Kodi zimatanthauza chiyani kukhala osangalala? Ndikaganizira nkhani wosatha.

Kodi zikutanthauza kuti kukhala munthu wosangalala? Palibe tchuthi cholakalaka simungakhoze kuchita popanda mawu akuti "chimwemwe". Ife tonse tikufuna kukhala osangalala, kotero anthu ena akufuna chinthu chomwecho. Kamodzi pa moyo wa munthu aliyense kupita mawunikidwe pa mutu wa chimwemwe. Ife zimadziŵa kuti aliyense ali yake.

Kodi zikutanthauza kuti kukhala osangalala mwana wamng'ono? Youma, ofunda, chokoma, otetezeka - kugona bwino, mayi anga akumwetulira, kukula. Kuyenera ndekha, kumva ndi nkhawa pang'ono - chimwemwe wapita.

Kodi zimatanthauza chiyani kukhala osangalala kwa grader loyamba? Wokongola m'mabuku mbiri, abwenzi, akusukulu masewera ndi zidole. Ndi nsomba mu makolo wokondedwa, amene amachita chilichonse.

Kodi zimatanthauza chiani kukhala okondwa chifukwa wachinyamata? zovala zamakono, wokongola chibwenzi, gay mu zosokoneza. Ndipo pa nkhani thandizo "makolo" musaiwale.

Kodi zimatanthauza chiyani kukhala osangalala mwana akukhala amasiye? Ine ndikuziwona izo tsiku lililonse amayi anga kugwira ake. kusamalira ana kuti mayi anga amamwa zina zimabweretsa m'nyumba ya anthu achilendo. Chinthu chachikulu - kukhala ndi amayi ake osakwatiwa, okhala m'banja, koma osati ndi ana chomwecho ovutika.

Ndiyeno ife kukula, kukhala akulu. zosowa zathu kusintha. Ndipo onse a moyo kupatulira kugwira chimwemwe akanthawi: kugula watsopano galimoto chitsanzo, kupita ku nyanja kapena kuti inu nsanje ndi anzake. Munthu wina kufunika - chabe kuti akhale ndi moyo m'dziko lolimba. Ambiri, aliyense ali ndi chimwemwe - malinga ndi zosowa zake.

Ambiri tsopano kudziwa zosowa piramidi Maslow a. Pansi - zofuna thupi, monga ludzu, njala, chilakolako cha kugonana, ndi ena. Kenako, kukwera pamwamba, pali chitetezo zofuna, wachokera ndi chikondi, chifukwa ulemu. Ngakhale apamwamba - chidziwitso zofuna, zokongoletsa. Korona piramidi - kufunika kudziletsa kuzindikira, ndimakumbukira anthu a. Pa sitepe iliyonse munthu akuona osangalala ngati zosowa zake ndi kukhuta.

Koma chifukwa Maslow kuzindikiridwa zofuna yekha umalimbana okha? Mwatsoka, lero lino akulimidwa mfundo ya chisangalalo. Malonda, filimuyi, TV, magazini amati phindu zosangalatsa. Ine kusangalala - munthu wosangalala, palibe zosangalatsa - wosasangalala. Izo zonse zimabwerera ku msonkhano zofuna, osati Kumwambamwamba, koma nizchayshih. Koma kukwaniritsa zosowa zawo - ichi ndi chimodzi nthawi chimwemwe.

Ngati mudzapempha moona, mu mitima yathu kumva kuti chimwemwe - chinachake, chimene chiri chamuyaya. Monga chikondi, mfundo chomwenso ndi kusanduka zofunika mlingo m'munsi.

Koma chikondi - mfundo Mkhristu. Mulungu - pali chikondi. Khristu mwini anasonyeza kuti chikondi - kusankha, osati kumverera. Ndipo si anasonyeza kudzipatsa chikhutiro, ndi moyo kulenga chifukwa cha munthu wina.

mawu "Ndimakukonda" popanda milandu yeniyeni adzatsala chabe mawu kanthu. Adzagwirizana nane, amene kamodzi aona chimwemwe ndi mtendere wa wokondedwa, amene anapanga ndi manja anu. Maso osangalala kosatha mu kukumbukira, amathandiza pa mphindi kukhumudwitsidwa kulephera. Zosoŵa za ena - si chisangalalo ichi, ali ndi tanthauzo wosatha?

Kusamalira, chifundo, chikondi, pamodzi ndi chikondi chimwemwe osati kuzunzika kokha, komanso anthu amene kuthandiza, chikondi.

Mungathe kunena kuti zonse izi kwambiri padziko lonse, osati kwa ine. A m'banja mu banja? Kodi chimwemwe iwo kubweretsa? Ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi chikondi kwa wosangalala thupi lake, zofuna, zofuna, si nthawi ino mafuno abwino. Isanafike munakangana kwambiri poyamba. Koma ubale wa chikondi, anamanga mfundo Mkhristu, ndidzadzaza nyumba yanu ndi chimwemwe. Chikondi kwa wokondedwa wanu kapena ankakonda chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo. Ndipo sangalalani ndi kukonda.