Timaphunzila fanizo ana

Ndithu makolo ochepa kuwerenga fanizo ana. Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti mwana wawo ali ndi chochepa kwambiri ndi sangathe kumvetsa tanthauzo lakuya chibadidwe iwo. Koma pachabe. Ana - ang'ono howcast amene akufunafuna tanthauzo pyonsene pinaacitikira. Nthawi zina zopanda sikutanthauza kufotokozera, izo zimapangitsa ana funso "chifukwa chiyani?". Choncho ana adzakhala chidwi kwambiri kumva akuluakulu zothandiza nkhani kufanana. Werengani Fanizo la ana akhoza kukhala pafupifupi 3 zaka. Nthawi imeneyi, mwana akudziwa kale lonse, iye akhoza kufunsa zimene sanamvetse.

M'kupita kwa nthawi, fanizo kwa ana ntchitoyo ndipo apange mwana zinthu moyenera, njira yosavuta moyo, kumuphunzitsa tikuyamikira zonse zimene ali nazo. Komanso ana amakhala ndi "moyo" otchulidwa mafanizo. Zimenezi zimawathandiza kusangalala ndi ena, koma imaphunzitsanso ena ndi achifundo. Fanizo abwino angathandize mwana wanu kuchotsa nkhawa, kukhala wosadzikayikira, kuchiritsa dyera, ostentation ndi nsanje.

Tsopano pali yaikulu zosiyanasiyana mabuku yophunzitsa ana. Kwa ana aang'ono zabwino yosayenera nthano fanizo ana. Ndi wosavuta kudziwa, koma pa nthawi yomweyo osauka m'maganizo ndiponso kupangitsa kayankhulidwe ka mwana. Izi nkhani zothandiza kufotokozera ana kuti moyo ulibe kulekana okhwima mu chabwino ndi choipa, wina ndi vuto lomwelo ali njira zingapo, koma vuto chiyembekezo kulibe. Miyambo akuluakulu ndi ana itenge nzeru zawo, anauyamba oterowo njira zosavuta, zotchipa, koma pa nthawi yomweyo chidwi.

Amene ndi modekha?

Anali bambo ake aakazi awiri. The wamkulu anali kukongola yapadera. Iye anali ndi wachifundo pinki nkhope, fluffy tsitsi ofewa ndi fungo mawu osangalatsa. bambo ake anali kwambiri kuwakonda relentlessly anamusilira kukongola kwake ndipo nthawi zonse poyerekeza ndi duwa wokondeka.

Mwana wamkazi wamng'ono adali ndi wabwino ndithu ndi omvera, koma nkhope zinali zambiri zamwano, ndi khungu ndi waukali, wouma kwa homuweki zonse. Ndicho chifukwa adakonda bambo ake ndi zochepa kwambiri. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, mwana wamkazi wamkulu wa bambo ake ankachita, ndipo wamng'ono "osindikiza" ntchito.

Tsiku lina, pamene bambo anga ndinapita kukasaka, iye anali agwidwa ndi matsoka. Iye anali ndi mfuti anasiyiratu. Manja ndi nkhope unatenthedwa yachepa ndi shrapnel. dokotala ankachitira mabala a munthu, womangidwa ndi bandeji, ndi aakazi ananena kuti bambo awo wakhala pogwira, ndipo kwa kanthawi sanathe kuona chilichonse kaya, kapena ali nacho.

Mwana wamng'ono anachita matenda a luntha bambo ake, iye analonjeza kuti manja ake ndi maso kuchira zonse. Tsiku lililonse kwa chaka chathunthu, ankasamalira wa bambo ake, iye kudyetsedwa ndi kum'patsa kuti amwe zitsamba. The mwana wamkulu sakupezedwa nthawi wodwalayo. Pa pempho lake kukhala pafupi chokana ake, n'kunena kuti kusowa nthawi free, kufunika kupita ku munda kapena pa chibwenzi.

Pamene bambo anga anachira, ndi bandeji, anaona pamaso pake aakazi awiri inachotsedwa maso ake: akulu, wosakhwima ngati duwa, ndipo wamng'ono - mediocre kwambiri. Iye anali wachiwiri kwa iwo, ndipo anati:

- Zikomo inu, wokondedwa, amasamalidwa ndi nkhawa. Chiwopsezo Sindinathe tiyerekeze kuti ndinu wofatsa ndi mtundu.

- Koma ine lililonse limatisokoneza kwambiri! - wamwano ndinaona mwana wamkulu.

- Pa nthawi ya matenda, ndinazindikira kuti mwachikondi si softness wa khungu, - anati bambo ake.

Mwachitsanzo Ichi chimapereka fanizo ana bwinobwino kuti anthu ayambe kukongola m'kati, ndiye ndikungopempha kuti kunja. N'zosadabwitsa iwo kuti maonekedwe amapusitsa.