Ubale. Kodi wachibale wapamtima ndani?

Banja ndi selo laling'ono la anthu amakono. Makhalidwe abwino a kampaniyi ndi ofunika kwa munthu, chifukwa popanda moyo wawo umakhala wotsika, wochepa. Kuti muzitchula bwino mamembala ambiri a banja lalikulu, muyenera kumvetsa chiyanjanocho.

Timakufotokozerani zomwe zingakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa yemwe ali wachibale wanu, komanso yemwe si wa mtundu wake. Ngati poyamba chiyanjano chonse cha ubale chinali chofunika kwambiri ndi kuphunzira, ndiye m'masiku ano, chidziwitso ichi chataya pang'ono. Tidzayesa kuyika zonse mu dongosolo.

Nchifukwa chiyani mukufunikira kudziwa mtundu wa maubwenzi apabanja?

Posachedwapa, mabanja anali akulu, ndipo mibadwo yambiri ya achibale ndi achibale angakhale m'nyumba imodzi kamodzi. Anthu amtundu umodzi amakhala ndi ubale wapamtima. Iwo nthawizonse anali ndi makhalidwe ofanana, nkhawa, zosowa. Poyambirira, mawu awa "amawoneka ngati amalume, ngati madontho atatu a madzi," amasonyeza kuti mphwake ndi amalume ndio wachibale. Masiku ano, mfundo za banja zimapita kumbuyo, ndipo tsopano anthu ambiri amadziwa ubalewo kwa abale ndi alongo okhaokha, osakumbukira abambo ndi azibale awo.

Kodi maulumikizi adagawanika bwanji?

Zimavomerezedwa kugawanitsa ziyanjano zonse za banja ku magulu atatu akulu:

- chiyanjano ndi magazi, ndiko kuti, achibale apamtima;

- Amakhalidwe apamanja - okwatirana;

Kulumikizana kosagwirizana.

Zotsatira zofanana: masamba a mbiriyakale

Tiyeni tifufuze chithunzi chovuta cha chiyanjano choyendetsa chiyanjano cha mabanja osiyanasiyana ndikupita ku dikishonale.

Tiyeni tiyambe ndi lingaliro ngati makolo. Zimamveka ngati mayi ndi bambo. Papa (mwa chizoloŵezi chowonetsa: bambo, bambo, dyatka, abambo, apongozi, abambo, abambo, abambo, abambo) ndi mwamuna wokhudzana ndi ana ake omwe. Amayi (amayi, amayi, amayi, amayi, amayi, amayi) ndi mkazi wofanana ndi ana omwewo.

Ana ndi mawu omwe amasonyeza ana aakazi ndi ana. Mwana wamwamuna (mwana, mwana, mwana, mwana, sonul) ndi mnyamata, mnyamata, mwamuna wofanana ndi makolo ake omwe. Mwana wamkazi (mwana wamkazi, mwana wamkazi, mwana wamkazi, mwana wamkazi, mwana wamkazi) - msungwana, mtsikana, mkazi wokhudzana ndi amayi ake ndi abambo ake.

Ana opirarital (abambo, apathengo, amasiye, bezbatezhnye, achigololo) ndi omwe makolo awo sanakwatire asanabadwe. Ampatuko ku Middle Ages kumadzulo kwa Ulaya amatchedwa ana apathengo a anthu, monga Mfumu, Mfumu. Posachedwapa, mawu awa adapeza chinthu choipa ndi chokhumudwitsa - ziphuphu. M'zaka za m'ma 19-20, ana omwe anabadwa asanalowe m'banja, kunali chizoloŵezi chotcha kugogoda. Ndipo iwo obadwa mwa mamembala a banja lachifumu (achifumu) ndi anthu omwe si achifumu ankawatcha morganatic. Ana oterewa analibe ufulu wotsatizana, iwo sanazindikire kupezeka kwa mwazi wamfumu.

Ubale wa Banja Kupyolera M'badwo

Chiyanjano kudzera mu mbadwo umathandizira kumvetsetsa pamene abambo ndi amai adzakhala ndi udindo watsopano: agogo ndi agogo.

Agogo a agogo (agogo awo agogo, agogo awo agogo, agogo awo aakazi) ndi mwamuna wosiyana ndi ana a mwana wake wamkazi kapena mwana wamwamuna, abambo a amayi kapena abambo, amuna a agogo aakazi.

