"Inu mukufuna ine!" Kapena kulankhula mkazi

Padziko lapansi, pali mamilioni a anthu, ndipo iwo onse osiyana. Wina wamphamvu, wodzidalira, kudzidalira. Ena - wodzichepetsa, manyazi, wamantha. Koma zonse, popanda yekha, ndikufuna bwino, wokondedwa, wodala.

Zaka zingapo zapitazo, wapadera chibwenzi ndi chitukuko ubale inali nkhani za munthu wamwamuna, atsikana komanso amayenera kukhala oleza mtima ndipo dikirani kuti iwo kulabadira. Koma mkubwela kwa feminization wa anthu ndi leaps ndi chithunzi yosiyana. Inde, asungwana onse monga chidwi angamayang'ane owayimilira osankhidwa, kuvutika mofewa za iwo, nkhawa kutenga wake woyamba "wamkulu" maluwa. Koma iwo zambiri wanzeru komanso chanzeru anzake wake dzulo, kuphunzira pa kudalira okha, kupanga njira mu moyo wa dzanja lake, ndipo ngakhale mmene kuvomereza Kuthokoza mopepuka.

Kumverera kwa ukulu wa amuna pa akazi ndi mosasintha mizu m'mbuyomu. Ndipo chifukwa amuna amafuna kuwina dona, maganizo ake si nthawi zonse bwino. Amene waima kutsogolo kwa mnyamatayo ntchito ndi unknowns ambiri momwe akudziwa mtsikana? Ndipo ngati kukumana nanu! Ndipo kodi zinthu monga kulankhula kwa mtsikana ndi za, kumene bwanji? Kodi adzabwera izi? Ngati kale milandu 90 100 munthu tikanakhoza kukhala otsimikiza kuti, poyankha mawu ake ndi mtsikana ali mokoma kuwomba m'manja nsidze ndi nsangala kumvetsera mawu aliwonse (makamaka m'madera mwamuna kusowa bwino ndi grooms mosachotsera), koma tsopano zinthu zosiyana . Man mosavuta "otshit" popanda ufulu kuyesa kachiwiri pa ankadziwa.

Choncho mkhalidwe: Iye ndi Iye. Iye amakondwera. Kapena, pafupifupi, iye ali ndi chidwi. Kodi ayankhule ndi mtsikana? Apa ife tikhoza kupereka zitsanzo zochepa.

Woyamba sewero - pamaso anzawo wamba

Apa, zonse ndi losavuta: kugwirizana pasadakhale, funsani kupeza, anapereka kwa wina ndi mzake. Munthu amafuna munthu pazipita chokoma omasukirana, ndi zofunika cholowa, kotero kuti anapereka chisangalalo chawo. Ndi chikhalidwe chachikulu - kumwetulira. Osati akumwetulira, osati zopusa kapena mantha giggling ndi ubwenzi mtundu kumwetulira. Kuti iye ali anthu wina ndi mzake, azimasuka wa kupatuka, kukayikirana ndi osalabadira. Chozizwitsa cha kumwetulira anthu Exupery analemba - kumbukirani mawu ake!

The Tiyerekezenso - msonkhano Improvisation

Kumene, mu nkhani iyi, pali mavuto ena, koma ndondomeko ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi chokoma choposa kukokera chifukwa.

Choncho, mnyamatayo ali diso pa mtsikana. Iye pamavuto adzaoneni angapo mu malo osiyana, ndipo nthawi iliyonse mtima wake anayamba kusinja mu mungoli wapadera kwambiri, ngati nyimbo, "Izi ndizo, izi ndi izo, izi ndi izo!" Kodi kulankhula kwa mkazi imeneyi? Mungasankhe nyanja.

Ngati munthu zokwanira nthawi free, inu mukhoza kuimba ofufuza - nthawi zina kulipenya wosankhidwa: kumene akukhala, maphunziro kapena ntchito, zomwe njira akupita ku katundu, amene amapita kukagula, ngakhale kuti adzatenge Mwachitsanzo, pa zinthu. Ndiyeno, mwachitsanzo, mu sitolo, mukhoza akamubisalire kuti apite ngati mwangozi, ndi kufunsa za mankhwala amene kale kukhala mukudziwa. Chonde kwathunthu wowona, iye anachenjeza ake, koma kupanga nkhani yake. Poyankha, mukhoza tikukuthokozani, kuyankhula zabwino za mfundo komanso kuzindikira za mtsikana ndi kupitiriza womdziwa zina, kufunsa chinachake zambiri za mankhwala Djuda aperekeka - kubweretsa kugula, etc. The chinthu chachikulu - .. Unobtrusive, palibe mkangano. Makhalidwe mwachibadwa, ndi mtsikana anthu munthu uyu adzakhala omasuka, omasuka, zosavuta.

Ngati pali chinthu makamaka, koma ndikungofuna chikondi pang'ono, wosangalala kusungulumwa - onse anakumana ndi atsikana mu nkhani iyi? Ndipo pali maphikidwe. Oyenera mabasi ndi magalimoto. Iye, mwatsoka, nthawi tikulephera, koma sangathe mwachizolowezi pano ngakhale pa dzanja. Mu amati ndi kudziponya akhoza mwakachetechete tikuyandikira mlendo, kuthandiza ndi kugwedeza pa maenje, ngati izo zifika ataima, kapena kudzipatula kwa okwera obsessive ngati akukhala. Powona kuti "chinthu" ati apite - patsogolo, kugwirana chanza, kuthandiza kupeza. M'njiramo pang'ono kudabwa kuti muli okwana amasiya, ndiyeno - kupita pamene pali, atakhala maziko kucheza mosavuta. Tiyenera kuyesetsa kukondweretsa munthu anapita kwa oyandikana. Uzani pang'ono okha m'njira nthabwala, koma osati overdoing kuti alenge kuona omasuka ndiponso ochezeka. Funsani dona za iye, yesetsani kuphunzira zinthu za, umakoma. Ngati nthawi ingapezeke, pemphani mu cafe, ayisikilimu azichitira kapena chakumwa. Ndi kusiya kokha pamene munthu akudziwa kuti Iye kumapereka chithunzi chabwino. Iye akumupatsa iye foni, ndipo iwo molimba kugwirizana nawo.

Pomaliza, Njira yachitatu, mungaone mwina, kwambiri lomwenso ndi otchuka pompano - Intaneti, chibwenzi misonkhano, matabwa yoyenera zolengeza, maonekedwe, chats. Ndiyeno mulibe kulimbana ndi momwe angayankhulire mtsikana - kulankhulana maukonde erases ndi okhudza malo ndi maganizo malire ndi kulola interlocutors kusintha azolowere mzake pamaso pa nthawi kukumana. The chikhalidwe chachikulu cha chikondi chimenechi - oona mtima, chifukwa ngati msonkhano uchitike mu dziko lenileni, mnyamata ndi mtsikana mwamsanga kuzindikira kuti aliyense wa iwo umaimira, ndi kudzisankhira tsoka la chikondi awo enieni.