira. Komanso kuphunzira kubisa maganizo awo.

Ngakhale kuti anthu nkhope ndi manja n'zogwirizana, iwo tidzakambirana payokha. Chotero ndi inu apo kupita.

anachita

nkhope kwa nkhope anthu m'njira zosiyana, ndipo nthawi zambiri Tingaone mu mtima anthu. inawo, nayenso amaoneka mu zochita. Malinga ndi zizindikiro zawo inu mukhoza kuwona kuti pamoyo munthu zimene timaphunzira. vuto lagona pa mfundo yakuti ena amaopa, ena simukufuna, pamene ena manyazi kusonyeza maganizo awo. Chifukwa cha ichi, ndi nthawi muzindikire mofulumira, musanaganizire ayankhe limapezeka woyamba kwambiri. Zambiri kwathunthu kulamulira kuli kovuta, makamaka munthu wosadziwa. Choncho, kudziwa maganizo enieni a interlocutor kuti anali kale kudzera wachiwiri, osalephera, adzachotsa nkhope yanu, mungathe, ngati inu mwamsanga ndi mosamala kwambiri.

mtima

Choncho, tiyeni tipitirize. Monga tatchulawa pamwamba, nkhope polankhula ukuonekera kupyolera mwa mawu maganizo wochokera zotani. M'munsimu muli yowala ndi lapadera kwambiri iwo, ndi momwe kuwasonyeza:

• Joy, chimwemwe. Nsidze ndi pakamwa omasuka, ngodya otsiriza aukitsidwa mbali zonse, masaya, nayenso, anakweza, ndi pa mphambano za maso ang'ono makwinya.
• Mkwiyo, mkwiyo. Nsidze ndi mavuto, anawabweretsa pamodzi ndi adatchithisira, pakamwa pake mwamphamvu chatsekedwa. Nthawi zambiri mano nao pamodzi monga milomo, m'mphambano za amene ali pansi mkwiyo wamphamvu kapena kusakhutitsidwa kuyang'ana pansi.
• Chipongwe. Akumwetulira. pakamwa dera mbali anakweza ndi owoneka kuunika squint maso.
• Modzidzimutsa. Milomo ndi maso lonse omasuka, maso wakulitsidwa boma wabwinobwino, nsidze wake anawomberedwa ndi pakamwa pake lotseguka.
• Mantha. Nsidze ndi zikope chapamwamba aukitsidwa, ndi m'munsi pano, ngati zonse munthu wonse, maso ake zosatseka.
• Chisoni, chisoni. Pang'ono kuŵeramitsa zikope chapamwamba ndipo nsidze anakweza, milomo ndikakhala ndi ngodya, kuyang'ana pansi ndi kanthu zinatha kuona.
• Kudana. Yomangika ndipo anakweza chapamwamba mlomo, nsidze nao pamodzi kupanga khola ang'ono ndi pang'ono adatchithisira, masaya ake aang'ono kwambiri kukwera mmwamba, ndi mphuno pang'ono makwinya.

Mwazina, kuthana ndi maganizo kuthandiza zithunzi. Mimicry ankasonyeza zabwino posonyeza mmene mkati ndi maganizo akuonetsedwa anthu. Kumwetulira, ndi njira, si anatulukira kanthu. Kawirikawiri nkhope ali wabwino, choncho ndi mu ankafuna pamene akuyesera kuti afotokoze maganizo pa Intaneti. Pambuyo kulankhulana makamaka amapezeka makalata, amene si nthawi zonse kuti akapereke zomverera anakumana nthawi ina.

Boma la anthu

Nthawi zina zokwanira kusunga anthu ochepa kuwona chimene iwo ali. nkhope amakhudza munthu, osati kokha "munthu wolemera", komanso moyo. The owala interlocutor wanu anadzionetsa, m'pamenenso mudzatha kudziwa za izo.

- Large mphumi anthu anzeru ndi zambiri. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti chidziwitso chawo chachikulu mu zonse. Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti munthu amadziwa zambiri m'dera lina, koma kwathunthu osadziwa za ena. Ngati mnzanuyo chachikulu mphumi, koma palibe chizindikiro cha nzeru zapadera sizimawoneka, mwina chabe sanapezebe ntchito zawo.

- Kuwala maso ndi ojijirika tione zikutanthauza kumangoganizira anthu munthu / chinachake. Kawirikawiri izi zimachitika mu ana chidwi amene ali ndi chidwi mu chirichonse mu dziko. M'malo mwake, ngati pamaso pa munthu matalala ndi osayanjanitsika, ndiye, boma anali kuletsedwa, mwina pafupi maganizo.

- Ngati kuseka kuzungulira maso, pali makwinya ambiri, zikutanthauza kuti munthu wabwino, mokondwera ndi mokondwera.

