Kodi kuphunzira kunena kuti "ayi"

munthuyo amadziwika kuti munthu chikhalidwe. chitukuko Normal ntchito mu madera onse, sangatero. Kukhala m'dziko zonse umabala zikulumikizana latsopano, anthu kukhalapo nthawi zina obliges ife asintha, kuthandiza, etc. Mavuto tikayamba kukakamiza ku nawo yopitirira pa ntchito zosiyanasiyana, kasamalidwe nkhondo, pakuika chuma chake chogwirika komanso m'maganizo. Pali gulu la anthu amene sangathe kukana, kaya ntchito zawo, chidwi mu bwino bizinesi komanso ngakhale mlingo wa ubwenzi ndi munthu amene pempho ndi a chikhalidwe chosiyana. Kodi kuphunzira kunena kuti "ayi" ngati mawu ndi kunena zovuta kwambiri?

Mwatsoka, ambiri a anthu, pozindikira kuti munthu akhoza anamupempha zonse zimene mukufuna, ndipo sangathe kukana pempho la chikhalidwe chilichonse, ayamba kugwiritsa ntchito "spinelessness". Iwo kumakunenani zonse zochitika zawo, gawo la mikango ya mavuto, kubwereka ndalama kwa iye. Ichi ndi chifukwa chakuti anthu nthawi zonse kuyang'ana njira Chophweka chitukuko yekha ndi kuthetsa mavuto. Ngati linanena bungwe - ngakhale mu nkhope ya munthu makamaka - palibe amene akuona chanzeru kuyang'ana workarounds. Wozunzidwayo (ie, munthu amene Pankhaniyi amadwala kudalirika kwawo) akupitiriza kugwira nawo ntchito maphunziro abwino. Kodi kuphunzira kunena kuti "ayi"? Nthawi zambiri, zimenezi zimafuna ntchito nthawi yokha. "Failsafe" sangathe kunena mawu makamaka chifukwa cha iwo njira kumva kufunika ndi kufunikira.

Kodi kuphunzira kunena kuti "ayi"? Kukana sizikupanga inu ozizira ndi munthu osayanjanitsika. Atalephera kamodzi kukanitsitsa amene ntchito kudalira thandizo lanu, mupeza chifukwa chonyaditsa okha. Nkofunika kusiyanitsa zochitika kwenikweni zofunika, popanda kudzipeleka kwanu kuti mukhoza munthu ndithu ndipo ntchito banja mwangwiro anathana ndi ena.

Amene akuda chidwi ndi funso la tani kuti "ayi", muyenera mutidziwe ndi ena mwa malangizo. Choyamba, tiyenera kuona kuti utumiki ndi zolinga wina kumapatutsa anu. Nthawi kupitirizabe, ndipo inu - kugwira ntchito kuti athandize ena, kuiwala za maloto awo ndi zokhumba zawo. Ambiri, tidzayesetsa kwambiri kuphunzira momwe mukufuna kugawira ntchito malinga ndi chidwi ntchito yawo. Kachiwiri, kulephera kuona kulephera pamaso pa maofesi lanu, kuopa kukhala yekha, akuti asiyidwa. Mabwenzi enieni sadzalola okha kusiya munthu wawo ndi wokondedwa kokha chifukwa chakuti iye sanali kusiya zonse ndi munthu wina aliyense.

Yesani kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ili: Funsani anzanu nthawi zina zolankhulirana ndi zopempha zazing'ono, amakana kupereka simudzavutika kwambiri. Yesani komanso kusangalala ndi wozengereza ntchito iliyonse kovuta yekha. Mukakhala kumaliza, mudzakhala kunyadira nokha. Choncho, kufunika kwanu pamaso awo kukula. Phunzira kunena "ayi" mungathe aliyense amene amaona yekha kwambiri.

Kodi ngati nsonga pamwamba sititenga? Kodi kuphunzira kunena kuti "ayi" ngati mukuona kuopa kukhala yekha ndi kutaya abwenzi? Pankhaniyi, n'zomveka kukhala ndi nkhani yaikulu iwo. Tiuzeni za vutoli, lowani izo, musakhale chete za izo. Tiyeni anthu pafupi mukudziwa kuti n'zovuta kwa inu kukana kuchita chilichonse, ngakhale ntchito ang'ono-ang'ono. Iyeyo awo, mudzafanana kuthana ndi vutoli.

Ine ndiyenera kunena kuti Catherine Wachiwiri, amene sankadziwa mmene kunena kuti "ayi", zikupezeka kuthetsa vutoli. Pamene iye afunsidwa, iye wapeza zodzadza mkamwa mwa madzi, ndi mphindi ndiye ochepa kuyenda mu nyumba yachifumu. Mfumukazi mosamala anaganizirapo maganizo ake, napezanso mphamvu kukana. Pambuyo iye analavulira madzi, kawirikawiri mpweya yomweyo, iye anayankha kuti: "Ayi!".

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