Gender Dysphoria: Zimayambitsa, Zizindikiro, Chithandizo

M'dziko lamakono, mawu oti "gaysiria" amagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zambiri. Matenda oterewa ndi otani? Kodi n'zotheka kuthana ndi vutoli mwa opaleshoni yokha? Kodi chifukwa cha kuphwanya koteroko ndi chiyani? Mafunso awa ndi ofunika kwa anthu ambiri.

Kodi nthawi zambiri amatchedwa kuti dysphoria?

Sizingatheke kuti munthu wamba amayamba kusokonezeka kapena kusakhutira ndi kugonana kwake. Koma, tsoka, izi sizili choncho nthawi zonse. Gender dysphoria ndi chikhalidwe chimene munthu sangathe kuvomereza kuti ali ndi chikhalidwe chotani.

Zizindikiro zogonana ndi abambo omwe ali ndi vuto lomwelo sizigwirizana ndi momwe amadzionera mumtima mwake. Mwachitsanzo, chiwerengero cha amuna omwe amachititsa kuti amuna azigonana ndi abambo amasonyeza kuti, ngakhale kuti ali ndi ziwalo zogonana, amamva ngati amuna ndipo, makamaka, amuna amadziona kuti ndi akazi. Kusokonezeka kotere pakati pa maonekedwe ndi maonekedwe a psyche ndi kovuta kulekerera, kuchititsa nkhawa nthawi zonse, kuvutika ndi kukhumudwa.

Gender Dysphoria: Zimayambitsa

Zaka zingapo zapitazo, chodabwitsa ichi chinkaonedwa ngati matenda a maganizo, ndipo anthu omwe ali ndi matenda ofanana ndi ameneŵa adalimbikitsidwa ndi matenda a psychotherapy. Koma kafukufuku waposachedwapa watsimikizira kuti kugonana kwa dysphoria si matenda a m'maganizo kapena kuphwanya. Nthawi zambiri, vutoli likuphatikizidwa ndi kuphwanya njira zina zamagulu ndi zakuthupi zomwe zimayambitsa chitukuko cha amai, ndipo mavutowa amawoneka ngakhale panthawi ya chitukuko cha intrauterine. Komabe, kufufuza mwakhama pa nkhaniyi yangoyamba kumene, ndipo asayansi ndi ochita kafukufuku sakuzindikira zenizeni zomwe zimayambitsa kusintha koteroko.

Gender Dysphoria: Zizindikiro

Ndipotu, zizindikiro zoyambirira za chikhalidwe choterocho zimawoneka ngakhale ali mwana, ndipo mwa ana osiyana amafotokozedwa m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Nazi zina mwa zizindikiro zomwe zimayendera limodzi ndi kugonana kwa dysphoria:

• Kukana chitsanzo cha khalidwe, khalidwe la kugonana kwa mwanayo. M'malo mwake, pali chikhumbo chochita nawo masewera kapena ntchito ndi ana omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo.
• Kukana kapena kusakonda zovala zomwe zimavala ndi ana ena omwe amagonana nawo.
• Kukana njira yowonongeka, mwachitsanzo, asungwana amatha kulemba, ndipo anyamata amatha kukhala.
• Osanyalanyaza ziwalo zawo zogonana ndikuyembekeza kuzichotsa iwo mtsogolomu.
• Kulimbikira kuyesayesa kutsimikizira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
• Kwa ana oterowo, kuoneka kwa zizindikiro za kutha msinkhu kumakhala tsoka lenileni (mwachitsanzo, anyamata sakonda kusintha kwa mawu ndi khalidwe lopweteka, ndipo atsikana mawonekedwe a m'mawere amakhala opanikizika kwambiri).

Ndipotu, kugonana kwa dysphoria kumawoneka mosiyana. Kwa anthu ena, zizindikiro zimawonekera kuyambira ali wakhanda, pamene zina zimawoneka panthawi ya kusakaniza. Mlandu uliwonse wolakwira za chidziwitso pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ndi wapadera pa mawonetseredwe ake.

Chizindikiro cha matendawa: kukula kwa chikhalidwe cha Harry Benjamin

Kuyesera koyamba kupanga dongosolo lachigawo chifukwa cha kuphwanya chidziwitso cha kugonana ndi chomwe chimatchedwa Benjamin scale, chomwe chiri ndi magulu asanu ndi limodzi:

• Pseudo-transvestism.
• Fetishistic transvestism.
• Zoonadi transvestism.
• Kugonana kosagwirizana.
• Nuclear Transsexualism ndi digirii ya chiwerewere.
• Nyukiliya yotchedwa Transsexualism yomwe ili ndi chiwerengero chachikulu cha matenda a dysphoria.