Agogo aakazi (agogo, agogo, aakazi, ba, agogo) - mkazi wokhudzana ndi ana a mwana wake wamkazi kapena mwana wamwamuna, komanso agogo ake a agogo ake. Mzukulu wamwamuna ndi mnyamata, mnyamata, mwamuna wokhuzana ndi agogo ake aamuna, kuphatikizapo, ndiye mwana wa mchemwali kapena mphwake. Agogo (kapena mdzukulu) - msungwana, mtsikana, mkazi wokhudzana ndi agogo aakazi, akhoza kukhala mwana wa mchemwali kapena mphwake.

Ndipo apa pali achibale, mndandanda wa zomwe zimasamutsidwa mibadwo yambiri. Agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo aakazi aganiziranso mwamuna poyerekeza ndi ana a mdzukulu kapena mdzukulu, uyu ndiye atate wa agogo kapena agogo ake.

Agogo-agogo (agogo aakazi) amatanthauza mkazi wokhudzana ndi ana a mdzukulu wake kapena mdzukulu wake, uyu ndi agogo a kholo lirilonse (amayi kapena abambo).

Mzukulu wamwamuna adzakhala mnyamata, mnyamata, mwamuna wokhudzana ndi agogo ake aakazi ndi agogo-agogo ake, uyu ndi mwana wa mdzukulu kapena mdzukulu. Mzukulu wamwamuna amawonedwa ngati msungwana, mtsikana, mkazi wokhudzana ndi agogo ake aakazi ndi agogo-agogo aamuna, mdzukulu wa mwana wake wamwamuna kapena wamkazi.

Ubale wa banja pambuyo pa mibadwo yambiri

Makolo akale amaonedwa kuti ndi akale kwambiri omwe amatsogoleredwa ndi mtundu uwu, kuphatikizapo, wina aliyense wochokera ku mibadwo yonse yapitayi. Abambo ndi atate wa agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo. Mlamu ake ndi amayi a agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-agogo-aamuna, kholo lakutali.

Agogo ndi kholo, ndiko kuti, kholo ndilo woimira wotchuka kwambiri, ndipo mzere wawo unachokera kwa iye. Tate (amayi ndi amayi, kholo) ndiye mtsogoleri woyambirira wa mtundu, yemwe mbadwo wawo unayambira.

Wopereka ndalama (deposit) ndi munthu yemwe mwana wakeyo amalembedwa. Mbeu (mbeu) ndi munthu amene amabwera kuchokera kubadwa. Achibale ndi oimira mibadwo yotsatira. Ndizosangalatsa kuzindikira kuti pali zifukwa zoterezi mu mndandanda monga prana) kvnuchka, (pra) kababka, (pr) ked, (pra) kvnuk, zomwe makolo ndi mbadwa zimatanthawuza kudzera m'badwo woyamba.

Achibale a magazi mu mabadwidwe a Chirasha amawerengedwa kuti akuwonekera mwachindunji mwa ubale wokha mu mzere wamwamuna. Mfundo yakuti "kuchokera kwa bambo kupita kwa mwana" imatsika ndipo ikuwonetseratu bwino kuti nthawi yina ya udindo wa amuna ndi apamwamba, sizinayambe kupyolera mwa amai (amayi). Makolo onse ndi makolo pambali ya amai (amayi) sizolumikizana mwachindunji, ndiko kuti, amakhala omaliza komanso obadwa mwachindunji mzere wawo. Pali chinthu chonga "kusokoneza banja," kutanthauza kupezeka kwa ana m'banjamo. Monga zitsanzo za kudziwitsidwa kwa ubale weniweni, malamulo a kutsatizana angaganizidwe.

Kodi chiyanjano cha mwazi chosadziwika ndi chiyani?

Ngati mchimwene ndi mlongo ali ndi bambo ndi amayi amodzi, ndiye kuti amaonedwa ngati amagazi, odzaza magazi. Mbale amatchedwa mnyamata, mnyamata, mwamuna wokhudzana ndi ana ena, ngati makolo awo ali ofanana. Mkuluyo amadziwika ngati mnyamata m'banja, ali ndi zaka zambiri poyerekezera ndi ana ena a papa yemwe ndi amayi omwewo. Wachinyamata adzakhala mnyamata, yemwe msinkhu wake ndi wochepa poyerekeza ndi ena. Chikhalidwe chachikulu ndi makolo omwewo.

