Kodi kusintha moyo wanu kuti ukhale wabwino?

Okayikira amene kuwerenga mutu wa nkhani, mungafunse kuti: "Kodi pomwe amachita munthu osadziwika kuti ndikulangizeni mmene kusintha moyo labwino?"

Ndikuganiza angapereke ochepa nsonga, popeza ndidazichita. Ndasintha moyo wanga. Mu njira yabwino kwambiri.

Patapita nthawi yovuta chilekano, ine ndinali ndi ana awiri. Ndiyeno kukonzanso lapansi. Ndipo popanda kugwira ntchito mwakhama kuphunzitsa atsikana posachedwa kusanduka losavuta vuto: mmene kudyetsa ana awo? Masiku amenewo ine analibe nthawi kuganizira mmene kusintha moyo kuti ukhale wabwino. Kunali kofunikira kuchita. Malipiro salipidwa chifukwa miyezi, ndi ndalama, ngakhale anali wamkulu, kugula m'masitolo sanali. Koma ndinkafuna kupereka maphunziro kwa ana. Masana ntchito, ndiye moonlighted, ndiye anathandiza wamng'ono kuchita maphunziro ndi kusintha-ankasoka zovala akulu: iye ankachita nawo bwalo ed. Ndiye mkulu wokwatira mdzukulu anabadwa, panali nthawi yochepa. Ganizo kuti nthawi kusintha moyo wanu, monga samabwera ku malingaliro anga.

Ndiyeno mwadzidzidzi wamkulu osati ana koma ngakhale mdzukulu. Ine ndinali osafunika. Kodi ine pa nthawiyo? Ntchito, chimene Ine anachepetsedwa, ubwino zochepa ndi ... kusungulumwa. No mabwenzi, palibe mwamuna, palibe chiyembekezo.

Apa funso momwe kusintha anali nthiti. Kusankha ndinali wamng'ono: mwina kusintha, kapena kusokonezeka kwa mitsempha.

Ine anayamba kuchita zinthu zopusa ndi zosamveka, koma kuchita.

Kuyamba anabwera Simoron. Pali malo oterowo. Ngati mwaganiza kusintha mavuto anu, kuyamba naye. Pali mukhoza kukweza maganizo anu, kupeza mabwenzi. Ndipo pali zigawo chidwi: The Way kwa chuma, Amafuna, zothandiza ndi zambiri zina. Amakonda ndi zosafunikira, koma chiyambi cha mchitidwe maloto luso, Ine adzaona ndekha chimodzimodzi chimene ndikufuna.

Tsopano ine ndikuchidziwa momwe kusintha moyo wosangalala. Wakhala analemba mndandanda wa zilakolako, njira za kukhazikitsa awo. Kuti tichotse maganizo kusinkhasinkha. Kenako anatenga yekha manja ndi anayamba kuyang'ana ntchito. Ine sanalinso zaka 40, kotero kupeza malo abwino anali oposa kovuta.

Mokondwera Simoron kusintha pa malo pa momwe kuyang'ana bwino ntchito, ndi mmene bungwe miyoyo yawo. Malangizo a zamaganizo, akatswiri, ndipo mabwana andithandiza: ndili ndi ntchito yaikulu. Ndipo mulole izo zikhale sitepe yanu yachiwiri: kuyamba kuchita zosangalatsa.

Chifukwa maganizo oipa zina anabwerera, ndi abwenzi anu ndipo sizinayambe, madzulo, ndinkakonda anakhala pa intaneti. Pamsonkhano wina maonekedwe ndinakumana munthu. Tili naye za chipembedzo, malingaliro sanagwirizane, ife kukangana masabata awiri. Kenako iye kukachita bizinesi ku mzinda wanga. Tili zaka zinayi, tinakwatirana.

Pangani njira yachitatu: Pezani pa nokha, kuyamba akufunafuna moyo mnzanuyo. Nthawi yomweyo, koma inu adzaupeza. Ndipo pamene anthu amakonda ndi ntchito lapamtima, imangokhala yokha kupeza anzanga.

Tayambiranso mabwenzi akale, kupeza mabwenzi atsopano ndi zinthu zofanana. Ena a iwo anabwera ndi kupita, wosasiya kufufuza mu miyoyo yathu, munthu anakhala bwenzi lapamtima.

Pitani anzanga, kupeza atsopano. Ndipotu kanthu analoŵa, kanthu adapindulapo.

Anthu amene safuna kuyang'ana ntchito, abwenzi atsopano, wokondedwa, koma ndikudabwa momwe kusintha moyo wanu akhoza kupereka malangizo ngati zamaganizo ndi (ichi ndi digiri yanga yoyamba):

• Usachite mantha kuti ndimalota. Musamangocheza m'maganizo anu. Dream ntchito nthawi zonse. Pamenepo malingaliro matupi, ndi maloto akwaniritsidwe. Zimenezi zichitike posachedwa, kupanga mapu zilakolako.
• Sankhani cholinga, kuzilongosola mu dongosolo la patsogolo. Ndipo anachita kwa izo, ngakhale mavuto. Kuyenda - nthawizonse amabwera kwa mapeto.
• Musati muchite zimene inu sindimakonda. Monga kuchita zinthu mumakonda, mudzakhala osangalala ndi iwo eni.
• Kodi sanadulidwe nokha. Madzulo, mwachidule tsiku, muwayamikire, maka nokha kwa kutha makamaka. Konzani mawa. Kuchita zimenezi nthawi zonse, inu mukumvetsa zimene ndikufuna ndi kusintha moyo wosangalala.
• Kumachita zikuperekedwa kusangalala kwambiri.

Zabwino zonse kwa inu!