Kusagwirizana kwa amayi ndi zotsatira zake

Gender nekonformnostyu idatcha boma limene pali kuphwanya kwa kalata pakati pa kugonana ndi chitsanzo cha khalidwe laumunthu. Mwa njira, iwo amati sagwirizana ngati matendawa amapezeka mwa ana. Kodi chisokonezo ndi chiyani? Mwachitsanzo, mwana wa msinkhu wachinyamata akhoza kumudziwa ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi. Mwachitsanzo, anyamata aang'ono amavalira kuvala kavalidwe, atsikana amasewera masewera achiheberi, ndi zina zotero. Nthawi zambiri kuphulika kumeneku ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zoyambirira za kugonana kwa dysphoria, ndipo nthawi zina kumabweretsa chitukuko cha kugonana kapena kugonana m'tsogolomu.

Kodi pali njira zothandiza zothandizira?

Inde, njira zothandizira anthu omwe akukumana ndi mavuto ndi chidziwitso cha kugonana akungoyamba kumene. Choyamba, odwala otero amafunikira thandizo la katswiri wa zamaganizo kapena wamaganizo. Maphunziro ndi katswiri amathandiza anthu kumvetsa makhalidwe awo ndi kupirira nawo. Kuonjezera apo, odwala omwe ali ndi matenda a dysphoria kawirikawiri sangathe kusintha pakati pa anthu, chifukwa amavutika chifukwa chosowa kumvetsetsa kuchokera kwa anthu oyandikana nawo, omwe amawadziwa komanso osadziwika. Matendawa angathetsedwenso mothandizidwa ndi magawo a mankhwala. Zoonadi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti njira zonse zowonetsera kuti anthu adziwe kuti ali ndi "dysphoria" - mankhwala akhoza kukhala ovuta kwambiri.

Nthawi zina, pogwiritsa ntchito njira yapadera, munthu amathandizidwa kusintha makhalidwe ogonana. Mwachitsanzo, mothandizidwa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo mukhoza kusintha makhalidwe a thupi, kupanga munthu kuoneka ngati mkazi komanso mosiyana. Mwachibadwa, njira zothandiza kwambiri ndi njira yopaleshoni ya kusintha kwa kugonana, yomwe, tsoka, si yabwino kwa munthu aliyense ali ndi mavuto ofanana.

Kodi aliyense amafunikira opaleshoni kuti asinthe kugonana?

Nthawi zambiri, njira yokhayo yothetsera moyo wa munthu ndi opaleshoni yogonana. Pochita opaleshoni yotereyi, amayi amachotsedwa pachiberekero, ndipo ziwalo zobereka zimabereka kuchokera kumagulu a wodwalayo ndi mapiritsi apadera. Amuna, mmalo mwake, amachotsa ziwalo zakunja zakunja, kupanga mamaliseche azimayi ku ziwalo zawo.

Inde, asanapite kuchipatala cha opaleshoni, wodwala akufufuza zochuluka, monga madokotala akuyenera kuonetsetsa kuti pali dysphoria komanso ngati munthu angathe kuthana ndi zotsatira za ntchitoyo. Mwachitsanzo, pali zofunika zofunika kwa odwala. Choyamba, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti onse ayenera kukhala okalamba. Kuwonjezera apo, munthu amene akufuna kusintha zogonana ayenera kukhala ndi mndandanda wa zowunika zamaganizo zomwe zimapangitsa kuzindikira kuti palibe matenda.

Kusintha kwa kugonana kumamuthandiza munthu kukhazikitsa kusiyana pakati pa umunthu wake. Pachifukwachi, izi zimapangitsa wodwala kukhala ndi umphumphu, chimwemwe ndi mgwirizano.

Kupanda mankhwala ndi zotsatira zake

Kwa anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi chidziwitso chogonana, mafunso okhudza kusinthika kwa kugonana amachititsa kudodometsa kwenikweni, ndipo chodabwitsa kwambiri cha kugonana kwa chiwerewere chimakhala ngati mtundu wa fad. Ndipotu, kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikungokhala kovuta, ndipo kusintha kwa kugonana ndiko njira yokhayo yotulukira. Ndipotu, monga tanena kale, kusiyana pakati pa kugonana ndi chidziwitso kumakhudza maganizo a munthu. Mwachitsanzo, kukana vuto, kusowa kumvetsetsa pakati pa ena ndi kulephera kuthetsa malingaliro anu, zilakolako zimapangitsa kuti munthu azivutika maganizo nthawi zonse, kuvutika ndi kupweteka, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimawongolera kuvutika maganizo, kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena kumwa mowa, komanso kukula kwa zizoloŵezi za kudzipha.