Wokwatiwa akutchedwa m'bale yemwe anabadwa asanakwatirane, koma amadziwika ngati kholo ndi mwana wake. Mlongo ndi msungwana, mtsikana, mkazi wokhudzana ndi ana ena (ana) omwe anabadwa ndi kholo limodzi. Okalamba adzakhala msungwana (mtsikana, mkazi), amene zaka zake ndi zazikulu kuposa za ana ena. Apa akugwiritsanso ntchito kuti ana onse azibadwa ndi makolo omwewo. Wamng'ono amamuyitana mtsikana (mtsikana, mkazi) wobadwa m'banja lachiwiri. Mlongo amene anaitanidwa m'masiku akale ankatchedwa mlongo, yemwe anabadwa asanakwatirane pakati pa makolo, ndiko kuti, asanakwatirane, koma sanasiye mwanayo.

Achibale ake ndi mapasa. Kodi amatchedwa ndani? Iwo amaonedwa kuti ndi ana a mayi mmodzi, amene anabala ana angapo m'mimba imodzi. Pali mapasa omwe ali ndi kugonana limodzi, komanso zofanana zofanana. Ndipo pali raznoyaytsevye, yomwe ingakhale yosiyana ndi kugonana. Nthawi zina, mapasa amamvetsetsa alongo okhaokha kapena abale awo ofanana, ndipo akalulu amachitidwa kuti ndi atatu, mapasa, amapatsidwa manambala.

Sibs (abale) ndilo liwu lotanthawuzira kutchula alongo ndi abale (mu mgwirizano pakati pawo) omwe amachokera kwa makolo osakwatira, pamene sakukhala mapasa. Abale osakwanira ndi ana omwe ali ndi kholo limodzi (amayi kapena abambo). Pali kusiyana pakati pa anthu osauka m'magulu angapo:

- mwazi umodzi (theka-magazi), ndiko kuti, wochokera kwa amayi osiyana, koma kuchokera kwa papa wina;

- chiberekero chimodzi (chiberekero chimodzi), ndiko kuti, chochokera kwa apapa osiyanasiyana ndi amayi amodzi.

Pali ubale pakati pa alongo ndi abale. Mwachidule, iwo amatanthauza omwe makolo awo ali okwatirana mwalamulo, koma alibe ana wamba. Mwinamwake, kusiyana kotere kwa mabanja, ndiko kuti, achibale otere monga mlongo ndi mchimwene wake, kuyambira pa chikhalidwe cha anthu, mkhalidwe walamulo, amawoneka ngati ubale wa magazi. Zikuganiziridwa kuti maubwenzi apamtima pakati pa genera amawoneka ngati apadera mpaka makolo awo ali ndi ana achibadwa, omwe ndi achibale awo ang'onoang'ono ndi theka. Kupyolera mwa anawo, onse adzakhala magazi, monga mbadwa zachindunji, komanso mbadwa za abale awo, abale ndi alongo awo, adzakhala otere, ndizogwirizana ndi makolo (pambuyo pa mbadwo, ndi alongo ndi abale okha, komanso Pakati pawo.

Azibale ake

Abale apamtima omwe takambiranawo ndi mndandanda wazing'ono zomwe zimakhala ndi maonekedwe a mtundu uliwonse.

Tiyeni tione mgwirizano pakati pa msuwani. Kotero, ngati tiwona ana m'mabanja omwe adalengedwa ndi mbale ndi mlongo, ndiye kuti adzakhala asuwani kwa wina ndi mnzake. Msuweni ndi mnyamata (mnyamata, mwamuna) ponena za ana a azakhali ake kapena amalume ake, choncho amamutcha mwana wa amalume ake kapena amalume ake.

Poyambirira, msuweni wa bambo ake, ndiko kuti, mwana wa amalume ake, amatchedwa Strychich, ndipo malinga ndi amayi ake - uychich. Cousin amamuyitana mtsikana, mtsikana, mkazi ponena za ana a agogo ake a abambo ake, ndiye mwana wamkazi wa amalume ake kapena amalume ake. Kalekale, ankakonda kwambiri dzina lake strychka.

Msuweni wachiwiri ndi msuwani wake

Tiyeni tiyese kupeza yemwe ali wachibale pa msuweni wachiwiri. Ana a msuweni ndi abale omwe ali pachibwenzi amatchedwa abambo ake achiwiri. Dzina limeneli ndi mdzukulu wa mlongo kapena mbale, komanso msuweni wa msuwani, mayi kapena bambo, mwana wa msuweni wake kapena amalume ake. Msuweni wachiwiri mu mzera wawo ndi mdzukulu wa mlongoyo kapena mchimwene wa agogo kapena agogo aamuna, amamuonanso kuti ndi mwana wamkazi wa agogo ake aamuna kapena aakazi awo.

