Banja mu mafunsoka: amene ndi chifukwa chake muyenera kudziwa za izo?

Kukhala mu "khungu la anthu" aliyense wa ife - ndi imodzi mwa mbali zofunika kwambiri pa moyo. Ife tikufika m'banja, akusudzulana, ndi ana, kuphunzitsa ena ... Chifukwa chake, banja mu ntchito kwa chitupa cha visa chikapezeka kapena ntchito amapereka bwana angathe kapena kazembe ndi zambiri .... kuthandiza kulosera makhalidwe athu. N'zoona kuti nthawi zonse zimene anthu ena amaganiza za ife, chimodzimodzi monga zenizeni. Komabe, Zithunzi "banja" mu fomu yofunsira ntchito kumeneko, ngakhale kuti anadutsa nyengo Soviet, pamene abale ndi abwenzi, "adani a anthu" ndi wosangalatsa komanso kunapezeka kuti ukaponyedwe "m'madzi" anthu.

N'chifukwa chiyani tiyenera mabwana athu kapena nthumwi za m'mayiko ena kudziwa amene ife akugona ndi kudzuka, ndi chakudya ndi chakudya chamasana, timathera azisangalalo ndi maholide? Zingatanthauze kuti banja mwa mafunso ayenera atione. Mwa njira, Ndikufuna kuti achenjeze owerenga ndi "chinyengo oona". Ngakhale ngati "mwambo" prevaricate ndi sugarcoat si koyenera. Musaphwanye kulemba kuti ndinu osakwatiwa, ngati inu muli mu chiyanjano boma kapena kuti "ana ayi", ngati sakhala nawo pa nyumba yomweyo. choonadi adzafika mwachilungamo msanga pamwamba, ndipo ngakhale wosalakwa pang'ono bodza adzakhala analandira osati mu mtima wanu. Ngati kunyengedwa pa zinthu zimenezi, ndiye momwe mungakhulupirire m'tsogolo nkhani yaikulu kwambiri chifukwa kumalo a ntchito?

banja mu mafunsoka kawirikawiri anamasulira antchito a dipatimenti ogwira ndi kasamalidwe mwachindunji pa kaonedwe ka phindu lanu kampani. Kodi mfundo yotani? Mwachitsanzo, akukhulupirira kuti amuna udindo wa Bachala wa - mtundu wa chizindikiro ndi osadalirika. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa sikokwanira kuti unachitikira mumzinda uwu, iye akhoza kutha ndi makampani kapena kuyenda mpaka inu kusiya. Ngati sasamala za aliyense, ngakhale kuti zasungidwa ndi limakhudza kwambiri osayanjanitsika. Ndi pagona - bambo wachinyamata wa banja. Pamaso pa bwana ndi munthu udindo amene ayenera kusamalira banja lake. Choncho, n'kofunika kwambiri mlingo wa zasungidwa, ndipo adzaikidwa kunja "mu zonse", kuti adzapindula ndi bwino kampani. Koma amayi achichepere kapena akazi amene anakwatira monga zosemphana - kwa chuma wantchito anthu kapena akulu angathe yomweyo kutaya mfundo zingapo. Ndipotu, monga wantchito mwina mofulumira mu lamulo, izo kulipira gawo, kusunga malo ake. Ndipo ngati inu kale ana ang'ono - iwo zambiri akudwala, chifukwa cha mayi theka nthawi wanga patsogolo pa chipatala. Ngati munthu mu "banja" mu mwachidule ikusonyeza kuti iye kalata wa chilekaniro, mukhoza mavuto ndi kupereka alimony. Komanso, funso n'lakuti yomweyo m'mene wodalirika. Wosiyidwa mosiyana ndi zimenezi, akhoza amaona munthu amene anamva ululu kwambiri, sachedwa kuvutika maganizo. Ndipo nthawi ngati kwenikweni kumwedwa nkhani ndi abwana ake.

Mitundu chitupa cha visa chikapezeka ntchito kaŵirikaŵiri chofunika chokha kusonyeza banja. "Single" kwa mtsikana amene akufuna kupita kudziko lina, monga anamasulira ndi kazembe kawirikawiri amatanthauza "kuthekera mkwatibwi obwera" ... Makamaka ngati dona wakwera ndi amuna kuitana payekha, nthawi zina chifukwa chakuti chitupa cha visa chikapezeka a. Ngati zabwino kupereka kulandira "chilolezo kwa Mkwatibwi."

Komabe, pamene nadzaza mzati "banja" mu mafunsoka mpofunikila kulemba choonadi. Ndi bwino kukayikira za boma ndi kusonyeza mbali zabwino kuposa zifukwa ndi manyazi chifukwa "chinyengo wosalakwa."