Bodza anthu onse mosachotsera, iwo amasiyana yekha mu zonse ndi mmene zonama. munthu wina adzakuwuzani mayi anga kuti anadwala mu sitolo amangotchula anati kanthu za ngozi ang'onoang'ono Pobwerera kunyumba, ndi zina limatiuza yaitali ndi chidwi mbiriyakale, anatulukira kuchokera pa chiyambi mpaka pa mapeto. Ndipo komabe, mu zinthu zina, kudziwa choonadi pafupifupi n'kofunika. Kodi mukudziwa kuti anthu ena amanama, ndi kuwabweretsa iwo madzi abwino?
zinthu zofunika kwambiri
Ngati mukufunadi kuti choonadi, kukonzekera kuti tione ndi kumvetsera. Nkofunika kuunikira momwe ndi zimene mnzanuyo akunena. Koma kufunika si mawu, kulabadira chinenero thupi, nkhope ndi njira zosiyanasiyana. Only ndi yoyesa ndi kukhalapo kwa zizindikiro zingapo mabodza kupewa zolakwa. Kodi ndikuuzeni ngati munthu kunama? Si kophweka, ngati pamaso panu katswiri pa bodza limeneli, chitha qualitatively zokwanira kubisa zizindikiro zonse ndi zinthu kwambiri mwachibadwa, kunama. Ndipo komabe, chinthu china pang'ono Onetsetsani kuti ankampereke Iye. Koma abodza wosadziwa kuzindikira mosavuta.
Zimene angakuuzeni nkhope yanu?
Ngakhale ngati munthu anali ndi chidaliro, ndi nkhani wabodza akanakhalabe okondwa. Dziwani abodza kawirikawiri kuyang'ana mu diso. Komabe, kayendedwe ka eyeballs akhoza lizilamuliridwa. Kodi mukudziwa ngati munthu wagona kapena ayi, ngati iye akuyang'ana mu maso? Chifukwa amasulidwe zikuwonjezereka masiku ano m'mwazi wa ana ndi dilated. Komabe, ndipo zimenezi m'malo mozungulira, monga inu mukhoza kuona ndi maganizo zosangalatsa kapena chifukwa cha chikhalidwe cha kuyatsa mu chipinda. Umboni winanso mabodza - pafupipafupi kuphethira, ankaganiza chinyengo - izi ndi nkhawa kwambiri imene chamoyo kwenikweni anatani. Ena abodza umakaniko uyo mlomo wake, koma kumene zimenezi simungakhoze kuonedwa monga chizindikiro cha zana pa zana a kusaweruzika.
CHINENERO cHAMANJA
Kulankhula choonadi ayenera kukhala wodekha ndi omasuka pamene pakhala wosavomerezedwa thukuta, redness kupita wotumbululuka khungu - pali chifukwa kukayikira umphumphu wa interlocutor lapansi. Pamene chisangalalo cha ambiri umakaniko anakudzula m'manja mwa chinthu kapena zovala kwambiri zambiri tikonze. Kodi mukudziwa kuti anthu ena amanama? Palibe kosavuta - tayang'anani, ngati munthu mwendo twitches, kapena mwinamwake iye ukugunda zala zina kayimbidwe kotani? Akatswiri ena amanena kuti ndi bodza kuutsa munthu itch thupi mu khosi ndi kutsikira nkhope. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ndi wabodza pa nkhani yake zikande limeneli, kukoka chibwano kapena kuwongola kolala malaya ake. Mbali ina lililonse kusaweruzika - chilakolako kuphimba pakamwa pake, kulankhula ngati manyazi mawu ake.
