Psychology ya Akazi: Chikhalidwe ndi Chikhalidwe

Ogonana ndi akazi amatha kusintha nkhondo zopanda malire. Ena amati psychology ya akazi ndi yosiyana kwambiri ndi psychology ya amuna, ena amakhulupirira kuti palibe zosiyana za sayansi chilango konse. Ndani ali wolondola? Mwinamwake mbali zonse. Koma pang'ono chabe.

Amazoni ayamba ndi ... kupambana

Psychology ya akazi mu ubale ndi yosiyana kwambiri ndi yamphongo. Ndi okhawo amene amapambana mmiyoyo yawo ndi amayi omwe amalimbikitsa kukambirana kwawo ndi amuna kapena akazi mwachitsanzo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti amachitira mwatcheru mbali iyi ya moyo, osalola kuti azichita zinthu. Amuna ndi osangalatsa osati ogona klushi, koma amayi owala, anzeru ndi odziimira okhaokha. Akhoza kukwatiwa ndi akazi osakondwa, koma ngati munthu angathe kukwanitsa wogulitsa nyumba, sangakwatire ndi mkazi wokongola. Izi zikutanthauza kuti maulendo aumunthu azimayi - chizindikiro cha kusalidwa kwa ndalama kwa munthu.

Chidaliro chodalira

Psycholoji ya akazi poyerekeza ndi ndalama imayenderana ndi zikhalidwe za chikhalidwe. Malinga ndi maganizo a anthu, vuto ndilo pamene mwamuna ali ndi mkazi, ndipo amamugwiritsira ntchito ndalama, zomwe zimangowonjezera maganizo ake. Ndipo ndithudi, ngakhale mkazi wopindula bwino samamva bwino, ngati mwangoyamba kukhala wopindulitsa kwambiri m'banja. Zoonadi, "malipiro" kusankhana pakati pa kugonana kwabwino kumatsanulira mafuta pamoto. Chodabwitsa ichi chimaphatikizapo kuti amayi amalipidwa mochepa. Kuchokera ku chiwerengero kuti chikhale chimodzimodzi ngati munthu "wodalirika".

Kutsika

Kodi psycholo ya mkazi wokwatira imasiyana ndi maganizo osakwatira? Inde, mwamphamvu mokwanira. Ndipo, mwatsoka, poipa kwambiri. Kawirikawiri, pambuyo pakwati, pali kuwonongeka, zonse zamaganizo ndi zakuthupi. Ichi ndi chifukwa chofunika kwambiri chifukwa cha ukwati mu chikhalidwe chathu. Zikuoneka kuti udindo wa mkazi yemwe ali wokwatira, ukuwonjezeka kwambiri (mwa njira, udindo wa munthu nthawi yomweyo umachepa).

Musakhale mofulumira

Mkazi wokwatiwa amayamba kupuma pa laurels ake. Koma pachabe. Chifukwa chakuti ngati banja likusudzulana, ana ayenera kulipiritsa, ndipo n'zovuta kukwatiranso pamodzi ndi ana omwe kale anali "nahlebnitsa". Kotero chikhalidwe chathu cha umulungu pa nkhani yaukwati chimasanduka zowawa zazimayi. Mwina ndi kosavuta kuti muyambe kukwatira ukwati monga gawo la moyo, osati chofunika kwambiri? Ana samayambitsa chifukwa "izo zinachitika", koma chifukwa ndikufuna kugawana chimwemwe cha moyo wopanga, wogwira ntchito. Ndipo pokhapokha, pamene mungapereke ana anu bwino, osadalira "akalonga"?

Ife ndife osiyana

Psychology ya akazi imasiyana ndi maganizo a anthu osati chifukwa cha chikhalidwe. Tili ndi maonekedwe osiyanasiyana, ubongo umagwira ntchito mosiyana (osati zoipitsa, koma zosiyana) ndipo pali chikhumbo chokhazikika mu ubale. Koma ndi bwino kusewera masewera a munthu, ndikupanga munthu mkhalidwe wokusaka iwe moyo wake wonse. Ngati munthu sakhala wosangalatsa, amasiya. Kwa wina, kwa inu nokha. Kapena uchidakwa. Choncho, musalimbikitse mawonetseredwe a amayi a chikhalidwe chawo - mkazi wamakono, osati wotetezedwa ndi chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe, ndibwino kukhala mutu, osati mtima.