Mapikisano a ukwati: Lolani alendo asaphonye!

Tsopano, pamene chikondwerero cha kukonzedwanso kwa okwatirana kumene chinayamba kuonetsedwa ndi anthu ngati chinthu chofunikira, nthawi zambiri okwatirana amakhala ndi funso lovuta: Kodi ndi malo oti agwire ukwatiwo? Mwamwayi, zaka zaposachedwapa, owerengeka a iwo amene akukwatirana amakumbukira malo osangalatsa ndi oyambirira a holide yotereyi. Kaŵirikaŵiri, alendo onse amasonkhanitsidwa kuchokera kwa wina kunyumba kapena pakhomo kapena malo ololedwa pokonzekera phwandolo.

Ndichifukwa chake, mipikisano ndi mphatso zapachiyambi za ukwati ndi zolankhula sizipita. Kuti apange okondwa a alendo, okwatiranawo akulembedweratu ndi odziwa masewera olimbitsa thupi, omwe akukonzekera zokondwerero zaukwati zomwe sizinasinthe pa zaka 10 mpaka 10. Inde, wina sanganene motsimikiza kuti mikangano yotereyi ndi yopanda pake kwa aliyense. M'malo mwake, nthabwala zabwino zakale zimachitidwa ndi omvera kuti "awononge." Koma banja lachichepere pa chikondwerero chaukwati likufuna kuona chinachake chosazolowereka ndikumbukira moyo wonse wam'tsogolo. Ngati mukufuna kupeza mndandanda wapadera wa ukwati, ndiye kuti muyenera kumaliza kuwerenga nkhaniyo mpaka kumapeto.

Pakali pano, pa intaneti zosiyanasiyana, mukhoza kupeza zambiri zosiyana zokhudzana ndi njira zachikondi komanso zoyambirira zothetsera mikangano paukwati, koma zambiri mwaziwonetserozi sizimayesedwa. Pansipa, tilembera mndandanda wa magawo atatu okondweretsa kwambiri, malingaliro anga, mpikisano, zomwe ngakhale otsogolera masewera ambiri amatha kutenga molimba mtima.

"Momwe Ndinayendera Mkazi Wanga"

Mapikisano onse a ukwatiwo mumayendedwe ake adagawidwa mu mitundu iwiri - mpikisano wa alendo ndi mpikisano kwa okwatirana kumene. Mpikisano uwu ndi wokondweretsa kwambiri kwa okwatirana kumene pa zikondwerero zaukwati. Zimakupatsani inu kusangalala nthawi yonse ya chikondwerero chaukwati. Mmodzi mwa alendowa amamupatsa chikwangwani chomwe amachikonda kwambiri, chomwe adzafunikira kuti asonyeze momwe mkwati wathu ankakhalira nthawi yomwe iye asanakumane ndi mkwatibwi wake. Kenaka wojambula manja akuyamba kuika maulonda onse omwe wapatsidwa mzere pansi, ndipo mkwati akuphimbidwa khungu pa nthawi ino. Pambuyo pake, amaperekedwa kuti apite mpaka koloko, ndikuwatsikira, yesetsani kuti musapitirire. Asanayambe kuyesedwa, maso a mkwati wathu asanamangidwe, ola liyenera kuchotsedwa.

Atangotha nthawi, alendo amayamba kukakamiza mkwatibwi, komwe angapite ndi choti achite, komanso akhoza kumufuula ndi kuseka chifukwa cha zovuta zake. Nthawi zina zidzangowoneka kuti akuyandikira maola ambiri, choncho mkwati adzangokhalira kuseka ndi kuseka m'malo momasuka, kuchititsa chisokonezo. Tamada, amene anasankhidwa pa ukwatiwo, nthawi yomweyo ayenera kunena nthawi zonse, iwo amati, ndizo chimodzimodzi asanalowe mkwati asanakumane ndi mkazi wake ndipo potsiriza adamuwona. Mpikisano umenewu nthawi zambiri umatsagana ndi kuseka ndi mphepo yamkuntho.

"Sitifunikira anthu owonjezera"

Mapikisano a ukwati pa mfundoyi amasintha kawirikawiri, ndipo amakumbutsa kwambiri aliyense wa masewera otchuka a ana omwe amadziwika kuti "Superfluous left". Pofuna kuyendetsa mpikisanowo ndikofunikira kusankha pakati pa anthu asanu ndi asanu ndi asanu ndi mmodzi kuchokera pa mndandanda wa alendo. Kenaka patebulo padzakhala magalasi, ndipo pambali yonse ya mpikisano wa galasi imodzi idzakhala yochepa. Magalasi onse kapena magalasi odzaza ndi zakumwa zonse zomwe zimakondwerera ukwati. Tamada amapereka anthu ku gome gulu, ndipo otsutsa amayamba kuyenda mozungulira.

Wopereka msonkhanowo atasiya kuimba nyimbo, aliyense wa ophunzira ayenera kutenga magalasi onse a vinyo ndipo nthawi yomweyo amwe. Munthu amene anatsala popanda kuwombera ayenera kuchoka pamsewero. Pambuyo pake, galasi imodzi imachotsedwa, ndipo mpikisano waukwati umapitiliza kachiwiri. Pamapeto pake, kuzungulira tebulo pali anthu awiri okha komanso galasi limodzi. Wopambana ndi wophunzira yemwe amayamba kugwira galasi lotsiriza ndipo akhoza kumwa. Popeza masewerawa sapanda zokometsera, ndipo ophunzira amamwa mowa nthawi zonse, osati onse omwe angathe kulimbana ndi mayeserowa. Inde, ndipo kuthamanga kuzungulira tebulo kumapeto kotsiriza sikungakhale kofanana ndikumayenda mozungulira.