N'chifukwa chiyani "wotanganidwa" - ichi ndi bodza lalikulu?

Kodi munayamba anati kwa nokha, "Ndimatanganidwa kwambiri"? "Ndimatanganidwa kwambiri kukumana ndi munthu uyu?" "Ndimatanganidwa kwambiri kusamalira thanzi lanu?" "Ndimatanganidwa kwambiri kuphunzira chinenero china?" Inu mukhoza kunena ndekha kuti lero anali "wotanganidwa" kuchita chinachake chikondwerero. amamutcha ambiri amanama kangapo.

M'dziko la kusintha mofulumira, mwayi wopandamalire mauthenga onse, komanso zododometsa ambirimbiri kuti anthu athu ali kugwiritsidwa ntchito kuti lithandizire ntchito chifukwa cha ... yake aone ake. Komabe, pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati ntchito ndi zokolola. Tingakhale wotanganidwa onse a moyo wathu wamkulu, ndipo nthawi yomweyo tsiku osati kuchita zimenezi. Ndicho chifukwa mawu "Ndimatanganidwa kwambiri" zingachititse chifukwa negative.

Ife zimene tafesa

Kodi munayamba anagula galimoto latsopano, kenako anayamba kuona ndi makina zofanana mu mzinda wanu? Kapena mwina muli ndi galu, ndipo anayamba kulabadira ana onse a mtundu umenewu?

Izi sizikutanthauza kuti opanga galimoto yanu mwadzidzidzi anaganiza kumasula zitsanzo zambiri mu mzinda wanu, kapena kuti anthu galu mwadzidzidzi kuchuluka. Izi zikutanthauza kuti chiyambi cha ntchito yanu dongosolo reticular kutsegula. Osati kuti waft kukutopetsani ndizofunika mfundo sayansi, tikhoza kunena kuti ndi njira yokha mu ubongo wanu kuti akukuuzani zimene muyenera kulabadira, ndipo kodi si. Taganizani za izo monga fyuluta ubongo.

Ngakhale dzina la limagwirira izi sizikumveka chidwi kwambiri, ndi mbali yofunika ya ubongo. Iwo imalongosola momwe ife tikuganizira - kaya bwino kapena ndimosadziwa. Chimodzi mwa zitsanzo wamkulu wa limagwirira ali choncho pamene Roger Bannister anathamanga mtunda mu mphindi zinayi mu 1954, ngakhale pa nthawiyo anali zinkaoneka ngati zosatheka. Chaka chotsatira, iye anaswa umboni, oposa khumi ndi anthu akwanitsa kubwereza izo, kuphatikizapo ana asukulu sekondale.

Kodi ulamuliro ubongo?

Chifukwa limagwirira - kuti pali njira ziwiri kulamulira ubongo wathu.

• ulamuliro amazindikira - ichi ndi sadziwa cholinga reader, affirmations ndi zowonera. Ife angalenge fyuluta kuti amalola ubongo wathu kuganizira kwambiri zimene zingatithandize kuyandikira cholinga.
• Chikumbumtima kulamulira. Pamene ukundiuza kuti muli ndi nthawi, ubongo amayesetsa kupeza justifications onse kufotokoza kuti inu simutero kwenikweni.

Popeza ubongo wathu pamapeto pake amakhulupirira zimene timanena izo, uthenga wa pa-ntchito amakhala mtundu wa uneneri.

Otanganidwa - sizikutanthauza kukhala aphindu

Ambiri a ife kuchita khama zikuluzikulu kumaliza ndandanda chiyani sabata. Ndi pamene inu kutenga sitepe ku pozungulira, inu mukuzindikira kuti pa mndandanda pali zinthu zochepa zimene kwenikweni zingakhudzire zolinga zanu.

Choncho tiyeni tikambirane za kusiyana kwakukulu pakati ntchito ndi wopindula.

• anthu otanganidwa ndi zambiri zofunika, zipatso - ochepa zikuluzikulu.
• anthu otanganidwa ndi moganizira kanthu, cholinga zipatso pa momveka tisanachite kanthu.
• anthu otanganidwa akuyesera kuti amalize zinthu zonse mwakamodzi, cholinga zipatso pa ntchito imodzi yokha.
• anthu otanganidwa amalabadira uthenga umene ukubwera yomweyo zipatso pambali kwa nthawi iyi yoyenera kuthana nawo zonse mwakamodzi.
• anthu otanganidwa kunena kuti alibe nthawi, zipatso ntchito kwa zinthu zofunikira kwenikweni.

choonadi kuti ife tonse nthawi zonse, chirichonse banja, kuphunzira chinenero, ndi masewero olimbitsa thupi, kuphika chakudya wathanzi. Sitingaithetse chilichonse chimene tikufuna.

Chilamulo 20/80

Tilinso kuganizira chilamulo cha Pareto: zonse zimene timachita pa moyo wathu, zotsatira 20% 80% ya zotsatira ankafuna.

Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati ndinu:

• Kuphunzira chinenero - kuganizira njira zomwe zingakuthandizeni 80% ya mukufuna (ie, kukwaniritsa kudodoma kucheza).
• Kumanga malonda - kuganizira ntchito zingapo zofunika, amene adzapereka 80% wosangalala makasitomala anu.
• Bweretsani thupi lako mu mawonekedwe - Muziganizira Zochita ochepa amene aza phunzitsa 80% ya thupi lanu.

Koma bwanji kuti njira imeneyi ntchito? Yesani kudzifunsa funso losavuta imodzi yokha ...

Kodi chofunika kwambiri kwa inu?

The bwino likugulidwabe "Chinthu chimodzi," Geri Keller anafotokoza zimene muyenera kuchita, kenako zinthu zina zonse ndi wosafunika kapena zosafunika. Mungagwiritse ntchito mfundo imeneyi ndi bizinesi ya moyo, ubwenzi, thanzi, chuma ndi zina zotero. D. Mwina mungaganize kuti ichi ndi chimodzi mwa mafunso ovuta kwambiri kuti muyenera kuika nokha. Ndipotu, kudzikakamiza kuti kukana mwayi wabwino, koma mfundo yokha amamasula malo amene akhoza kusintha moyo wanu. Nthawi zina mizere pakati pa iwo ndi khungu, koma kudzifunsa funso lamanja, sudzakhala "wotanganidwa kwambiri" ndipo anayamba kuchita mwaphindu.

pomaliza

Dzifunseni kuti: Kodi inu mukuti inde zinthu zambiri, mukukumana mu moyo wanu? Kapena anthu ambiri amene si wofunika kwambiri kwa inu? Ngati ndi choncho, mwina ndi nthawi kusintha zinthu zofunika kuchita ndi zochita zawo. Nkhani zina tsiku kapena, ngati mungathe, sabata, yesani kuona ngati chofunika kwambiri chimene chimachitika kwa inu. Ngati yankho palibe - pite patsogolo. Kumbukirani kuti palibe yankho chinachake mediocre, mumatsegula kuthekera kwa zochitika zapadera mu moyo wanu.