Ntchito kwa amayi apakati

Ntchito ndi ntchito n'kofunika kwambiri pamoyo wathu chifukwa amathandiza kukwaniritsa katundu anthu zinthu zimene ziri zofunika kwa moyo wathu. Masiku ano, amuna ndi akazi pa maziko ofanana adagwirizana, osati mmodzi wa iwo anali zazikulu "breadwinner" m'banja, koma munthu - ndi afterthought. Amuna amayamba ntchito yawo kuyambira bungwe ndipo, monga ulamuliro, mpaka pantchito yake. Akazi "unachotsa" ntchito pa mimba ndi kubereka ana. Koma pali ena mwa kugonana chilungamo, amene ntchito mpaka kubadwa.

Taganizirani zimene mtundu wa mbali adzakhala ntchito kwa amayi apakati. Kodi zosiyana ndi mfundo ziti kuyang'ana kwa mayi woyembekezera. The mbali zabwino - ndi ntchito kwa amayi apakati zimawathandiza otsimikiza kwambiri, sanasokonezedwe ndi zosafunika akumusokoneza malingaliro okhudzana ndi pakati komanso pobereka, kusunga zoyenera ndi yogwira moyo. Mu dziko lathu, malamulo amapereka chodwala ndi umayi tchuthi (umayi tchuthi) pafupifupi 30 masabata mimba. Koma zimenezi sizikutanthauza kuti mayi woyembekezera m'mbuyomo 7 miyezi adzakhala kayendedwe ka ntchito. Choncho ndikofunikira yomweyo kambiranani awo ndi kasamalidwe ka kampani ndi kukhazikitsa zambiri okhulupirika kwa dongosolo.

Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti thanzi tsogolo la mwanayo zimadalira thanzi ndi boma maganizo a mkazi wapakati, kotero kuti timakhala ndi khalidwe la munthu si koyenera.

Choyamba, ntchito kwa amayi apakati sayenera kubweretsa mavuto ndiponso Komanso ali ndi khalidwe loopsa. Ngati amagwirizana ndi zitsulo, kukhudzana ndi zinthu woopsawo, kukagwira ntchito pafupipafupi, m'pofunika kusiya zinthu zimenezi osachepera pa trimester mimba. Mu nthawi iyi pali kuzindikira latsopano la dziko la thupi, kukhazikitsidwa kwa udindo watsopano, akazi apakati zambiri wakuyiwala, ankakhala moyo wotayirira, ndi kuchepetsedwa mphamvu aluntha. Koma pangano yake ndi akuluakulu kudzatithandiza kupewa kusamvetsetsana zosiyanasiyana.

Komabe, osati mtsogoleri aliyense wagwirizana asintha. Pali anthu amene amakhulupirira kuti ntchito si yabwino kwa amayi apakati, mwadala adzakhala kusokoneza kuti mkazi anabalalitsa pa pempho lawo (kusamukira usiku, kulenga buku lalikulu ntchito, ndikutumiza ulendo osayembekezereka kapena holide kuchipatala antenatal). Koma musataye chotero akatiputa, ndipo ndi bwino kufunsa loya.

An Mwina bwana abalalitse mkazi basi chifukwa cha mimba yake, kotero ndi mavuto oterowo ndithu kuthetsedwa. M'pofunika bwino kuonetsetsa nthawi yanu. Ngati amakhala ndi ntchito amangokhala, ntchito pa kompyuta, inu muyenera kuti azipumira lalifupi, kuwuka kuchokera m'mipando yawo, ngati mphindi zosachepera ochepa zotheka kupuma mpweya wabwino. Zokhwasula-khwasula ndi tiyi ali osavomerezeka. Ndi bwino kupita nkhomaliro ku chipinda chodyera kapena kutenga msuzi kunyumba. Tiyenera kuyesa kuti alowe mavuto, musakhale mantha ndi Safunsa mawu anu.

Chinthu chachikulu tiyenera kukumbukira kuti ntchito kwa amayi apakati zingabweretse mavuto ndi kungasokoneze thanzi. Ngati si kutali ndi kwawo ndi mwayi woti ndifike pa phazi osati mabasi ndi magalimoto, ndi bwino kupita oyambirira ndi kuyenda. Pambuyo khalidwe yogwira n'kopindulitsa thanzi la mayi woyembekezera. Nthawi zambiri oyembekezera kachiwiri kumachitika pamene kuchoka kwa mwana woyamba sali pa panobe. Pankhaniyi muyenera pepala kampani latsopano, ndi chitonthozo cha m'nthawi tchuthi umayi, kuyamba yachiwiri.

Ngati mkazi nayo nthawi kuti tipite ku ntchito ndi woyembekezera kachiwiri, iye mwapatsidwa umayi tchuthi ndi sabata 30. Komabe ntchito kapena ayi woyembekezera, mkazi aliyense kudzisankhira lokha. Ngati mwachita bwino ndi kwathunthu n'zogwirizana. Ntchito pa mimba akhoza kubweretsa mfundo osati kukhuta, komanso chidaliro maganizo. Chinthu chachikulu kusamalira thanzi lawo ndi bwino!