BDSM ndi chinthu chapadera chokhudza kugonana

Kwa ena, kutanthauzira uku kukutanthauza zambiri, kwa ena ndi mawu opanda kanthu. Koma pafupifupi munthu aliyense amadziwa: BDSM ndi chinachake chokhudzana ndi kugonana. Tiyeni tiyesetse kupeza zomwe makalata anayi ovutawo amaimira.

Kufotokozera kwafupipafupi

BD (BD): Bondage ndi Chilango - ukapolo (kumanga kapena kukonza ziwalo za thupi) ndi chilango.

DS (DS): Ulamuliro ndi Kugonjera ndi mfundo ziwiri zosiyana: ulamuliro ndi kumvera.

SM (SM): Sadism ndi Masasochism ndi sadomasochism, masochism ndi chisoni. Pachimake pamakhala chisangalalo kuchokera ku ululu.

Mwachidule, chidule ichi chiyenera kuoneka ngati BDDSSM, koma chinasinthidwa ndipo chinasintha kuchepetsa makalata anayi.

Makhalidwe a BDSM

1. Izi ndizo zomwe zopweteka siziripo. Malo anu owonetsera zachiwerewere, kumene mungathe kusewera alendo ndi akapolo, amathandizidwanso kuti ndi BDSM.
2. Nkhani yayikulu yokhudza kugonana sichifukwa chosokoneza mwa njira iliyonse. Mafilimu omwe amawombera papa amatha kutchedwa ziwalo za "subculture" iyi, zomwe munganene kuti mtsikanayo amamvetsa tsitsi lake lalitali. Musamachite manyazi.
3. BDSM - izi ndi zomwe mungathe kuchita popanda kugonana, ngati izi sizidawonetsedwe pamgwirizano pakati pa akulu ndi omvera.
4. "Kusiya-mawu" ayenera kukhala kwa aliyense m'munsi, chifukwa anthu sadziwa kuwerenga. Muyenera kupanga mawu omwe ali oyambirira, omwe sangafuule mwachangu mwachangu.
5. BDSM ndi chinthu chomwe sichikhudza nkhanza konse, chifukwa chilichonse chimachitika mwa kukondwera kwa omvera, zonse zimakambidwa kale, ndipo nthawi zina zimayesedwa.

Mitundu ya BDSM

Kufalitsa maudindo

1. Masewera "mwa dokotala." Kuwonjezera pa kudzibisa pa nkhaniyi, ndilololedwa kugwiritsira ntchito zinthu zamankhwala pa kukoma kwanu: kuchokera ku enema kupita ku rotor expander.
2. "Masewera achiwawa." Mmodzi wa abwenzi amasewera ndi kavalo kapena galu, koma chinthu chofunika kwambiri mu masewerawa ndi kolala, nthawizina ndi leash.
3. Masewera a msinkhu. Kawirikawiri, yemwe amawonetsa mkuluyo amalamulira, koma kugwirizanitsa malingaliro, ndiye ukalamba udzakhala chizindikiro cha kufooka.

Mu masewera onse a BDSM ndizovomerezeka kuti wina ali pamwamba, ndipo wina amachita ntchito ya pansi.

Zotsatira pamunsi

• Bastinado - kukupweteka pa mapazi a wokondedwa;
• Kupondaponda - kuyenda pamapazi apansi kapena nsapato;
• Kujambula - zida zosinthika zogwiritsidwa ntchito;
• Chisamaliro - kuletsa ufulu mwa kuyanjana;
• Kuimitsidwa mu chikhalidwe chosasinthika;
• Kummeta - minofu ndi mabanki amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti amangirire munthu;
• Kwa mtundu wa zotsatira zingathe kukhala mantha chifukwa cha kunyansidwa. Mwachitsanzo, chomwe chimatchedwa mvula yamtengo wapatali (kukodza kwa mnzanuyo);
• Sera - zowawa kuchokera ku madontho ake pamaliseche zimangokhala zopweteka komanso zosangalatsa;
• Zinthu zowala - apa pali mantha a munthu musanaone magazi. Tanthauzo la njirayi ndi ili, osati powawitsa kwambiri.

BDSM chibwenzi padziko lonse lapansi. M'mayiko ena pali magulu apadera omwe amachititsa kuti anthu azitha kumva bwino. Angathe kudziwanso omwe angakwatirane naye. Tsoka ilo, ku Russia mabungwe amenewa amakhalapo pansi pokha. Koma mungapeze munthu amene mumamufuna komanso mumaofolomu osiyanasiyana.

Kugonana kwa BDSM kulibe malire, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusiya zotsutsana ndi zosakonda, kuyesa kupeza zosangalatsa zenizeni.