Kodi ndalama simungathe kugula? The funso, kumene, nthanthi ...

Akunena kuti ndi bwino kukhala wathanzi, olemera ndi wokondwa kuposa osauka, odwala ndi wochititsa chifundo, zikuoneka kuti munthu zoseketsa. Ndipotu, n'zoonekeratu kuti zonse, popanda yekha! Komabe, funso: "Kodi ndalama simungathe kugula?" mwamphamvu zogwirizana nzeru wowerengeka ...

Ndalama chimwemwe?

Tiyerekeze, munthu wa padzakhala ntchito kusankha chabe chinthu chimodzi: thanzi, chimwemwe kapena ndalama. Kodi ndi kusiya kuti osankhidwa? Kukhala wathanzi, koma osauka ndi osasangalala - mwina akhoza kukhala maloto cholinga? Kapena izi: Kodi n'zotheka kukhala osangalala, akukhala zinyalala, pamene mutu yatsekera pofunafuna chakudya, pamene miyendo Gout amazipotokola ndi misozi mapapo kutsokomola?

Koma ndi ndalama - zambiri ndalama! - chodziwikiratu kubweretsa chimwemwe pamene mwana afa, zomwe, tsoka, inu muli mu zosatheka kuthandiza mu chipinda chakumbuyo. Ndalama sikungakuthandizeni mu choncho, ngati wokondedwa wanu osakondwa mu ukwati ndi munthu wosayenera, koma sakufuna kusintha moyo wawo. Iwo amakhala opanda, ndipo pamene mukuona kuti moyo moyo chabe, kolowera dzuwa layandikira. Ndipo kotero izo ziri achipongwe kudziwa kuti ngati ndipo ndi chirichonse, ndipo izo zifika mphindi mwadzidzidzi kovuta - ndipo pali pafupi palibe munthu mmodzi, angathe kumvetsa, chisoni ndi thandizo.

Choncho poyankha funso lokhudza zimene simungagule ndi ndalama, angatchedwe chikondi, ubwenzi, kukumbukira nthawi, wathanzi, wachimwemwe - wake ndi okondedwa.

Health ndi ndalama

Akuti thanzi sangathe adagula ndalama. Koma nthawi zina iwo ali chinthu kusankha, kaya wathanzi kapena uyo payekha. Ndipo ngati pali kuchuluka koyenera ngakhale chinachake kuti akuyankheni dzino zoipa mungamuuze chimwemwe?

No chikondi chopanda malire ndi ubwenzi okhulupirika kwambiri simungathe tichotse ululu matendawa. Koma ping'ono analipira mano kwambiri Limasintha. Choncho kuyankha funso "zimene ndalama sizingagule", simungathe zikuloza kwa thanzi bwino, chifukwa nthawi zambiri kupanda ndalama kumabweretsa imfa yake.

Chikondi ndi kusowa kwa ndalama

Uzani munthu wa mbadwo wake, kuti inu simungathe kugula kukonda ndalama. Inu kuseka mu nkhope! Ndiyeno iwo kubweretsa chitsanzo mawu, chimene chikondi - ndi chilombo, nthawi zonse pouza chakudya. Ayenera kumvetsa monga chitsimikiziro cha mmene kumverera uku zimasintha ndi impermanent. Angakuuzeni kuti ngakhale kwambiri chikondi chenicheni angaphunzitse, ngati wosankhidwa kapena bwenzi salinso kutsimikizira malingaliro awo pa nkhaniyo. Ndipo kuti zinthu zotchuka wosauka - ntchito mwachilungamo yosasangalatsa. Chabwino, mwinamwake kotero ... Koma wina angatsutse kuti, kunena, kumwamba okoma mu hema! Kalanga, ikusonyeza mchitidwe, izo zonse mawu chabe, koma zoona zake ... "Pamene kufunika Kasupe pakhomo, chikondi pothawira pawindo!" Ndani sadziwa nzeru wowerengeka? A akumenya mosalekeza kupulumuka pafupifupi nthawi zonse kumabweretsa kutha kwa chikondi, kaya woyera ndi wosakhwima kungakhale pachiyambi.

Kugula maganizo - osati misala izi?

