Ukwati Miyambo

"Ah, izi ukwati ukwati ukwati anaimba ndi kuvina ..." kotero ambiri nyimbo zinkaimbidwa, ndi mawu zambiri kunena za ukwati.

Ukwati - mwambo wa chikondi, chiyero, kukhulupirika ndi kudzipereka. N'chifukwa chiyani okhulupirika komanso odzipereka, koma chifukwa pa ukwati wa achinyamata mudzalonjeza kukondana wina ndi mzake ndi kukhala predannannymi mzake mpaka mapeto a masiku ake, ndipo imfa chingalekanitse achinyamata. 90% ya atsikana (akazi) pa nthaka kuyembekezera okondedwa awo adzadzipereka dzanja ndi mtima wawo, ndi zina zotero, ife ku ubwana za maloto ndi kudikirira tsiku lililonse koposa, ndi pamene izo ndi olimbikitsa kwambiri mphindi iliyonse, mtsikana yachiwiri chanza ndi mtima ukugunda wamphamvu, ndipo potsiriza inu mukuti ndi "Inde !!!" ndipo ngati dziko lonse pa mapazi anu okazavaetsya. Umayamba kukonzekera ukwati. Malinga ndi wokalamba Russian zikhulupiriro ndi miyambo pamaso pa ukwati pano mwambo wa "matchmaking". Matchmaking - izo okoltsevaniya atsikana, mwachitsanzo mnyamata kumamunyengerera amaika chala pa golide mphete yake yamphongo monga chizindikiro cha chikondi, ndipo kuyambira pamenepo iye ankaona zasvatonoy. Mu Russia, akazi okwatiwa samavala mangongo mu maliboni awo wofiira monga chizindikiro chakuti iwo ndi ufulu wosankha lads awo ndi atsikana pa kansalu kofiira, pamene atsikana zasvatannyh ndi wofiira riboni anali nsalu ndi riboni buluu, amene yokhotakhota mkwatibwi wake mkwati. Mpaka masiku ano ambiri a miyambo ndi la Russia anakhala salinso zogwirizana ndi ataya phindu. Ndiyeno, anatenga suti ndi kuyamba kukonzekera ukwati. Vyberaem mkwatibwi kavalidwe ndi chophimba, nsapato (by njira sangakhale mkwatibwi kugula nsapato kapena nsapato ndi mphuno lotseguka, kapena chidendene, chifukwa moyo wake lonse lidzakhala osauka ndi maliseche), otrebuty zosiyanasiyana yaing'ono (kugula pini ndi diso lofiira, chifukwa aliyense ukwati, pali anthu amene maso, osati mafinya osati cholinga, koma diso), masuti bwino ndi grooms ukwati, ubwenzi ndi nsapato (mkwati tisatongwa kuikidwa kakrman mpango wanu ndi mtanda zooneka kubaya zikhomo kwa diso zoipa). Kusankha mphete mu mkwatibwi posachedwapa ndi mkwatibwi vyberaem pamodzi, ngakhale mu nthawi olden ndi zochuluka kusankha kwa mphete anali yekha mkwati ndi mkwatibwi asawaone pamaso pa ukwati. Malinga ndi nthano mphete ayenera golide yekha, zitsulo zina zimabweretsa mavuto okha mphete Mkwatibwi ayenera kukhala miyala (palibe zazikulu kuposa mwala lalikulu mphete chinkhoswe, ndi nsanje kwambiri ndi diso loyipa), mphete mkwati ayenera kukhala glatkim popanda miyala ndi zithunzi ( banja moyo anali glatkoy). Sizingakhale aliyense ku ukwati mphete amasonyeza ukwati - ndi zoipa. Chabwino, mphete anasankha ukwati kavalidwe ndi suti kwa mkwati anagula, pali chiyani? Chabwino, ndithudi nkhuku ndi mbawala yamphongo. Kusinza Party - ichi ndi msonkhano