A ochepa nsonga mmene achotse mkazi wake

Masiku ano, kusudzulana n'zosadabwitsa ndipo anthu asankha kusiya, si mantha adzakhala monga kale. Pali ngakhale mawu amene amapita, kuti ndionane sizoona kwa munthu zitha kukhala pambuyo lithe.

Pansi

Pofuna kwathunthu nadzawasankhula ubwenzi ndi mkazi, mwamuna ayenera kusankha kumene achotse mkazi wake kwa iye bwino. Pakuti ichi pali yachiwiriyo: kudzera ofesi kaundula kapena bwalo. Chilekano mosavuta ndi thandizo la bungwe loyamba, koma tisaiwale kuti zimenezo, ulamuliro wa utsogoleri si kutenga udindo wa nsoka wa chuma. Kunena mwachidule, kaundula ofesi angapo chilekano zosavuta ndi abwelele kunyumba. Onse. Zofunika amadzinenera awiri ziyenera yekha mzake. Koma ichi ndi pomwe pali chiopsezo kuti mkazi mwachinyengo adzayesa kuti achotse gawo lalikulu la chuma olowa , ndi kusiya mwamuna wake popanda khobiri. Mukhoza, ndithudi, pasanathe zaka zitatu pambuyo lithe kupala suti boma. Komabe, okha kuthandiza omwe ali m'mavuto ngati chuma sati kugulisa adzapitiriza kuti kugawaniza. Kulingalira momwe bwino ukwati ndi mkazi wake, munthu akhoza kuyesa kusiya kugona ndi thandizo la bwalo. Kotero inu mukhoza kupulumutsa ena katundu ndi muchigawane mwachilungamo. Komabe, imeneyi, akazi akambirane ndi kukakamiza munthu kulipira alimony (ngati pali zifukwa Kuteroko).

mgwirizano wa ukwati

Kodi achotse mkazi wake? M'pofunikanso kumvetsa katundu onse m'banja adzagawanika okha awiri. Ana ayenera kukhala ndi mayi awo, iwo akhoza mosadalira kusankha amene makolo akufuna kupita amakhala zina. Ayenerere zinthu ziwirizi Sikuti munthu. Komabe, kusintha chinthu chonsecho walemba pa mgwirizano ukwati, pomwe zina zabwino osiyana akhoza mwachindunji payekha kale. Dziwani kuti chikalatacho nthawi zoweta ubale weniweni kwambiri, pamene ngakhale nambala pachaka kupita kwa banja kapena mayi apongozi akhoza zinafotokozedwa Europe.

Pa zinthu

Kulingalira momwe bwino ukwati ndi mkazi wake, mwamuna ayenera kukumbukira kuti chinthu chachikulu bizinesi - mawerengedwe youma ndi mutu ozizira. Thandizo, funsani ndi loya chifukwa cha mfundo imene munthu akhoza kukhala mu malo mtengo. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, wozunzidwayo mwanjira ndikukhulupirira dona. Choncho, pa ndondomeko chilekano m'pofunikanso kuti munthu chabe khalidwe labwino: Musachite mwano mkazi wake, ndipo ndithu abalalitse manja ake. Ndi bwinonso kuti asiyanitse ana (ngati). Ndi wachibale wawo kwa atate, khoti amathanso mfundo zina.

ukwati

Kulingalira momwe achotse mkazi wake, mwamuna ayenera kukumbukira kuti ubale watsopano, mwambo wa Kuthi lithe, sadzakhala kusewera m'manja (ngati lithe adzakhala formalized m'bwalo). Ngati muli naye kale mkazi kwambiri, koma palibe amene mukudziwa za si koyenera, ndi bwino kukhala ndi anzanu kapena makolo.

kukhalabe zikulumikizana

Kufuna kudziwa mmene achotse mkazi wake, munthu aliyense adzakhala zothandiza malangizo: sufunika kufukiza milatho. Tiyeni banjali sizinayende, ndi kudutsa mu banja, koma yabwino imeneyi Musataye mutu wanu ndi siziboola ubwenzi kwathunthu. Makamaka ngati banja ndi ana. Nthawi zina, ziribe kanthu kumene mudzakhala ndi kuwoloka kwinakwake kulankhula. Choncho ndi bwino Mkazi kukhala mabwenzi kuposa adani analumbira. Kapena kuyesa kuyandikira kwa izo.