Tsatirani funso lokhudza ndalama simungathe kugula, ambiri kutchula chikondi ndi mzimu waubwenzi. Koma izi ndi zofunika kukambirana. "N'zovuta kukonda kapena ulemu Wopempha, ndi woluza" - choncho anati ambiri. Ngakhale pachiyambi kusowa ndalama zingachititse pafupi ndi kukondana. Koma posachedwapa m'chikondi "zopindula" ndatopa zonse chisoni thumba la ndalama, kukhala woluza muli opusa komanso wopanda nzeru munthu.

Kumene, mukhoza kuthandiza munthu si bwino zedi kwa mlingo mwachilungamo mkulu ndi mu uzimu ndi thupi, ndi mawu zakuthupi. Koma, mobwerezanso, izi kwambiri kuthandiza ndalama. Mwa njira, ngakhale munthu zokwanira wotetezedwa, mukhoza kuuzira nokha chikondi, pogwiritsa ntchito osati mwauzimu komanso ndalama zakuthupi. Mwachitsanzo, kudziŵa zinthu mumtima mwake, vuto lake ndi kulenga momuzungulira paradaiso kwambiri, zomwe analota. Ndiye mungathe kusintha yekha, ndi ngakhale kunja. Ndipotu, zodzikongoletsera opaleshoni mosavuta chachitika kwa ndalama.

Ndalama ndi chimwemwe

Choncho ndani masiku ano chitukuko zonse? N'chifukwa chiyani amanena kuti chimwemwe singagule ndi ndalama? Koma nkhani ngati zimene zimachitika nthawi zonse, adzakhala kukayikira mawu amenewa.

Mu banja limodzi, mwana wamwamuna, amene Mulungu anasankha basi pulogalamu mokwanira: anapereka kukongola, nzeru, talente, thanzi, wangwiro ndi lalitali moyo. Koma ndalama banja lake sanatipatse.

Mu banja lina, wolemera mokwanira kukoleza lopsided untalented mwana amene amadwala mutu waching'alang'ala. Makolo padera ndalama zambiri opaleshoni pulasitiki kunja anachiritsa mutu wake kuchokera pa ubwana ganyu anamkungwi ndi aphunzitsi aluso. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, mnyamatayu wakhala wokongola ndithu, ophunzira, chidwi munthu, kupeza mtsikana wabwino, ntchito kwambiri, anali bwino ndi wokondwa.

The mnyamata amachokera kubanja losauka anali amphawi: kuyambira ali mwana anali kugwira ntchito mwakhama. Chogwira mundilanda iye kukongola ndi thanzi, talente ndipo sanathe chiwululidwe, kusowa ndalama wakonza mu chosakhulupirira zimene iye anafotokoza ndi avoidant. Ndiyeno tsoka lake ndi zosavuta kudzatunga: yemweyo oipa mkazi, ana odwala, chiyembekezo ndi umphawi.

Ndipo amene anali mwayi? Kumene, ngati okutidwa ndi umunthu anakhala losauka kale mu m'badwo wapakati, ndi mtima ndi anthu yonyansa nawo mwayi kuchiritsa ndi chitukuko, kale anapanga, nkhani akanakhala zimuyendere.

Choncho, ndalama sikumaŵathetsa chilichonse, koma zambiri. Nkofunika chiwerengero chawo ndi nthawi imene kuwonekera munthu. Ndipo ndiye kuti munthu anakulira osangalala mwana, ayenera kupeza zonse muyenera. Musati kusambira mu lotayirira ndi zapamwamba, koma musati akudwala umphawi ndi mtima. palibe umphawi zimakupatsani chimwemwe, komanso chachikulu chuma - osati muyezo wa chimwemwe.

Ulemu ndi ndalama

Nkofunika kwambiri kupeza ntchito ndalama moyenera. Ngakhale kulemekeza mukhoza "kugula", ngati anakhalabe Mwachitsanzo, pa ndalama zawo ana amasiye kapena pogona nyama pokhala, kufalitsa mabuku a olemba luso, sikumanga mipingo ndi kindergartens ufulu. Komabe, ena angafunse momwe likulu n'kuzisiya ... alibe kuzindikira ndi kulemekeza anthu amene mwa ntchito zabwino akuyesera kuti aphimbe machimo a anachita misdeeds zambili.

Nzosadabwitsa kuti anthu akubwereza: "Samalani kulipira kachiwiri, ndi kulemekeza - ubwana wake." ulemu sangathe adagula ndalama iliyonse.