Kodi kupanga cholakalaka kubwera oona, ndendende

Tinabadwa kuti nthano akwaniritsidwa. Izi si mawu pretentious, momwe ziriri, inu muyenera kudziwa mmene kuti ndikufuna kupanga izo akwaniritsidwa. Kodi matsenga miyambo koyenera pofuna? The chidwi kwambiri - palibe. Ndikofunikira kuti tione zimene kumalepheretsa zimene mukufuna.

Choncho, chindiletsa ife nenani cholakalaka akwaniritsidwe. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti moyo wathu zimachitikadi zonse timaganizira. Inu mukuti, ichi uli wathunthu zamkhutu. Koma ngati inu m'mbuyo pang'ono, younikira maganizo amene amabwera ku mutu wako, ndiye jambulani sizidzasintha. Kodi nthawi zambiri tsiku tinena kwa ife: "Ine ndikufuna ..." "Zingakhale bwino ngati ..." "Inde, ine ndikukhumba ine ...". Apa m'pofunika ndendende kusiya, chifukwa maganizo afotokozedwa mu mitima ndi maganizo, zimachitikadi kwenikweni zana pa zana. Ife ndiye amadabwa kuti: "Kodi zimenezi zidzachitika liti? Ndinkafuna zosiyaniratu. " Ndipo palibe, muli zimene mukufuna, ndendende.

"Bwanji Mng'oma cholakalaka kuti ndizipange izo nzoona?" - Inu kufunsa. Muyenera kugwedeza malingaliro anu amazindikira ndi chikumbumtima, yesani kuonetsetsa kuti ntchito yekha mu mtima wanu. Ichi ndi zazikulu ndi zovuta siteji. chikumbumtima imakhala ndi mbali ziwiri. The choyamba - amene lagona pa ife ndi makolo athu. Ndikudabwa achabechabe. Tinaganiza munali chidutswa wapadera zachilengedwe? Ayi, ife media, anasiya mibadwo zoposa zikwi ziwiri. Kodi munthu akadali amakayikira kuti iwo onse adamsiya chizindikiro awo pa ife? makolo athu ali mu zonse: anawazunza wa agonjetsi, mapwando, otchuka ake, unpredictability zachilengedwe. Izi ndi zinthu zimene zooneka athu khalidwe dziko. Ndipo popeza kuti ife nditenge "mphwayi" - mtundu wa kukana nkhawa. Palibe amene amafuna zabwino m'tsogolo, ndipo onse odalira kuti ndalama. Gawo lachiwiri la chikumbumtima, ife mwayamba kugwa okha, kuphunzira m'dzikoli, zimenezi ndi nthawi zambiri negative. Koma chiwembu cha momwe nenani cholakalaka kubwera n'zoona, ntchito ya chikumbumtima - mfundo zofunika kwambiri. Muyenera kudziwa ndendende zimene zonse zabwino kwa inu.

Mfundo ina yofunika. Bodza pa mbaula monga Ivan wopusa, ndipo dikirani kuti Pike matsenga kwambiri achabechabe. M'malo mwake, ili choncho, koma si nthawi zonse pamene tikufuna. Choncho, muyenera kuchita, koma ananyamula kupyolera.

Kuti adzimvera. Kodi kupanga cholakalaka kubwera zoona chimodzimodzi:

1. Chilakolako ayenera kukhala enieni ndiponso zoti tingakwanitse. Mwachitsanzo, "Ine ndikufuna galimoto," ndipo pambuyo chizindikiro (ngati malipiro a 30,000, si koyenera kuti ndimalota kupeza Lamborghini, kapena izi !!!), specifications enieni, mtundu ndi mtengo. Kungakhale poyerekeza mtengo weniweni, koma mkati malire. Muyenera kumvetsa kuti mtengo Lexus Moskvich 412 1975 lachitsanzo chaka adzatha afikepo. Zingakhale zabwino vutolo onse pa pepala, kapena kupeza makina chithunzi.
2. Sikuti usana ndi usiku kuti amazunguza mmene kukhazikitsa izo. Inu zopanga izo. Tsopano dikirani. Tsoka zedi kukupatsani mpata, ndipo ngakhale mmodzi. Ngati chochitikacho kungakuthandizeni zotsatira usiye kunja sizitero.
3. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndicho kusankha cholakalaka kuti zinachitikadi: muli ndi kuthyolako imfa pa mphuno yanu kuti kanthu mu moyo zimachitika chifukwa. Zonse kulandira mphatso kuchokera tsoka, popanda kanthu kenakake, sizigwira ntchito. Choncho, ngati mukufuna moyo wanu ndinapita ku msonkhano wina, yesani yosonyeza kuti ndi wochimwa.

Thandizani anthu amene amafunika, sachita monga nkhumba ndi ena. Apo ayi, Zokhumba zanu adzakwaniritsidwadi, koma chifukwa kulipira, kotero kuti sadzapeza izo.