Sikuti aliyense amadziwa mgwirizano wa banja lawo. Ndani ali m'badwo wachinayi? Mchimwene wanga ndi mlongo wa makolo wamba, achibale omwe ali ndi agogo aamuna, abambo ake achibale omwe ali ndi agogo-agogo ndi agogo-agogo aakazi ... N'zotheka kupitiliza, koma chidziwitso cha mgwirizano ndi chodziwikiratu. Kuyambira m'badwo wachinayi, amayesa kufotokoza chiwerengero cha "mawondo" omwe alipo pakati pa achibale awo. Lingaliro lofanana ndi msuweni (msuweni), mwa kuchita, ali ndi tanthauzo lalikulu kwambiri kuposa kukhala losavuta kwa msuweni kapena mbale. Pakati pa zaka za m'ma Middle Ages ku nyumba zamakono za ku Ulaya, kuphatikizapo dzina lamakono la mzere womwewo, pokhala a m'badwo wofanana, lingaliro limeneli linagwiritsidwanso ntchito kwa achibale ochepa a m'badwo wotsiriza, ngati zaka zinali zofanana.

Mfundo yofananayi ikuwonetsedwa m'buku la mbiri ya M. Druon "Kings Damned", kumene "msuweni" akuwerengera Robert Artois amatchedwa mlongo quaternary - mfumukazi ya ku England Isabella. Komanso, mawuwa amapezeka m'mafilimu akunja, ngakhale kuti masiku athu ano sakhala ozoloŵera, chifukwa ndi ovomerezeka kuti anthu osadziwa kuti akhale mlongo (nthawi zambiri mawu akuti "msuweni" samachotsedwa). Komabe, zosankha zonsezi ndi zolondola, motero sizowononga iwo omwe satsatira mawu oti "cousin".

Mibadwo Yozungulira

Gome la ziyanjano za ubale limasonyeza unyolo pakati pa mibadwo yosiyanasiyana, koma kodi achibale amachitcha chiyani m'mibadwo yoyandikana nayo? Ui-omwe ankatchedwa mchimwene wa mayi. Strya ndi mlongo wa bambo ake, ndipo mwamsanga ndi m'bale wake. Vuin ndi mlongo wa amayi. Pakalipano, mayina oterewa sapezeka, iwo achoka Chirasha, omwe kale anali olemera kwambiri. M'masiku akale mphwake wa mchimwene wake, mwana wamwamuna, anali kutchedwa m'bale. Mwinamwake, ndi kutengeka kwa mawu kwa chiyanjano cha achibale awo ndipo kunachititsa kuti kuphweka kwakukulu.

Masiku ano, malingaliro ena sakugwiritsidwa bwino ntchito pa cholinga chawo, popeza anthu ochepa masiku ano akugwirizanitsa ndi maubwenzi awo, mayina awo achikale achi Russia. Sestrich - motero m'masiku akale adayitana mphwake wawo ndi mlongoyo. Dzina la munthu wothamanga dzina lake linali mwana wa m'bale wake kapena mwana wamkazi wa mbale wake. Stryj wamng'ono - dzina limeneli linali m'zaka zapitazi kwa amalume ake aamuna, ndiye mnyamata (mnyamata, mwamuna) ponena za ana a msuwani kapena mbale.

Kodi ana a achibale amwazi amatchedwa bwanji, komanso azibale ake ndi abale a makolo? Dzerich - ndi momwe adatchulira mchemwali wawo, ndipo aakazi amatcha mwana wawo wamwamuna. Msuweni wachiwiri ndi mtsikana wokhudzana ndi ana a msuweni wachiwiri kapena msuweni wachiwiri, komanso msuweni wachiwiri wa amayi kapena abambo.

Makolo (achibale kupyolera mwa mibadwo), mwachitsanzo, alongo ndi abambo a agogo ndi agogo ake, ndi chimphona chokalamba, asanatchule agogo awo aamuna aakulu. Pali munthu wachikulire, ndiye, amalume ake (wamng'ono). Amayi ake aang'ono ndi agogo ake aakazi, amayi awo kapena abambo ake a abambo, komanso agogo ake a agogo aakazi. Mchimwene wapamwamba kwambiri amatchedwa msuweni kapena mdzukulu wa mbale kapena mlongo. Msuzu wake wamkulu ndi agogo aakazi kapena mwana wamkazi wa mchemwali wawo, komanso mdzukulu wa mlongo kapena mbale. Mukufuna kudziwa yemwe ali wachibale wapamtima? Gwiritsani ntchito zipangizo zomwe tazisankha.

