Kodi ndingakonzekere liti masewera atabereka komanso m'mene ndingayambire

Kawirikawiri, amayi omwe akuyembekezera amakhala okhudzidwa ndi funso loti azichita nthawi yanji atabereka. N'zoona kuti pali anthu omwe ali ndi mwayi omwe atangoyamba kumene kuoneka ngati woonda thupi. Komabe, amayi ambiri amalowa m'gulu losiyana. Mitundu imachepetsedwa, koma mimba imakhala ikupachika, mchiuno kapena manja ali odzaza, kapena phindu lolemera ndiloti mutha kuyang'ana zovala zakale ndi misonzi. Chakudya choyenera, ndithudi, chingathetseretu vutoli, koma popanda makhadi akuluakulu pano sangathe kuchita.

Tsopano kuti pali mwana m'banja, amayi anga samangoganizira nthawi yomweyo, ngati n'kotheka kuyamba kusewera masewera atabereka. Poyamba, ndimangofuna kugona. Koma posakhalitsa pali zilakolako zina, ndipo tsopano mukuyenera kubwezeretsa ulamuliro wanu wa tsikulo. Nthawi zonse amagawidwa monga momwe mwanayo akufunira, ndipo amayi anga ali ndi zochitika zake zonse, kuphatikizapo kuphunzitsa, kukankhira mu nthawi yayitali pamene mwana akugona.

Masewera achizoloŵezi, mwachizoloŵezi ndi omveka bwino a kumvetsa kwawo, sadzakhalanso. Mungathe kuiwala za masewero olimbitsa thupi ndi kuthamanga, ngati, ndithudi, nannyake kapena agogo asamalire mwanayo. Koma kawirikawiri mwanayo akadali m'manja mwa amayi, choncho tsopano njira yogwira ntchito ndi masewera adzayenera kusinthidwa kuti amasangalatse iye. Chiwerengero, monga lamulo, chimafuna kuchita. Tsoka, chikhalidwe chomwecho chachititsa amayi kuti panthawi yomwe ali ndi pakati pamimba ndi mapewa mafuta oyenerera kudyetsa mwanayo pakapita nthawi yoberekera. Amayi atasiya kuyamwa, amatha kulemera kwambiri. Koma izi sizichitika nthawi zonse osati ndi aliyense. Kotero, inu simungakhoze kuchita popanda maphunziro mulimonsemo.

Kotero, ndi liti pamene ine ndingalowe mu masewera atatha kubadwa? Kawirikawiri zimadalira mkhalidwe wa mkaziyo komanso m'mene anabadwira omwewo. Ngati chirichonse chiri chabwino, ndiye kuti maseŵera olimbitsa thupi, makamaka machitidwe opuma opuma, angakhoze kuchitidwa kale tsiku lachitatu pambuyo pa kubadwa, kumvetsera, ndithudi, ku thupi lanu ndi ubwino. Pang'onopang'ono mukhoza kudzizoloŵera pazinthu zambiri, koma muyenera kuchita izi pang'onopang'ono, mosamala ndi mosamala. Maphunziro ovomerezeka amaloledwa kuyamba miyezi itatu pambuyo pa kubereka, ngati palibe dokotala. Ndipo ndingakonzekere liti masewera atabereka? Pafupi nthawi yomweyo. Mwachibadwa, poyamba zidzakhala zovuta, koma pang'onopang'ono thupi lidzakhala lomvera komanso lolimba.

Ngati kubadwa kunali kovuta, ndiye bwino kuonana ndi dokotala wodziwa dokotala wa zachipatala choyamba, musanadziwe nokha pangozi komanso nthawi yoti mupite nawo masewera atatha kubadwa. Apo ayi, mukhoza kudzivulaza kwambiri. Chabwino, patatha nthawi yanji mutatha kuchita masewero? Pasanathe mwezi umodzi, amayamba kuchita zozizira, kuwala komanso mopanda malipiro: kungodzikuza ndi kukopa mimba, kutambasula mosavuta, kufinya kuchokera pakhoma. Zochita zonse zimalimbikitsa kusangalala, kuchepetsa komanso kusinthanitsa. Kachiwiri, pang'onopang'ono katunduyo amakula, koma moyenera kwambiri. Ngati dokotala sasamala, pakatha miyezi isanu ndi umodzi mukhoza kuyamba kuphunzira mwakhama.

Choncho funso loti mungalowe nawo masewera atabadwa, limakhala ndi yankho lolunjika bwino: malingana ndi mtundu wa ntchito ndi ubwino wa mkazi pakubereka mwana (makamaka atatha kuonana ndi dokotala), mukhoza kuphunzitsa pafupifupi nthawi yomweyo, kapena patatha mwezi umodzi.