Timawulula zinsinsi za anthu opambana

N'zosatheka kuti padziko lonse padzakhala munthu mmodzi yemwe sangakhale ndi moyo wolemera, wolemera, wolemera. Zoona, kwa ena, malotowo sungatheke, pamene ena amakwaniritsa zotsatira. Koma n'chifukwa chiyani izi zili choncho? Wina akhoza kunena kuti munthu aliyense amayembekeza m'moyo zomwe zalembedwa pa iye.

Musataye nthawi yolota za zosatheka, ngati mwabadwira kukhala wopemphapempha. Wolota wagona pabedi ndikuganiza kuti mawa thumba la ndalama lidzagwa pamutu pake. Ndipo apa, pa kama. Ndipo apa iye ali, wolemera kale ndi wodziimira, akuyamba kugwiritsa ntchito chuma cholandiridwa pa zokondweretsa zake zokha. Zindikirani, nokha. Zolinga za wolota wotere siziphatikizapo maganizo othandizira ana amasiye kapena osauka okalamba. Pachifukwa ichi, ngakhale mu ndondomeko zowonjezera ndalama, zinthu zopanda malire zikuphatikizidwa.

Kodi pali zinsinsi za kupambana mu moyo? Mwinamwake iwo anapangidwa ndi iwo amene adzalandire chuma ndi ulemerero ngakhale atabadwa? Ndipotu, zinsinsi za kupambana zilipo. Wolota aliyense atagona pa sofa ayenera kudziwa kuti n'zotheka kuzindikira maloto ake pokhapokha ngati mtengo wa ntchito yovuta ya tsiku ndi tsiku ndi yovuta. Choyamba, pamwamba pawekha - zikhumbo zanu, zizoloŵezi, zilakolako zanu.

Zinsinsi za kupambana kwa anthu abwino zimapezeka kwa aliyense. Phunzirani Mosamala Anthu ambiri otchuka ndi opambana. Mwazidziwikiratu, iwo anayamba ndi umphaŵi, ndipo nthawi zonse sankasamba njira zawo ndi maluwa. Koma chikhumbo chozindikira maloto awo okondedwa mwa anthuwa ndi amphamvu kwambiri kuti akalakwitsa, samaima ndipo samatsegula njira yosankhidwayo.

N'zovuta kukhulupirira olota malingaliro, koma zinsinsi za kupambana kwa anthu apamwamba ndikuti akugwira ntchito mwakhama komanso molimbikira njira yopita ku loto. Iwo amapanga zolakwitsa ndi kugwa, koma kachiwiri amadzuka ndi kupitiliza kusunthira ku cholinga chomwe akufuna.

Ambiri amakhulupirira zinsinsi za kupambana kwa anthu apamwamba - mu maphunziro abwino, omwe amapezeka m'mayunivesites apamwamba padziko lonse lapansi. Komabe, mawu awa akhoza kutsutsana. Inde, maphunziro a anthu amasiku ano amawathandiza kwambiri, koma kumbukirani Steve Jobs, yemwe adaphunzira ku yunivesite kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, koma izi sizinalepheretse kutsegulira zojambula ndi mafoni.

Kapena wina, chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri. Henry Ford, yemwe alibe maphunziro apamwamba, apanga chisokonezo chodabwitsa mu kupanga magalimoto. John D. Rockefeller anasiya sukuluyo kuti ayambe kugwira ntchito. William Shakespeare sanalandire ngakhale sukulu yophunzira, koma kwa zaka zingapo ntchito zake zimaonedwa ngati zodziwika bwino zofalitsa za padziko lapansi.

Masiku ano, zinsinsi za kupambana kwa anthu apamwamba zimatsimikizidwanso ndikuti iwo amagulitsa ndalama zoyamba mwa iwo okha - masemina osiyanasiyana, maphunziro apamwamba akhoza kukhala chuma chenicheni kwa munthu wopusa. Anthu opambana sadziwa mantha omwe nthawi zina amawaletsa kuti apange chitsogozo chofunikira komanso choyenera kuti apambane. Akalakwitsa, amaphunzirapo ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito zomwe adalandira (ngakhale zoipa) panjira yawo yopita ku cholinga chomwe akufuna.