- alumidwa milomo posonyeza kuti munthuyo amakonda kuganiza ndi mantha pamene zochita. Nthawi zina anthu yamba basi kotero kuchita bwino pa interlocutor, chifukwa iwo sangathe kusankha chinachake.

- Tsiku la buku, anayamba chibwano (nthawi zambiri lalikulu) chimasonyeza munthu wamphamvu chifuniro. Popeza anthu pamene kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo (ngakhale vutolo), weramitsani mmunsi mwa nkhope yake, iye akuyamba kukhala. Ndi zigonjetso pafupipafupi chibwano amakhala amphamvu ndi olimba, amene zikutsimikizira luso anthu kukwaniritsa zolinga zake. Pa mfundo imeneyi, ngati mmunsi mwa nkhope ya interlocutor zofewa, ofooka ndi underdeveloped, zikhoza kapadera kuti n'zosavuta kuti aswe. Iye samapita ku mapeto, ngati kutsogolo kwa chopinga lalikulu akuwonekera.

- The ikuluikulu nkhope convexities zosiyanasiyana, kulephera, "cavities", "zolosera", etc. (olowa masaya lofufuma kwambiri mbali imodzi, mwachitsanzo), ndi maganizo ndi Spitfire ... Iye anali mosavuta akhoza kugwera mu mkhalidwe chilakolako ndi kowala ndi ojijirika kuwaza pa zitsanzo za ena.

gesticulation

Ndipo nkhope, ndi manja akulumikizana momveka kuti ngati munthu amanena:

• makhwatha Open kusonyeza kukhulupirira omasukirana. Ngati munthu pamaso panu nthawi limasonyeza mbali mkati dzanja, ndiye iye ali kanthu kubisala kwa inu, ndipo akuona wabwino m'dera lanu. Ngati gwero nthawi zonse amabisa manja ake m'thumba mwake, iye amawatengera iwo kumbuyo kwake, kapenanso kuchita zina "mwachinsinsi" kayendedwe, mwina si zabwino kwambiri. Zimenezi zingakhale kudana inu, ndi vinyo / manyazi zochita zapitazi.
• Manja ili masaya, mukutanthauza ndinaganiza. Childs, mu nthawi ngati munthu amawonekera kwambiri za chinachake, kuyesera kupeza chochita zinthu izi, ndi zina zotero.
• Pamene mantha kapena, m'pamenenso, kusadalira kapena munthu amayamba kukhudza kwa khosi, kapena kukhala zinthu pa izo ngati m'khosi, unyolo, ndi zina zotero. D. Komanso angayambe kudziluma khasu.
• A zimawalimbikitsa mutu chimatsimikizira chilolezo. Nthawi zina anthu mosatonthozeka Nodi, kuuza pa mlingo chikumbumtima, kuti malingaliro ena kuti sanakonde. Kugwedeza mitu yawo M'malo mwake, zikutanthauza kuti munthu sakugwirizana ndi inu. Komanso mutu, nthawi zina zimachitika basi.

kuika

Open nkhope ndi manja kulankhula - ndithu zabwino, koma tiyenera kukumbukira za kugwedeza anthu kuti wina wakulanda pa kukambirana:

• Ngati munthu ali omasuka, miyendo anatambasula kutsogolo, kwa inu, kutanthauza kuti kukhazikitsidwa bwino. Mtengo chomwecho ndi chiyerekezo ku mbali ina, pamodzi ndi mpando: kumakhala kutengera kwa inu ndi kukambirana lonse.
• Nthawi zina munthu undoes mabatani, ngati osati kuchotsa zovala monga jekete. Izi zikutsimikizira chikhulupiriro chake ndi mtima wotseguka kwa inu.
• Ngati mnzanuyo ikuyandikira chinachake wodzichepetsa pepala, nthawi zambiri kuyang'ana pa nthawi ina, imakoka chogwirira, kugwedeza mwendo, pogogoda zala zanu, si kufotokoza kutengeka kwambiri ndi zina zotero. E., Choncho ndi inu si chidwi kwambiri, chifukwa zizindikiro za kusowa chochita. Kusintha nkhaniyo kapena kuyesera kubweretsa liveliness kuti kukambirana ndi.
• Miyendo anawoloka kapena zida (mikono, mwachitsanzo) amatanthawuza kutsekedwa, kudzipatula, kusafuna kulankhula ndi lotseguka. Mwina munthuyo ndi kumverera chabe wovuta, ndipo posakhalitsa boma zidzachoka, ndipo mwina ndi zosasangalatsa kukhala m'dera lanu.

