Momwe mungayembekezere mnyamata kuchokera kunkhondo: uphungu wa katswiri wa zamaganizo kwa atsikana. Kalata kwa Asilikali

Pafupifupi msungwana aliyense wachiwiri amatha kugonjetsa funsolo: momwe angayembekezere mnyamata kuchokera kunkhondo? Chabwino, ngati izo ziri mu chiyanjano ndi winawake amene watumikira kale. Koma ngati mnyamatayo angotumizidwa kunkhondo, mtsikanayo ayenera kukonzekera chaka choyembekezera ndi kuyembekezera. Ngakhale mutha kupanga masiku 365 opindulitsa. Ndiyeno chaka chidzauluka mofulumira.

Makhalidwe

Mtsikanayo atatenga mnyamatayo kupita kunkhondo, iye, ndithudi, akanakhala wokhumudwa, wosungulumwa ndi wokhumudwa. Ndipo izo zikhoza kumvedwa. Komabe, sizinthu zonse zoipa monga momwe zingawonekere. Pambuyo pake, iwo adzakhala ndi mwayi wokumana ndi mnyamatayo!

Choyamba, rookie iliyonse patapita masabata angapo akulumbira. Ichi ndi chochitika chachikulu, chomwe chikuchitika mmoyo wa munthu kamodzi kokha. Choncho ndikofunika kuti anthu amene abwera kulumbirira alumbirire abwere. Ndipo ndithudi, wokondedwa wanga. Ngati abwera, msilikaliyo adzayamikira ntchitoyi. Komanso, msungwanayo akhoza kumuthandiza. Ndipo kachiwiri akutsimikiziranso kuti akufuna kudikira.

Ndipo atatha kulumbirira nthawi zambiri amapatsidwa kuchotsedwa. Zoona, pa chitetezo cha pasipoti ya mmodzi wa makolo a msirikali. Koma ngati mtsikanayo akulumbira nawo, ndiye kuti zonse zidzatha. Ndipo amatha kumaliza sabata limodzi.

M'tsogolo, asilikali amaloledwa kuchoka. Ngati mtsikana amakhala pafupi ndi unit ndipo ali ndi mwayi wobwera, ndiye kuti adzalandiranso. Misonkhano yamisonkhano nthawi zonse imatha kuchepetsa chiyembekezo. Ndipo zidzakhala zophweka kuti onse awiri apulumuke chaka chino.

Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?

Atsikana ambiri amaganizira kwambiri za momwe angayembekezere mnyamata kuchokera ku ankhondo kusiyana ndi zomwe ayenera kuchita chaka chino. Tiyeni tiwone ntchito yake yaikulu ndikuphunzira kapena kugwira ntchito. Kapena mwinamwake onse. Koma kodi mungachite chiyani nthawi yanu yopuma? Pambuyo pake, poyamba izi zinadzaza ndi misonkhano ndi nthawi yocheza yomwe mumakonda.

Tiyenera kukhala ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, pitani ku masewera olimbitsa thupi. Kuti, pamene mnyamatayo anabwerera kuchokera kunkhondo, adawona wokondedwa wake wokondedwa kwambiri ndipo adadabwa kwambiri ndi kusintha kwake kwina.

Mungayambe kuphunzira chinenero chachilendo kapena kusintha chidziwitso chanu. Pezani ntchito ina yowonjezera kuti musunge ndalama zogwirizana ndi tchuthi zomwe mumakonda. Ndipo mphatso yomwe ikuchitika panthawi ya kusamukira kumbuyo ingalephere kuganiza, chifukwa tchuthi pamalo ena okongola ndiwo ulaliki wabwino. Ngati mtsikanayo akulephera kuphika, zingakhale bwino kuyamba kuphunzira kuphika zakudya zomwe amakonda okondedwa ake. Akafika, adzatha kukondweretsa msilikali wanjala ndi chinachake chokoma. Kawirikawiri, ndi bwino kuti musaphonye wokondedwayo, koma kuti mutengeke ndi chinachake chokondweretsa komanso panthawi yomweyo.

Kutsogolo kwanu

Ngakhale kuti wokondedwayo ali kutali ndi mtsikanayo, akufuna kuti amufotokozere zakukhosi kwake. Ndiye mukhoza (ngakhale kutero) kulemba kalata kwa ankhondo. Ndipo ndi bwino kuvala pepala monga maganizo ambiri momwe zingathere. Asirikali omwe ali muutumikiwa alibe zosangalatsa zambiri, ndipo amawalembera kalata yayikulu kuti asangalale. Kodi muyenera kunena chiyani m'nkhani yanu? Chirichonse ndi chirichonse. Nchiyani chikuchitika kunyumba, kumudzi wakwanu, kodi kusintha ndi nkhani ndi zotani. Mukhoza kudziwa za zolinga zanu, zomwe mtsikanayo adaganiza kuti achite pamene ali wokhulupirika. Ndipo ndithudi, simungathe kuchita popanda mawu okondweretsa. Onetsetsani kulemba mizere ingapo za momwe mumamvera ndi momwe msungwana akuyembekezera msilikali wake ndipo amamuphonya kwambiri. Thandizo la makhalidwe ndi lofunika kwambiri.