Pambuyo paukwati, mzere wina wa ubale ndi chikhalidwe chatsopano chikuwonekera: wokwatirana kapena wokwatirana naye. Wachiŵiri ndi mwamuna wokhudzana ndi mkazi yemwe wagwidwa naye ukwati. Mkazi ndi mkazi amene anakwatira mwamuna uyu. Bambo a bambo anga amatchedwa apongozi ake, mayi anga ndi apongozi ake. Amayi a mkazi wake ndi apongozi ake, ndipo abambo ndi apongozi ake. Swat ndi bambo wa achinyamata poyerekeza ndi makolo ake achichepere, ndipo mosiyana ndi zimenezi, bambo wa anyamata omwe ali pachibwenzi ndi makolo ali aang'ono. Svoya amatchedwa mayi wa mwamuna kapena mkazi aliyense payekha ndi makolo a wachiwiri wachiwiri m'banja. Mbale wa mkaziyo ndi mpongozi wake (schwager). Mlongo wake amatchedwa mlongo wake. Shurin (Schwager) ndi m'bale wa mkazi wake. Mwana wa mpongozi wake adzakhala shura. Mlongo wa mkaziyo ndi mpongozi wake. Primak ndi mpongozi wake amene adatengedwa ngati apongozi ake ndi apongozi ake kapena apongozi ake, omwe amatsogolera banja limodzi ndi iwo. Mlamu wake ndi mwamuna wa mlongoyo, mwana wamkazi. Mwana wamwamuna (apongozi ake) amaona makolo ake kukhala mkazi wake. Mkazi wa m'baleyo ndi yatrovka. Ndizolowezi kutchula mkazi wa mchemwali wa mkazi, ndiko kuti, iwo adzakhala amuna okwatira alongo. Bratanikha amatchedwa mkazi wa msuwani.

Ubale wosagwirizana

Ubale wosagwirizana umathandiza kwambiri pa moyo wa munthu aliyense. Sweetheart amatchedwa msungwana, momwe mwamuna ali mu chikondi. Hahalem iye (watha, nthawi zambiri osati iye, ndi anthu onse oyandikana nawo omwe amamuyesa kumvetsa, nthawi zina amagwiritsa ntchito mawuwa ngati kunyozedwa kapena kunyansidwa, ngakhale kuti sali) amatchula kuti mwamuna yemwe amamupatsa zizindikiro za chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro . Mkwati ndi mnyamata yemwe ali ndi cholinga chokwatira msungwana, yemwe "amathawa", akuitanira ku cafe kapena kuwonetserako kanema kawirikawiri, kupeza matikiti omwe akukhala ovuta kwambiri. Mkwatibwi ndi msungwana yemwe ati akwatire mnyamata wake.

Anabzala - anthu omwe pa nthawi yaukwati amakhala ngati makolo a mkwati kapena mkwatibwi.

A cohabitant ndi mwamuna yemwe amakhala ndi mkazi, ali ndi ubale wapamtima naye, osati kulembedwa mwalamulo.

Wokonda anaitana mwamuna wokwatira ndi ubwenzi wolimba ndi mkazi, chiwerewere ku mawonedwe lamulo. Mwachidule, mfundo za makhalidwe abwino ndi mabwenzi zimenezo ndi zolakwika. Wokonda imatengedwa mkazi amene ubwenzi wolimba ndi wokwatira, kumakhalanso sizolondola kwathunthu.

Gwirizanani, si choncho n'zosavuta kuti muganize ndi kugona ndi achibale komanso ali kutali, makamaka ngati wofufuza ndi ndondomeko ya mibadwo zingapo zapitazo - akutali kunali maganizo athu mwachindunji zakale. Koma pamenepo panalibe intaneti zira pachibale, anthu angaike yokumbukira udindo mwakuti lero N'zovuta kulingalira. Tiyerekeze kuti nditawerenga nkhani imeneyi, ndipo udzakhala ndi akonzedwa ena a chidziwitso pa achibale ndi lakutali. Ntchito sudzakhala tsiku lililonse, koma mungagwiritse ntchito kwa kusintha kwa anthu pafupi penapake mosiyana, akuonetsa chikondi kwa miyambo chidziwitso. Makamaka yosangalatsa amanena za anthu okalamba, chifukwa amadziwa bwino mwambo ndi angayamikire chokhumba chanu ulemu, kupereka lokoma ndi wowolowa manja kumwetulira.