Ine sindikufuna chirichonse! Kodi inu mukutsimikiza?

Ine sindikufuna chirichonse! Kangati munamvapo mawu awa anzake? Ndipo kangati ndalankhula awoawo? Usaope, tione nkhope ya choonadi komanso kumvetsa chifukwa choopa zinthu zatsopano, wosadziwika, zovuta.

"Ine sindikufuna chirichonse," - amene amakonda kuponya mawu amenewa. N'zosadabwitsa kuti palibe aliyense amene analibe chikhumbo ndipo alibe zosowa. Ndipo amene akuopa kuti ziwathandize patsogolo, sitepe imodzi kumbuyo, kumene m'pofunika kufufuza nokha kwa mphamvu.

Palibe, sindikufuna: ndi mawu amene

Uyu mawu ake, amene ali otopa ndi kuyesera (kapena sindikuyesera konse) kuchita chilichonse. Anthu awa amapita ku ndekha kwambiri sindimakonda pamene munthu akukwera iwo moyo. Iwo sayesa n'komwe chakuti pali. Kodi n'zotheka kukhala osangalala, pafupifupi ndi kanthu? Mungathe! Only tsopano, mwatsoka, osati onse a chisangalalo ichi tsopano. Nthawi zambiri, mtundu uwu wa moyo amasankhidwa ndi aliyense wa chiyembekezo ndi kutopa kwambiri.

"Sindikufuna kuti" - kotero limati amene wosweka. Nthawi zambiri chifukwa maganizo, neuroses ndi matenda ena okhudza ubongo, ife kodi kuyendetsa tokha mu selo, zomwe zingakhale zamphamvu kwambiri. Depression kumabweretsa chakuti anthu okhawo mkombero mu zoipa ndipo saona m'tsogolo chilichonse, zomwe zikhoza kukhala moyo. Pamene mphwayi, kanthu amasangalala, sayambitsa ayankhe aliyense maganizo.

zolephera mobwerezabwereza kuwononga munthu kuchokera mkati, kupanga izo ndi wofooka. Kawirikawiri, kutaya winawake wokondedwa, ife tiri naye kutaya cholinga cha moyo wake. Chinthu chomwecho zingachitike chifukwa cha imfa ya ntchito wake wokondedwa, zinthu zogwira, ndi zina zotero. Omwe ali olimba mu mzimu, si kunena kuti "Ine sindikufuna kuchita chilichonse", komanso kumvetsa kuti mawu amenewa amasonyeza kufooka kwake. Anthu omwe adakumana chisoni kapena mavuto aakulu maganizo, mukudziwa kuti kukhala - izo zikutanthauza kuchita. Kuti moyo - kuti kumatanthauza zonse akupita patsogolo. Only kayendedwe ndi chitukuko amathandiza kudzaza masiku imvi chimwemwe ndi tanthauzo.

Ine sindikufuna kuti ndichite

The yoyamba ndiyo kuzindikira mfundo yakuti detachment zimene zikuchitika Sindizakubweretsanso chilichonse chabwino. Inunso muyenera kumvetsa mfundo yakuti kusafuna anu kuti zoyesayesa aliyense kuti asinthe miyoyo yawo anachititsa makamaka osapitirira mantha mwachizolowezi - kuopa zinthu zatsopano kapena kuopa kukhumudwa.

Tiyenera timvetsetse pano kuti anakhumba angafikire okhawo amene mwanjira ina kuyesera kusuntha motsogozedwa ndi chimwemwe. Tiyenera kuchita khama osati ndi dziko, koma tokha. Kutaya maganizo oipa ndi musalore kutenga maganizo anu.

Yesani kusintha kwa chilengedwe kapena kupumula basi. Ndithu mwina. Kodi inu munakhala mu chizolowezi cha tsiku ndi tsiku, zomwe chabe kukhetsa maganizo. Kwera zatsopano. Ngakhale ndi mphwayi amphamvu mungapeze chinachake chimene adzakhala moyo. Musatisiye amoyo ndalama - kupita sitolo ndi kugula chinthu chimene yaitali akulakalaka. Onetsetsani kupita mafilimu, zisudzo, kukhala cafe ena mtengo kapena malo odyera. Inu simukufuna kuti? Kudzikakamiza kuti achite chirichonse pamwambapa. N'zotheka kuti izo azinyadira mwa inu kulakalaka latsopano.

Kuganiza zoti moyo zinadzala ndi zambiri zabwino. Inde, pali zambiri zoipa, koma zabwino, aponso, ndisefukira. Kuganizira akuganizira, timakhala optimists. Kudziwa ndikuganiza molondola, mudzazindikira dziko mu njira chosiyana, muyamba kuona kukongola kumeneko, kumene asanamuwonepo kale ndi chidwi adzachititsa zimene poyamba kupewedwa chifukwa mamailosi atatu. mfundo zatsopano adzatsegulidwa kwa inu tsiku ndi tsiku.

Werengani nkhani yonena za anthu aakulu. Palibe wa iwo anayamba anati, "Ine sindikufuna chirichonse chochita." Iwo nthawizonse kuzifuna kwa latsopano. Chinawathandiza kuti maina awo mu mbiri. Sankhani mmodzi wa iwo amene angathe kwenikweni kutumikira monga chitsanzo kwa inu. Phunzirani adzawonongedwa.