Kukulitsa makhalidwe

Kutumiza kalata kwa ankhondo, kuli koyenera kupereka ndalama pang'ono. Njira yabwino ndi chithunzi chogwirizana cha mtundu wawung'ono. Ndi bwino kupukuta, kuti msilikali athe kunyamula mthumba mwake ndipo osadandaula kuti idzakhala yonyowa ngati imvula. Sikofunika kutumiza zithunzi zazikulu muzinthu zingapo ndi zizindikiro zonse ndi unyolo ndi zinthu zina - anthu apadera saloledwa kusungira katundu wanu usiku (ndipo zonsezi ziri mu thumba lanu sizikugwirizana). Kuwonjezera pamenepo, ngati envelopu ikulemera kwambiri, ikhoza kutsegulidwa ndipo zonse zimawoneka.

Phukusi likhoza kutumizidwa, mwa njira. Pambuyo pake n'kofunika kupeza chimene msilikali akufunikira. Zosasangalatsa kwenikweni sizidzameta thovu, shampoo, khungu la mano komanso chinachake chokoma, monga maswiti a chokoleti. Ndi bwino kuika zambiri, chifukwa asilikali nthawi zonse amagawana zonse ndi anzawo. Ndipo mutha kuikapo chevron ya mawonekedwe, malupu ndi oyambira dzina lake kumanzere kwake. Sichiperekedwa kunja kwa ankhondo.

Kodi akatswiri amati chiyani?

Mu funso la momwe angayembekezere mnyamata kuchokera kunkhondo, uphungu wa katswiri wa zamaganizo umatsimikizira kuti ndiwothandiza. Atsikana ena amakumana ndi vutoli. Ndipo kuthandizira sizongopeka.

Choyamba, tiyenera kuphunzira kuti wokondedwa ali m'gulu lankhondo. Iyi si msasa wa ana. Pali malamulo okhwima ndi ndondomeko. Ndikofunika kuti muzolowere kutchula kuti izo zidzangokhala mapeto a sabata, komanso kusowa kwa okhulupirika m'mabwenzi a anthu. Asilikali saloledwa kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti ndi telefoni panthawi yophunzitsa ndikulimbana ndi maphunziro. Mafoni a m'manja amaperekedwa kwa iwo okha Loweruka ndi Lamlungu. Choncho, musagone ku mafunso okondedwa anu chifukwa chake sanaitanidwe, ndi kumenyana nawo ndi amanyazi. Kwa iye ndi kunja sikophweka. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza kuti ndi bwino kulemba mkati mwa sabata buku losiyana la mafunso omwe mtsikana angafune kumufunsa msilikali ndi nkhani zomwe ziri zofunika komanso zosangalatsa. Chifukwa pamene mwamunayo atha kuyitana, ndi chisangalalo, chirichonse chimatha kuthawa pamutu mwanu. Ndipo nthawi idzakhala yochepa.

Kufunafuna abwenzi mumsampha

Atsikana ambiri usiku wonse amalingalira chinthu chimodzi chabe - momwe angayembekezere mnyamata kuchokera kunkhondo. Malangizo a amaganizo amatsimikizira: ngati mutu uwu suwapumula mpumulo, ndiye nthawi yoti mupeze abwenzi anu tsoka. Zabwino m'nthaŵi zamakono zamakono sizili zovuta. Pali malo ambiri ochezera, ndipo mwa iwo - malo ambiri. Zokwanira kulowa chiwerengero cha gawo limene wokondedwa amatumikira ndi kulowa mu gulu loperekedwa ndi injini yosaka. Kumeneko mungathe kulankhulana, kuwerenga nkhani zosangalatsa, kulembetsani mfundo zothandiza. Kawirikawiri, interlocutor angapezeke mwanjira iliyonse. Ndipo kudzakhala kotheka kusankha pamodzi choti achite pamene mnyamatayo ali msilikali.

Ndi chiyaninso china choyenera kudziwa?

Ngati mtsikana akuganiza za kuyembekezera mnyamata kuchokera ku ankhondo, osati chifukwa sakudziwa choti achite panthawiyi, koma chifukwa cha kusadzikayikira kwake pa izi, ndibwino kuti asayesedwe. Koma zimachitika kawirikawiri. Msungwanayo, monga akunena, sanayende, akufuna kuti azikhala ndi mnyamata wina tsiku lililonse, alandire mphatso ndi zowawa, osatopa komanso kusowa. Ndiye musapereke malonjezo onyenga ndi kunyenga msilikaliyo. Pambuyo pake, amakhulupirira kuti amamukonda ndi kuyembekezera. Ndipo kawirikawiri, musayambe chibwenzi, ngati simukuyenda. Anthu ambiri ayenera kumvetsa izi.

Koma ngati msungwanayo adathera mnyamatayo ndikukonzekera kudikira, ndiko kuti, momwe angasinthire masiku awo popanda wokondedwa. Mukhoza kulenga yekha kalendala ya demob. Monga lamulo, pamwamba pomwe, pomwe chaka chimasonyezedwa (2016-th, 2017-th, ndi zina zotero), amalemba kuti: "Zimakhalabe kuyembekezera." Ndipo pansipa, mmalo mwa miyezi, ndi chiwerengero cha masiku. Iyamba 365th, ndipo imatha poyamba. Msungwanayo adzatha kutulutsa tsiku limodzi tsiku lirilonse, amakhala popanda chabwino, ndi kuwerengera momwe zilili. Ambiri amakongoletsa kalendala ndi zithunzi zojambulidwa.

Kawirikawiri, ngati msungwanayo anakhala ndi moyo nthawi yomwe amaganizira momwe angayembekezere mnyamata kuchokera ku ankhondo, ndibwino kuti musaphonye. Ndipo kukonzekera chaka kuti apite mofulumira komanso phindu.