Nzeru zothandiza mayi ano achinyamata

zaka za - nthawi zambiri, nthawi zina mwakuti ndikufuna kulira ndi kuiwala, sindikudziwa kuti akhulupirire chiyani.

Ndipo chochita ndi mayi uyu onse achinyamata amene anali atangobwera anatola mu mikono yake munthu pang'ono? Kodi chinthu chofunika kwambiri, ndi zimene sitiyenera kuiwala mayi, kusamalira mwana wa mbuzi?

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri imeneyi ndi kukhala bata! Sangalalani mphindi imene ndi mwana. Ndipotu, mphindi awa sali mobwerezabwereza. N'chifukwa chake kudzilola kumasuka ndi kusangalala amayi.

Mkubwela kwa mwanayo kabwerebwere moyo zikusintha kwambiri. Poyamba iye ankakhala moyo womwewo, ndipo tsopano mayi wachitsikana akuyamba wina wowala zonse m'moyo. Ndipo nzeru ya loyamba limati motere: ". Mungayembekezere okha mphamvu zawo" Ndipo akonzekereni yakuti si aliyense mnzanu yabwino kapena bwenzi adzaponya zinthu zawo ndi kuthamangira thandizo lanu. Osati aliyense ndi wokonzeka kusintha bwino chitonthozo zone ndi kusiya zochita zawo kuwononga moyo wawo. Choncho umakhala nokha zimene mtundu wa zinthu mungachite nokha ndi mwana, ndi amene ayenera kupereka kwa mwamuna wake, achibale komanso anzake. Mwina nthawi yoyamba, iwo sadzakhala wokondwa, koma mwanayo asinthe maganizo ndi cholinga chawo kwa dziko.

Nzeru awiri: "Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti ndiwe mkazi kuti mayi anga ndi mkazi, ndi mbuye, ndi mbuye, ndi mwana wamkazi, ndi bwenzi ..." Osati workhorse! Ndipo ngati inu muli ina anachiphonya icho, ukatenge mu dzanja. Koma iweyo akhoza kumvetsa, kuthandiza komanso kulimbikitsa.

Kuchokera ili motere nzeru lachitatu: "Iwo nthawizonse kukhala ndi chikusintha." Ndiyamika umisiri mfundo zaka, chitukuko kwasanduka masewero osangalatsa. Ndipo Chofunika, izo zonse kwaulere. Ife sitikusowa ndalama zambiri, chirichonse chiri pa Intaneti kapena mabuku. makalasi kwambiri mbuye kwa kuluka, nsalu, kusoka, scrapbooking, olimba, anati yoga ndi zina zambiri.

Intaneti ndi injini kufufuza ndi tikungoyembekezera inu kutayipa lemba ankafuna. Ndipo zonse izi zikhoza kuchita popanda kuchoka panyumba pathu. mwana wanu alipo wokondwa kuti mayi ake nawonso pafupi. Ndipo ngati munali ndi ufulu yokha ndi mumakonda kuwerenga, pitani m'dera laibulale ndodo tsopano akuyesera kudzaza bookshelves zaluso atsopano. Mwina mukhoza kupeza zinthu zothandiza kuti mwana wanu ndi nokha. Mwachitsanzo, kudabwa kudzikondweretsa zophikira ananena katswiri ku Cookbook, amene anatenga mu laibulale.

Nzeru chachinayi: "Lekani nokha mlandu." KHANDA likulira, mulibe mphamvu kupita, ndipo inu mlandu pa zimenezo? Akuda zovala pena paliponse masiku angapo, ndi kutsuka mbale sindikufuna? Ndipo tiyeni. Musalole kukhala wangwiro, koma mkazi chabe ofooka amene akufuna kukhala yekha. Ngati mlungu wagonjetsedwa inu, kupeza mphamvu kuyesa kusamukira nyimbo, kuyimba nyimbo mumaikonda ngakhale si lullaby, ndi madzulo abwino ndi othandiza kwa amasamba ofunda ndi makandulo onunkhira.

Ndipo bungwe chachisanu penyani chithunzi awo. Daily thupi, izo chidaliro zambiri, mudzatha kuti abwerenso elasticity wa thupi lanu atabereka kukhala wowawa. Mwana wamng'ono amafunika kwambiri chidwi, ndi mota kuti cipo watopa. Ndicho chifukwa inu kukhala wamphamvu jenereta kuti adzakusamalirani ndi kuligonjetsa mphamvu zawo zonse okondedwa awo

Ndipo nzeru otsiriza, tsatani mtima wanu. Sikuti kupita ndi zofuna zawo, nsembe awo, mukuyembekezera kuti munthu angayamikire khama lanu. Kumbukirani: "Palibe angayamikire." Aliyense amakhala wotanganidwa kwambiri ndi iwo eni. Choncho, nthaŵi nokha. Wodalitsika ndinu, okondedwa anu osangalala.