Pa nthawi, dzikoli lili ndi anthu oposa biliyoni 7. N'zovuta kulingalira, koma kumene ena a anthu kudya mzake, penapake pali ukapolo m'lingaliro loona mawu ndi kupha mwambo. Mmadera athu amakono, kumene ngakhale wina Kankhani munthu ayenera kukhala limodzi ndi kupepesa ku mbali zonse, zikuoneka zakutchire ndi uncivilized. Kodi kupewa kupha mzake? Kuti tiyankhe funso limeneli m'pofunika kuganizira ntchito ya malamulo chikhalidwe.
mchikhalidwe Social, mawu osavuta, ndi malamulo membala aliyense wa anthu amakhala. Kuti timvetse tanthauzo ndi ntchito ya malamulo chikhalidwe, tione imodzi mwa zatsopano. Bambo Garfinkel ali anapereka ophunzira ake kuti azikhala m'dziko kunja bokosi. Mwachitsanzo, pamene kugula mu sitolo, ophunzira anatenga mankhwala si kutali shelufu, ndi madengu a ogula ena kulipira chakudya kunyumba ndipo nthawi adamfunsa nkhani mafotokozedwe mu wocheza. Monga ulamuliro, anthu aphwanya maziko wodikira, ndipo iwo sankadziwa mmene mokwanira ndi bwino kuyankha khalidwe lachilendo.
mchikhalidwe Social amakulolani cigawo mu anthu, kupereka malamulo ndi zochita zimene moyo osati chifukwa kukayikirana aliyense, ndi chibwenzi. Nthawi zambiri, ife basi kunena "kuti zikomo" kwa ulemu wa umunthu pamene moni kuwonjezera pa dzanja la munthu, koma osati mkazi. Choncho, ntchito yoyamba ya malamulo chikhalidwe - ndi kusakanikirana anthu mu chikhalidwe ndi lamulo la kukula kwake ndi kukhalamo.
Koma si anthu onse kuvomereza malamulo a masewerawo. Mwa anthu onse pali subcultures ambiri ndi kontrkultr. Zoyambazo zikuphatikizapo zionetsero punks ndi ometa mpala, hippies ndi rappers zautsi ndi chikhalidwe chachiwiri - zigawenga ndi mahule. Kupewa ndi Kupha ngati wakhalidwe losalongosoka (wakhalidwe losalongosoka) Khalidwe - izo ndi ntchito za malamulo chikhalidwe. Kuyambira ndili mwana, anthu mu ulemerero wake wonse kwa zowonetsera TV ndi zithunzi kuchokera masamba a mabuku, malankhulidwe ndi anzake komanso abale amatiuza momwe angachitire ndi zimene samalani. Monga mwana, timakhulupirira zonse ife kuti, munthu odalirika. Kudzera mwa nthumwi tatchulawa ndipo timatengera malamulo awa chikhalidwe. Malamulo bwanji ndi kutipatsa ife kuchoka ku zinthu yosavuta, kupulumutsa nthawi yathu. Iwo apanga dongosolo ndi chiyembekezo maziko, kuyan'anila zimene ife otchulidwa pofotokoza kuyesera Garfinkel. Kuti ndi ntchito lotsiriza la Zamakhalidwe ndicho kukhala ndi makhalidwe zovomerezeka.
Chitukuko ambiri ndi kumvetsa ntchito ya Zamakhalidwe anthu ife amalangiza wotchi zisudzo za oseketsa kwambiri ngati Dzhordzh Karlin, Dzho Rogan, Ellen Dedzheneras ndi Dylan Moran. Mu sewero lanthabwala zisudzo wake kunyozedwa malamulo ndi lothandiza chodabwitsa wa masewera m'dera limene ife kubwereza tsiku lililonse popanda ganizo lachiwiri.
Ntchito ya malamulo chikhalidwe akhoza kukhala ndi "disservice" kupanga dysfunctions ndi zolakwika. Atayima pempho ogula mfundo kugula yambiri kungasokoneze chilengedwe ndi maganizo umoyo wa anthu. Kupewa nkhondo yapachiweniweni chikhalidwe ichi kumafuna kuwerenga ndi kukhala maganizo yovuta.