Kodi kuphunzira kuganizira zinthu zolimbikitsa kusintha moyo wanu?

Palibe ananena ndi chakuti maganizo athu, tiyeni mawu okha ndi mphamvu za kulenga ndi mwina matupi a anthu. Pa nkhani imeneyi, tingafunse kuti: "Kodi kuphunzira kuganizira zinthu zolimbikitsa tichotse mantha, nkhawa ndi zokhumudwitsa", "Kodi zabwino maganizo limathetseratu vuto lina lililonse, kupulumutsa mavuto onse?"
Choyamba, moyo padziko lapansi sizingatheke popanda zinthu monga chisoni, matenda ndi imfa. Kuti ndi kuganiza bwino osati kukupangani inu ndi okondedwa anu wosafa. Pa nthawi yomweyo luso la anthu ambiri a nsomba zing'onozing'ono yaikulu, akuluakulu phiri kwambiri complicates miyoyo yawo. Choncho, maganizo abwino tsiku lililonse ndipo sangathe kuchotsa vuto konse, koma adzawalaka mosavuta, sabweretsa chisoni ndipo ngakhale kopindulitsa. Wina wakale Chinese nzeru zapamwamba analangiza mavuto kuyankha funso "chifukwa" osati "zomwe."

A pang'ono za njira ya

The otaya maganizo, maganizo ndi mabwenzi kovuta kwambiri kuti amuchotsepo. Njira - m'malo iwo. A ochepa nsonga pa tani kuganizira zinthu zolimbikitsa.

• The choyamba - kwa oyamba, omwe ndi zovuta kusinthana kwa oipa, koma mobwerezabwereza kuti "Ine ndine wabwino, ine ndiri wabwino" salola aliyense maphunziro kapena bwino. Tayang'anani pa onse kuti muli, maso a anthu amene mosatsata ubwino izi. Zikomo Mulungu chifukwa cha zimene inu muwona ndi kumva, kuyenda mapazi anu, tiyeni waung'ono koma mwini nyumba, ntchito, achibale, ana ndi zina zotero. Akuti anthu kumvetsa chinachake kokha pamene anataya. Tiyerekeze kuti zonsezi akhoza kutayika. Yesani kusangalala tsiku lililonse, pocheza ndi anzathu ndi mabanja.
• Sitepe yachiwiri zofunika mu sayansi lotchedwa "mmene kuganizira zinthu zolimbikitsa" - ndi kuphunzira mmene khutu kwa mtundu uliwonse wa ntchito kapena kungoti tsiku likubwera. Tayerekezerani tightrope choyendera, amene patsogolo ntchito imadzibwereza yokha: ". Ine adzagwa ndi kuswa" Kodi adzakhala wokhoza kuchita bwino? Choncho, maganizo oipa sakumbukira, mantha kuchotsedwa. M'pomveka kuti aone zinthu, kutsindika maphunziro awo, kudzipereka, kupezeka kwa makhalidwe zofunika kuchita zofuna zake, ndipo anamaliza - "silingayende bwino" Pomwepo kusungitsa malo, sizitanthauza bwino kuti adzabwera. Ngati ndinu konse pa chipika sanapite, koma mwadzidzidzi akufuna kuyenda pa tightrope pansi pa mmodzi wamkulu basi mphamvu ya maganizo abwino, kanthu zidzachitika. Ichi ndi chotheka, zimenezi zingawachititse womvetsa chisoni kwambiri. Choncho n'kofunika kudziwa momwe kuphunzira zinthu, koma kutaya khalidwe loyenera la maganizo.
• Muyenera kuphunzira kuona anthu komanso zinthu moyenera. Mwakumana ndi munthu amene kwambiri intrusive? Tayang'anani pa iwo kuchokera ku mbali yina. Ndi lotseguka ndi ubwenzi sociable, amafuna kukhalapo kwanu. Tayani tsankho, chifukwa sindikupatsani kuwona chowonadi ndi bwino ganizilani izo, choncho kusokeretsa ndi kusokoneza moyo.
• Akatswiri ena akulangizidwa kuti alembe ochepa wosangalala, moyo otsimikiza aphorisms kuti adzakhala mosavuta ngati vuto. Zikuthandizaninso kutsogolera maganizo m'njira yoyenera, kupewa kukhumudwa ndi maganizo.

Choncho, njira yoyamba sayansi amatchedwa "tani kuganizira zinthu zolimbikitsa" anapanga. Mtsogolo, izo zonse zikudalira mukufuna kukhala osangalala munthu?