wotsiriza wa Mkwatibwi ndi anzake kutsogolo kwa moyo wa m'banja. Bachelor Party - ndi atsopano umodzi mkwatibwi msonkhano ndi anzake. Posachedwapa, bachelorette chipani (Bachala chipani) mkwati ndi mkwatibwi kukondwerera pa 100%, popanda kuganizira momwe iwo adzayang'ana ndi kumva tsiku lotsatira, chifukwa tsiku la ukwati wawo yaitali. Mu nkhuku akale zinachitika m'nyumba Mkwatibwi, atsikana anaimba nyimbo ndipo ambiri Chofunika kumasulira plait mkwatibwi, kuchotsa maliboni ofiira mangongo, kuluka woyera ndi buluu maliboni. Bachelorette ndi Bachala chipani inatha ndipo panali m'mawa wa tsiku la ukwati. Woyambirira ukwati miyambo ndi malowolo mkwati. Waponya ndi mkwati kapena anzake, ndalama ndi maswiti. Matchmakers anapereka mavuto osiyana mkwati pamaso amaona mkwatibwi ndi mkwati ndidzadutsa kuwapatsa ulemu. Mu masiku akale unali mwambo vypupa Mkwatibwi mkwati mu njira zotsatirazi, mkwati ali thireyi matchmaker kuponyera ndalama, ngati apongozi sasangalala ndi chiwombolo iwo ali pamaso suitors kutsogozedwa mkazi wachikulire atavala zovala ukwati, mkwati anatsegula Mkwatibwi nkhope chophimba ndipo ndinaona pamaso pake si mkwatibwi wake, anapereka mayi wachikulire mkwatibwi pa thireyi akadali kuponya ndalama ngati matchmakers anasangalala dipo pozindikira kuti mkwatibwi mkwatibwi wake, mkwati amayenera kutsegula chotchinga cha nkhope mkwati kuti uvidomitsya adamgwira iye nevestu.Litso mkwatibwi Anatseka chophimbacho mpaka brakosochetan Ndinali wamng'ono - zikhale kwa diso lakuda sanaone nkhope ya mkwatibwi wangwiro ndi wopanda banga, ndi mkwatibwi pambuyo okoltsevanii mkwatibwi wake akanakhoza kutsegula chophimba chifukwa iye anakhala mkazi wake, ndipo okhawo panthawi alendo onse ndi makolo akhoza kuona mkazi wokongola kapena kumene anapanga mkazi. Izi mwambo lero anasunga ambiri a mkwatibwi lero, nkhope yake pafupi ndi chophimba ukwati. Posachedwapa chakhala mwamsanga kumasula nkhunda, chifukwa buluu - izo ophatikizapo mbalame banja, chikondi ndi kukhulupirika. M'madera ambiri dziko lathu pali mwambo wina ankawoloka mlatho wa banja latsopano. Mkwati akutenga mkwatibwi wake m'manja mwace amasuntha mlatho kuyambira pachiyambi mpaka kumapeto, umasonyeza kuti akulonjeza mkazi wake amavala ake zamoyo zonse m'manja mwake, pa midpoints a mkwati mlatho zimaleka kuika mkwatibwi pansi, ndipo io kutenga Nyumbayi (kale okonzeka ndi maina achichepere) , angagwirizanitse kwa mlatho, yatsekedwa kiyi kuponyedwa mtsinje ndi mwambo wakale amene anapulumuka masiku ano. Ndiye nthawi zonse madyerero a ukwati kapena phwando anayamba, omwe akutipatsa mphatso ndi kum'thokoza achinyamata, kuvina ndi mpikisano. Aliyense Maukwati limodzi, chifukwa aliyense akuyesera kuti achipange icho sindimakonda konse. Aliyense akubweretsa chidutswa paukwatipo. Ine ndikukhumba kuti aliyense wa inu kuti ali ndi chimwemwe, chikondi, mavuto ukwati okha.