Mwamuna Zakumwa - zoyenera kuchita?

"Kodi kuchita pamene mwamuna wanu kumwa?" - funso adafunsa akazi ambiri ndi zambiri kupeza yankho. Pakadali pano, vuto la uchidakwa ndi kuti amadwala osati chadzaoneni yekha, koma pamalo ake onse. Mwamuna wake ndi kumwa, mkazi pamafunika udindo wa mpulumutsi: mkazi amayesetsa kuphunzitsa mwamuna wake ndi kumukopa kuti chikumbumtima chake, kupulumutsa ndi kukokera ku zinthu zosiyanasiyana zovuta, kuphimba ndi zifukwa mabwana awo. Ngati izi si kuthandiza, likukhalira kuti kumuopseza, kubisala anzake ndalama kuponya, akulonjeza kupala kusudzulana. Koma mwamuna wake kumwa monga kale. Ndi nthawi mkaziyo limachokera mu vuto kuti akufotokozera chikhalidwe kuti zamaganizo kuitana codependency. Mavuto codependency, anthu kuyiwala za okha, zofuna zawo, zinthu, thanzi ana. Chirichonse subordinated vuto limodzi: polimbana uchidakwa. Kulakwitsa chachikulu njira imeneyi ndi mkazi akuyesera kuti nditsirize ake mwamuna chikumbumtima kumwa, mosaganizira chakuti uchidakwa ndi matenda - omwe amafunika chimodzimodzi mankhwala oyenerera, komanso matenda ena onse. Ndi mosakayikira ufuna mwamuna kutsokomola, ngati iye anali matenda? Pankhaniyi, inu mumawatcha dokotala ndi mtima kukhala azichitira kwa mankhwala ake. Chithandizo cha uchidakwa - ndi nkhani ya dokotala - zamaganizo. Choncho chinthu choyamba kuchita pamene mwamuna zakumwa: amatchula katswiri malangizo. Ndipo adokotala kufotokoza kuti chikhalidwe chachikulu zochizira uchidakwa ndi chilakolako cha mowa ndi kuchotsa zizolowezi zimenezi. Ichi ndi chikhalidwe zikuluzikulu ndi koyenera kuti kulimbana bwino ndi matenda oopsa monga uchidakwa. Kuchitira absentia kapena mobisa kumwa zosatheka. Pafupi ayenera kuyesetsa kulimbikitsa kumwa: kuyang'ana zofooka, amatha kukakamiza iye kusiya mowa. Pakuti munthu wina, zingakhale ntchito ndi ntchito, zinthu bwino, wina - banja ndi ana, wachitatu - thanzi. Thandizo kupeza chilimbikitso ichi amatha katswiri - yamaganizo. Chinthu chachikulu - kukwaniritsa chilolezo cha chadzaoneni ndi kukaona zamaganizo ndi kuyamba chithandizo. Komabe, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti mankhwalawa uchidakwa - ndi yaitali ndi zovuta ndondomeko, napempha kwambiri kupirira ndi kuleza mtima, onse wodwala ndipo anamuperekeza wake. Narcologist anapereka chithandizo mabuku monga kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala chofunika ndi misala. Zimafunika thandizo kwa madokotala ndi banja kumwa: Choyamba, zikuthandizani ntchito khalidwe zolondola, ndipo kachiwiri, kuthana ndi codependency.

Tisaiwale kuti akuluakulu amadwala kumwa ana awo, zingakhalenso co-yozungulira. Pankhaniyi amafunika wowerenga maganizo kapena yamaganizo. Mwachidule, muyenera kuthana ndi zovuta alkogolizmomo ndi nthawi mothandizidwa ndi akatswiri.

Ngati sanachite, vuto kokha aziwonjezereka. Kumbukirani kuti akuvutika mowa anosognosia, kapena kusowa za kuwunika kuweruza yekha. Choncho, ngakhale mu wachiwiri kapena wachitatu gawo cha uchidakwa, izo angatsutse kuli mavuto ndi kutsimikizira achibale kuti iye akanakhoza muvale kapena kumwa. Koma Njira obscheaniya awa ndi mawu okha, chifukwa kulamulira khalidwe lawo popanda kuvutika mowa kudalira kvadifitsirovannoy thandizo ochet kovuta.