Kodi kuyamwa mwana ku matenda: malangizo

Lingaliro la makono a maphunziro amanena kwambiri makolo kukhudzana ndi akhanda. Kuvala mu ntchito gulaye ndi ergoryukzake, breastfeeds pa kufunika ndi kugona ndi mwana mu kama yemweyo kupanga izo amadalira kukhudza, kayimbidwe kotani ndi masitepe a mtima wamkulu. Posakhalitsa kapena kenako apo pakubwera nthawi imene mwana amakhala ovuta thupi kukhala pa dzanja. Iye ankafunika thandizo kuti asiye kusuta kwa akugona mu mikono ya mayi kapena bambo, koma bwanji? Kuyamwa mwana matenda apaulendo angakhale m'badwo uliwonse, chinthu chokha kuti Pakufunika - chipiriro ndi kugwirizana.

Wopambana dokotala ndi zamaganizo Mu zaka zapitazo, Dr. Bendzhamin Spok, mu ntchito yake zikusonyeza njira zotsatirazi kuyamwa ana akugona mu mikono yake: chabe sizikugwirizana ndi chikuku chamwana imene mwana akuyesera kugona. Makolo amene akwanitsa ntchito wagawo yosavuta ndi njira lolimba. The anthu ambiri yachibadwa sangakhoze kuima ndi wosachiritsika kulira khanda mu chikuku chamwana kuposa mphindi zisanu.

Kodi kuyamwa mwana ku matenda, osati kuvulaza iye ndi maganizo ake osati kudziyesa kuleza mtima kwa anansi theka la ora "konsati"? Kwa amene sakuyembekezera Kuwonjezera umboni zophweka kwambiri: musati kupeta. Osati amakonda zoyenda matenda mwanayo nthawi zambiri zosavuta kugona mu chikuku chamwana a. Kumene, ngati uli wathunthu, youma ndi wathanzi.

Kodi kuika mwana kugona? Popanda akugwedeza kugona ana ndi zotheka ndi ngakhale bwino, chifukwa ena madokotala usati ukaikire kuti kugwedeza kudzivulaza ubongo wa mwanayo. Ingokwezani mwanayo kuti akagone, kuphimba ndi bulangeti ndi kulola pacifier (ngati imayamwa). Kuimba nyimbo, kuzimitsa kuwala, kusiya m'gulu nightlight. Mafunde ache ndi poguliv grudnichok pang'ono kugona.

mavuto ayamba pamene nyenyeswa za colic kapena teething. Iye safuna kugona, momvetsa chisoni imalira, kudzuka usiku, ndipo amafuna kutenga nawo mbali yogwira. Ndipo pamene yovuta yatha, makolo kachiwiri funso n'lakuti: mmene kuyamwa mwana ku matenda apaulendo. Mwamwayi, njira imeneyi kuwayika mwana pa kama pali njira ina: kugona ndi mayi ake. Pakama m'modzi ndi mayi a mwanayo tulo msanga, makamaka ngati mumapereka iye chifuwa kapena kungoika pa mimba yake ndi kupotokera kunama. Nkofunika kuti mwana wanu kugona usiku wonse. Onetsetsani kuloza mu mchikuta atangomaliza tulo. Apo ayi kuyamwa ndiye akhala ku kugona ndi makolo awo.

Ndi mwana wamkulu kuposa chaka chimodzi, mukhoza anabwera ndi asanagone. Werengani wosalira zambiri nkhani ankakonda kuyimba lullaby. Ana ena monga usiku kuwala purojekitala kapena kuyenda kompyuta polojekiti fano la zilembo kusangalala pa denga ndi mpanda. Childs, zidole izi zili ndi mbali nyimbo.

Mu ana okulirapo kuposa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi kumeneko ankakonda zidole. Ikani Teddy zina pabedi ndi mwana wanu, ngakhale munthuyo ali kugona.

chidutswa china cha malangizo "mmene kuyamwa mwana ku matenda" - kuyesa kwa iye kuti zidindo zambiri patsiku. Kuyenda, masewera yogwira, kusamba yaitali mu kusamba ndi zidole - ndipo ndicho kale wotopa kuyenda T maso, imene anaimitsa mutu pa chinachake zofewa (Sofa, pilo kapena ankakonda chimbalangondo). Nkofunika kuti muphonye nthawi iyi, pansi pafupi anayamba mokoma stroking mutu. njira iyi mosalekeza kupulumutsa makolo ambiri a ana wamkulu wa akugwedeza mu manja ake.

Ofatsa kutikita wa miyendo ndi mmbuyo yogona bata ndi chete mayi anga kapena mawu a bambo anga, kung'ung'uza chinachake tulo, muthandize mwana wanu popanda mavuto kulowa mu Ufumu wa Morpheus.

Vuto lina - ngati mwana ntchito kugona masana okha mu chikuku. Makamaka woona m'nyengo yozizira, pamene kusiyana ozizira mpweya ndi kutentha ndi mitambo nyengo kukakamiza maso a mwana otsekedwa nthawi yomweyo pamene kulowa msewu. Ana ameneŵa zovuta kugona masana kunyumba, ndipo pambuyo naps - mwayi wawukulu kwa mayi kuti nthawi kuchita chinachake panyumba. Funso la mmene kuyamwa mwana wa ophimba akugwedeza, yankho lake ndi losavuta: kupita kokayenda, pamene mwana umagwira ndi maso. Ndiyeno kuyenda sadzakhala kusonkhana ndi tulo. Kumene, uike chikuku angathe atakhala ndi musawafulumizitse kuyala mwana horizontally, monga yawns. Onetsani ana anu kusewera ndi ana ena, monga nkhunda kukatenga nyenyeswa, eya chilichonse, kungosiya chidwi ndi musalole kugwera mu khalidwe tulo.