Single bambo: chochita pamene mayi anasiya banja

Mwamwayi, mu dziko lathu, azibambo amaonedwa osowa. Malinga ndi kafukufuku, likukhalira kuti akazi zana ndi makumi asanu alikulamusa mwana yekha, pali umodzi bambo wina. Koma pali abambo amene sangathe kapena sakufuna kupatsa angamulerere mwana mayi ake.

Moyo ndi wankhanza zina amayi paokha sangathe kapena sakufuna kuphunzitsa ana awo. bambo Lone Willy-nilly kuchita naye ana awo. Komanso zimachitika kuti munthu akhala wamasiye, pamene kwambiri. Ndipotu, muyenera kuti mulimbane ndi imfa ndipo pitiliza osati maudindo pansi ndisamalire banja, komanso onse zapakhomo, kusewera ndi ana, kuphika, kuchapa, zovala.

Single bambo ayenera kuganizira pa moyo wake ndiponso kutsatira mfundo zotsatirazi zimene zingamuthandize kuti moyo mosavuta:

1. Activities sayenera kumwedwa ndi mwanayo ntchito. Mwana ikukula, kusintha, iye ndi zoseketsa chenicheni, limatiuza nkhani yosangalatsa ya moyo wake. Iye ndi chozizwitsa, chimwemwe, kuwala ndi chimwemwe.
2. Musaphwanye mwamsanga kukhala superpapoy. Choyamba muyenera kumvetsera nokha ndi mwana, ganizilani mphamvu zawo, samazindikira pa chilichonse. Experience akubwera ndi nthawi.
3. Mfundo yoti akazi - amayi titadziwa zolakwika. Ambiri achitsikana kubwera mu banja, sankadziwa mmene kuphika, asunge nyumbayo, kugawira bajeti. Iwo kuphunzira dongosolo lonse. Choncho, munthu angathe kulimbana ndi udindo onse.
4. Pakuti starters, mukhoza kupanga mndandanda, chomwe chidzachitike mu nkhani zonse zimene ayenera kuchita mu sabata. Wachina chilichonse adzakhala anawoloka kunja pang'onopang'ono, idzakhala nthawi nokha.
5. Ngati mkazi anaponya banja, bambo adzayenera kusiya madandaulo awo onse. Ndipotu mwana motero afika kwambiri ndi nkhawa, choncho sanafunike kumva zimene mai oipa. Ndi bwino kufotokoza zimene amayi kwenikweni anayenera kusiya. Pamene mayi anga anamwalira, iwe uyenera kunena choonadi, kufotokoza kuti mayi anga nthawi zonse, iye amayang'ana pa mwana ndi mtambo, uku akumwetulira pa iye. Mulimonsemo, mwana poona anasiya, choncho m'pofunika anazungulira mosamala. Utenge lumbiriro kuti inu simudzakhala kutaya mwana, musati azipita, ndipo sadzafa, chifukwa crumb adzachita mantha kwambiri, kuti inunso mukhoza kutero.
6. bambo Single zambiri vuto la kaya kukwatiwa osachepera chifukwa cha mwanayo. Mungathe kuitana ndi wantchito kapena au awiri, koma kukwatira zongofuna kuti anali kusamalira ana, si koyenera. Koma ngati pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi paubwenzi moona mtima, inu ayesetse formalize Relations.
7. Ngati bambo limodzi ndi mwana wamkazi, nthawi zina amaopa kuti chidzakhala chinachake kwa concede anzawo, chifukwa ulibe chikondi akuchikazi. Mulimonsemo, ana kwa mabanja a kholo limodzi ndi osiyana ndi ana ena. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti iwo ali otsika. Mtsikanayo amadziwa kuti ndizicheza ndi munthu amene adzatha azikagogoda msomali ndi kukonza vavu. Izi ndizo chapadera pakati pa atsikana ena. Tiyenera kuyesetsa kukhala ndi ubwenzi wawo ndi mwana wake wamkazi. Yankhani mafunso ake okhudza nkhani za jenda, kupereka malangizo pa chisamaliro (mukhoza kale kuti kukaonana ndi akazi kapena kuwerenga mabuku wapadera) kuthandiza kusankha zovala.
8. Kodi ayi kusamalira okondedwa, abale, abwenzi anzake. Osada kumanga kuchokera amphamvu ndi wamphamvuzonse bambo wa banja. M'pofunika mokwanira kuwunika mphamvu zawo. Ngati mnansi pensioner ndi okonzeka kuona mwanayo, akuvomereza. Angagwirizanitse mwana kuthandiza mozungulira nyumba, adzapita athandize anthu onse.
9. M'pofunikanso kuphunzira za thandizo kuti akhoza kukhala boma. Ngati ndinu kholo limodzi, ubwino adzaphedwa Mulimonsemo. Only Mwaichi izo zidzakhala zofunikira kusonkhanitsa zambiri ndi zikalata.

Mulimonsemo, simuyenera kukhumudwa ndiponso kuti musalefuke. Moyo umapitilira. Nearby pali mwana, kumene ndi gawo lanu. Mu dziko muli ambiri wachifundo ndi zabwino anthu amene adzakhala okondwa kuthandiza bambo yekhayo.