Kodi swingers, zonse zokhudza iwo

Kuyesera kuti muganize amene ali swingers, n'kosatheka kuona zomwe zimayambitsa mwina zodabwitsazi. Pamene iwo amati, chikondi imakhala zaka zitatu, chabwino, chilakolako ndi ngakhale zochepa. Koma mumatani pamene chilakolako cha zadutsa, chikondi zinaleka, anakula mu chinachake waulesi?

Wina anali apangidwe mapiko ake ndipo ugwira pang'onopang'ono mwa moyo wonyong'onya, ndipo wina ali sanasangalale ndi vuto limeneli. Zikuoneka kuti ndi theka lachiwiri ndi kukhuta kwathunthu monga bwenzi, ndipo ana kukula, ndipo monga anthu ena onse, koma anataya ena pagalimoto mu moyo, gulu linalake kapena chinachake. Ena wonyong'onya moyo, zomera zina okha okonda. Ndipo mbali ina amalingalira kuti agwera mu kugwedezeka, amene amati adzapulumutsa bwato banja.

Monga mwa nthawi zonse, mochedwa kubwera kwa ife lingaliro ili ndi koma amene ali swingers? zibwenzi zogonana amene amachita kuwombola pakati pa awiriawiri anapanga.

Kodi iye kupeta?

Mawu "swinger" amachokera ku jazi "pachimake" mwachitsanzo, kulumpha mwamsanga ku cholemba wina ndi mzake, choncho athu - "kulumpha" kwa wina ndi mzake. Maganizo kuti zodabwitsazi angakhale ukasintha osiyana mu magulu osiyanasiyana a anthu, koma, monga ife tikudziwira, ndi ziwerengero - zinthu wamakani. Ndipo kuulutsa kuti pafupifupi 20% ya mabanja kamodzi ankachita kugwedezeka ntchito, ndi 40% mfulu kwa nsinga za Hymen kamodzi ndinalota kuika ubale choletsedwa mu miyoyo yawo.

Kugwedezeka lagawidwa mitundu ingapo:

• zosavuta kugwedezeka sizitanthauza kusakhulupirika thupi pakati anzanga, koma amalola chikondi mgwirizano, chilakolako kukumana, titero kukhala ndi munthu wina;
• zofewa kugwedezeka anavomereza kugonana umakhala ndi mnzake popanda kupatsana mkazi wake;
• m'nyumba kugwedezeka limalola ubwenzi thupi, mabanja abwenzi kuwombola ndi kumwazikana kwa zipinda osiyana kapena nyumba. mchitidwe wake amene mabanja amene mukufuna kuyesa ubwenzi thupi ndi mzake, Munthu si bwino ndithu;
• panja kugwedezeka ndi pamene abwenzi akumagonana onse pamodzi, kumasuka mphamvu zawo pa tanthauzo kanthu kuti akhoza kutchedwa chisembwere.

A mbiri pang'ono

Pofuna kupeza yankho la funso la amene swingers, wofufuza mbiri. Pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana ikulendewera unachokera mu Czechoslovakia mu nthawi zokomera mu zaka za m'ma lomaliza.

Koma kwambiri ambiri zodabwitsazi ndi mu California mwa hippies American. Palibe kuopa AIDS kapena venzabolevany ena osati kusiya chilakolako anthu kwa kuchuluka kwa kugonana - anali Mwambi awo.

Mu zaka 60-70 Mu zaka zapitazo, lingaliro anaonekera mu dziko , "Swedish banja" nthumwi za unyamata kwakukulu, monga kuyenera mabanja chikhalidwe, bungwe "chikondi Triangles". Swedish swingers - ndinu mamembala a "banja Swedish", iwo yagawidwa ambiri, motere: Munthu + munthu + mkazi kapena mwamuna + mkazi + mkazi ndi zikugwirizana m'gulumo.

Kukambirana funso la amene ali swingers, zimaonekeratu kuti khalidwe lokonda nkhani iyi yosiyanasiyana, kuyambira zikuchepa zoipa zabwino kwambiri, ndi munthu kwathunthu mphwayi ndi swingers.

Izi chodabwitsa m'mizinda ikuluikulu bungwe mu makalabu kugwedezeka kwa pocheza ndi chibwenzi, monga m'badwo sakhalitsa wa swingers mabanja, kuyambira miyezi 6 mpaka 12, chifukwa ndicho ubwenzi ndi kusintha abwenzi mpaka kalekale.

Ngakhale Sigmund Freud ina ananena kuti zolakwika kugonana - si chopotozedwa kugonana popanda amuna nkhani, ndiponso kusapezeka okwana kugonana.