Kodi choonadi ndi bodza la munthu

Ndicho chifukwa anthu ambiri amachita chidwi ndi mfundo za nkhani yathu - aliyense akufuna kudziwa momwe kuwerenga nkhope ya nkhope ya munthu, mmene kuwona pamene inu blatantly bodza, ndipo pamene ife kulankhula choonadi. Zina mwa njira kuvumbula wabodza zili m'munsimu, koma kumbukirani kuti mwina wabodza za ndale izi kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo amadziwa, choncho ntchito mwaluso ndiponso mochenjera kunyenga ena kuti mphuno udzudzu sadzakhala afooketse.

1. Munthu akamanena zabodza ana ake constrict involuntarily. Ngati inu kale nthawi muzindikire boma yoyamba ya interlocutor diso, ndiye inu kuti iye ndi wochenjera, pambuyo kuchepetsa kuwatenga ophunzira.
2. Munthu bodza, akuyang'ana kumbali. Izi zimachitika chifukwa chakuti Subconsciously sanachite manyazi nkhani zonama, iye anati.
3. Munthu wagona ndi amadziwa za njira m'mbuyomu, anali kuyang'ana mu maso. Nthawi zambiri, ziri "flirts", kuti titati kuphethira. Komanso akhoza kumupatsa wabodza.
4. View kunena mabodza munthu chimachititsanso ku chinthu chimodzi kupita ku china, popanda kuima pa chinthu chimodzi. Nthawi zina wangokhala chizindikiro cha misempha, koma koposa zonse - mabodza.
5. Chifukwa psinjika a minofu zygomatic munthu kunena mabodza pa nkhope zikuoneka ngati theka kumwetulira poluuhmylki.
6. ndione malangizo ndi kunena zoona kapena lagona munamva kwa wolankhulayo. Ngati munthu kuyang'ana kumanja, osalephera, inu anapereka conama kumanzere - choonadi. Komabe, zimenezi zikugwira ntchito ndi proviso kuti wokamba bwino-hander, mwinamwake kuwerenga chammbuyo.

chilankhulo makamaka za m'mayiko nkhope mawu ndi manja

Osati nthawi zonse kulankhula zofanana ndi zimene timachita. Kumene, ine ndikutanthauza osati chilankhulidwe cha anthu, chinenero thupi, kugwedeza ndi nkhope. Mndandanda pansipa ndi maiko yeniyeni ndi zochita pachithunzichi sindifika ku vuto ndi alendo.

Asia. Khalani diso pa manja ndi mapazi. Choyamba, musakhudze mutu wina ndi tsitsi kwa Asia ndi chinthu chopatulika munthu. Miyendo, nayenso, ndi Sikuti kupasuka, ngakhale ambiri. Ngakhale mwangozi kukhudzana (ku mbali iliyonse ya thupi) angachititse mantha, ndi mkwiyo pa mbali ya ku Asia. Ichi n'chifukwa chakuti, mosiyana ndi mutu, mapazi amaonedwa kwambiri "wochepa", umene uli thupi la munthu.

Middle East. Kweza chala chanu - ziri ngati kuti atumize munthu bulu. Ana Komabe, nthawi zambiri kusonyeza manja pofuna kunyoza ena.

Brazil. Manja "onse CHABWINO" (zikuluzikulu zikugwirizana ndi chala index kupanga ziro, ndi zina zala kumutulutsira "kunja") apa ndi za mphamvu yomweyo kuti tili chala chapakati.

Venezuela. Manja "onse CHABWINO" pano amatanthauza kudzidziwa wotero.

Italy. Manja "Mbuzi" thanthwe nyimbo apa ukuimira woukira boma ndi mwayi. Ie. Mukakhala munthu chizindikiro ichi, inu nameknote kuti amaona wathunthu chode, amene kumasintha theka lachiwiri. Kumpoto kwa Italy sangathe komanso kukhudza chibwano, chifukwa zikutanthauza kuti ngati munthu kusonyeza chala chapakati.

Fiji. chanza ndi imatengedwa amadziwika Republic, chifukwa cha zimene Sikuti mantha, ngati munthuyo dzanja lanu mu zovuta wake ndi wautali. Izi ndi monga chizindikiro cha ulemu, ndipo akhoza kwenikweni kutenga yambiri ya nthawi mpaka kumapeto kwa zokambirana.

France. Manja "onse CHABWINO" akuimira abwino kapena ayi, ndipo pochosyvanie chibwano - chala chomwecho.

Pomaliza

Kotero, tsopano inu mukudziwa zimene ntchito mu moyo wa munthu umagwira mimicry nkhope ndi manja, kaimidwe ndi makhalidwe ena thupi amene n'kovuta. Kumene, akatswiri monga PBS kapena FBI wothandizila musati zimapezeka mu mkhalidwe yomata, koma ngati chilengedwe si membala wa mabwenzi "ozizira", nthawi zonse athe "werengani" munthu ndi kuphunzira zimene zinachitikazo.