Njira kudziwa zonama
Ife tonse anawona mafilimu kazitape imene mukufuna kusonyeza chowunikira bodza. zipangizo oterewa aliko kwenikweni. Ntchito yawo kuwunika zosiyanasiyana popanda mawu n'komwe za thupi pamene kapena mayankho ofotokozera. Koma zotsatira zawo senti zana pa. Akatswiri pa funso lakuti: "Kodi mukudziwa kuti anthu akunama", yankho ndi bwino kuyesa mankhwala apadera pharmacological kapena kutsirikidwa. Zochita zamaganizo anakumana ntchito zida izi silingakhoze kokha aulule choonadi, komanso kuti choonadi. A njira zofanana kungakhale kuyesa kunyumba. Pangani mnzake kuti zinthu omasuka kwambiri - angamupatse chakudya chabwino, ulesi tiyi kapena mowa. Yesani komanso kupambana chifundo, ndi mwayi wanu kuphunzira choonadi adzauka kwambiri. Koma kutsirikidwa ndi "choonadi mapiritsi" ali osavomerezeka chifukwa layman lapansi. Komabe, mankhwala kupondereza chifuniro, inu sangathe kupeza mu mankhwala zonse.
Kodi mukudziwa kuti anthu akunama: ntchito mchitidwe malangizo maganizo
Kuchuluka kwa zinthu zazing'ono ndi mfundo munkhaniyi kungasonyeze wofuna achoka vuto papulatifomu ofunika. Ngati abodza ndipo anachita kumasulira mutuwo. Njira imeneyi angagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi iwo. Kupereka kulankhula za chinachake paokha. Pa interlocutor ayenera mpumulo zoonekeratu ndi chimwemwe Pa kukambirana ngodya. Kusokoneza munthu amene amalankhula zoona, n'zotheka, kulongosola mwatsatanetsatane. Ndi zofunika kuchita izo pakapita kanthawi. Bwererani masentensi angapo mmbuyo ndi amangotchula kufunsa, "Popeza kuti inu muli mmenemo?" Kapena "N'chifukwa chiyani zinthu zikupita momwe kuti - sindikumvetsa." Yankho zambiri zopezera, komanso maganizo ake zitenga kanthawi, ndipo kubisa chisokonezo cha sizigwira ntchito. Inu amadziwa kale kumvetsa ngati munthu wagona wake nkhope, koma Komanso ntchito ndi zolimbitsa yosavuta. Kumbukirani mwatsatanetsatane nkhani yonse, kapena ngakhale kulemba pa tepi. Kenako, kubwerera nkhaniyi ndi kuwafunsa kuti ndikuuzeni inu. Chotsani kusiyana kwa kubalana wa nkhani yomweyo - ndi wopezeka chizindikiro yonama. Inu mukhoza kupita njira zina kumalizidwa kwa nkhaniyi, funsani kuti retell zonse, koma chammbuyo - pa chifukwa ndi mapeto a mbiri, pamwamba penipeni. Koma taonani, ichi ntchito kokha pamene kukumbukira mtheradi wanu. Komanso, ngakhale pamene kudziwika kusiyana nkhaniyo, wabodza adzayesa kukhulupirira kuti koyamba kumumvetsera mwatcheru, kapena sanamumvetsetse. Ngati mukukayikira bodza, yesani komanso kukhazikitsa mafunso m'mbali kuti zitha anayankha "inde" kapena "ayi." Abodza zambiri zoipa zonse ndi limatchula, mayankho adzakhala pang'onopang'ono, adagwira ntchito, ndipo kuwuka chisangalalo.
Kodi ndikuuzeni ngati munthu wagona, Cholembera?
Onse mbali pamwamba ndi nsonga yabwino wosakanikirana kulankhulana munthu. Ndipo mmene kuwerengera wabodza pa lokwanira? Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito zina mwa nsonga m'ndime m'mbuyomu, koma kumbukirani kuti ngakhale macheza osanyengerera pompopompo amapereka masekondi angapo kuganiza. Pamene pafupifupi kulankhulana ife kuona kuti yekha mawu ndi ziganizo. Choyamba cheerleaders ndi chitsimikizo owonjezera a chowonadi cha zimene zinanenedwa. Ngati mnzanuyo wagwiritsa ntchito kangapo, "akunena zoona", "Ine nthawi ananama" Kapena "sindikufuna - musadzakhulupirire zimenezo!" Musanayambe kuti adamlalatira mabodza, ndiye pali chifukwa kukayikira. Chenjerani ngati maganizo kwambiri - ndi zambiri zosonyeza modabwa ndi masankhidwe malemba.