Kodi kukhala namwali zaka 30?

Lero, ife kukhala pafupi ndi mzake mosavuta zokwanira. Koma ngakhale kuti tikhoza kukambirana chiwerengero chawo cha anthu ogonana, ambiri a ife akunena zoona akafunsidwa pa msinkhu womwe anataya namwali.

Ponena za zochitika za pa

Pafupifupi anyamata zimachitikira nthawi yoyamba mu zaka 16, pamene atsikana zikupita 17. Koma tikhoza kunena motsimikiza kuti achinyamata samuopa kuyesera kugonana. Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, mu 1950 avereji yolowera ubwenzi wolimba ndi mnzake woyamba anali ndi zaka 21, ndipo mu 1980s wa - kale 17.

Komabe, aliyense wa ife ali okonzeka kugonana pa unyamata wake. Achinyamata ena amavutika kwambiri kusankha izo.

Mwina ndife zonse bwino chiwembu filimu "Cincino Virgin" (2005) ndi Steve Carrel mu udindo mutu. Koma, ine ndikudabwa, akazi amene anali asanakhale kugonana pafupifupi kwa zaka pakati-?

History Rebecca

Golden Rebecca anavomereza kuti ndinataya unamwali wake pamene anali 35.

Mu zaka 33 Rebecca kulemedwa makilogalamu 272. Pa 34 iye anamuchita chapamimba kulambalala, ndipo kenako - opaleshoni kuti achotse khungu owonjezera. Ndipo okha zaka 35 Rebecca kachiwiri anaganiza zobwerera ku dziko la chibwenzi ndi chibwenzi, kumene monga izo zinkawoneka kale uja, muyaya kutsekedwa kwa iye.

Ngati ife tonse, iye ndimafuna kukumana ndi munthu amene adzakhala kwa iye koposa ena. Ndiyeno anakumana ndi Stephen, amene anakhala wokonda wake woyamba.

Rebecca sanamuuze kuti iye anali namwali pamene ukwati wawo anakulirakulirabe. Mu 35 zawo iye amaona kuti kuvomereza ngati lachilendo ndi manyazi. Ngati atsikana achinyamata, iwo anali ndi mafunso ambiri ndi mantha. Mwina iwo anali aakulu kuposa atsikana. Nchiani ngati - kuti agonane? Kodi kuwawa nthawi yoyamba? Mwina mafunso amenewa akudzifunsa mtsikana aliyense, pamaso pa onse chimachitika kwa nthawi yoyamba, mosasamala kanthu za msinkhu.

Rebecca Golden Tsopano

Ubwenzi Rebecca ndi Steven inatenga zaka ziwiri. Titamaliza ya buku, iye anaphunzira zambiri: anazindikira kuti lachilendo kungakhale kudzera Intaneti chibwenzi wambiri Nsomba ntchito anakumana ndi zosinthika pang'ono BDSM, ndi hymen iye anali akadali kukhala opaleshoni yochotsa. Koma iye anavomereza kuti moyo wake yasintha kopambana. Pa 38, Rebecca ndi wokondwa potsiriza kuphunzira zisangalalo zonse angapereke mkazi kugonana.

"Kwenikweni, Ndine wokondwa tsopano, - anati heroine wathu. - akazi ambiri, akamva nkhani anga, amandiuza okha ndipo kuti nawonso, Panafunika nthawi potsiriza kusankha. Ngakhale anzanga ambiri akadali anapanga kwa zaka "wamphamvu". "

Kusankha pa ubwenzi loyamba ndi munthu wa zaka 35, malinga ndi Rebecca, ndi zovuta. Koma iye amadziwa kuti pa m'badwo uwu ndi bwino kudziwa zomwe bwenzi pamafunika, ndipo anadziwa kuti iye amakonda anzeru, ndi pang'ono kudzikonda zili munthu akagona ndi chomwe amachitakasa.

"Nthawi zambiri kukumbukira nthawi yanga yoyamba, - anati Rebecca. - Koma ine ndikukhulupirira kuti pochita zinthu ndi Maphunziro Akakhalidwe Kazolengedwa anthu - uwu si Mbali yofunika kwambiri ".