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Kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo: zotsatira zoipa
Ndizosangalatsa kwambiri, pamene wina kuchokera kwa achibale kapena anthu apamtima akulowa mumagulu a zinthu zamwano. Munthu wotereyo samangomvera chisoni m'maonekedwe ena, koma nthawi zina amakhala amwano komanso amwano. Panali nthawi pamene kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kunayambitsa zotsatira zoipa: kuba (ngakhale pakati pa anthu apamtima), kundende, imfa. Zimakhalanso zoopsa kuti ngongole zosiyidwa ndi munthu woteroyo zimagwera pamapewa a achibale ndi anthu osakayikira.
Pakalipano, malo osiyanasiyana adalengedwa, kumene anthu odwala amayamba miyoyo yawo kuyambira pachiyambi: amaphunzira kuthana ndi zilakolako zawo zowonongeka, atembenukira ku chipembedzo, amadziletsa okha.
Anthu omwe sankagwiritse ntchito zinthu zoletsedwa poyamba zimakhala zovuta kuzindikira zizindikiro za kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala kuchokera kwa bwenzi (mwinamwake bwenzi kapena wachibale). Nazi kusintha kochepa kunja kumene kumachitika mutatenga mayendedwe.
Kugwiritsiridwa ntchito kwa mankhwala kumabweretsa kuwona kuti manja akugwedezeka, pali zochitika zambiri zosafunika. Iwonso, amatha kuchepa kapena, mosiyana, mofulumira kwambiri. Nthaŵi zonse munthu amayesetsa kukanda ndi kudzipukuta nkhope yake ndi manja ake.
Kugwiritsiridwa ntchito kwa mankhwala kumayambitsa kuperewera kwa ophunzira ndikupereka tinge kumaso. Amaleka kuchitapo kanthu pa kuwala ndikukhala ngati kuti amatha.
Kuchokera ku mankhwala ena, monga mowa, muli wouma kwambiri pakamwa. Choncho, munthu wogwiritsira ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo amanunkha milomo yake nthawi zambiri.
Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti zizindikiro zonsezi zidzakhalapo panthawi yomweyo. Kuwonetseredwa kwa ambiri a iwo kumadalira mankhwala omwe amatengedwa, pamabuku osiyanasiyana ndi nthawi yomwe idapita mutatha kumeza. Tiyenera kuganiza kuti poyamba kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo mwachinsinsi "kumaphatikizapo" zinthu zoterezi. Pogwiritsa ntchito mlingo, amakhala pansi pazipata, nyumba, magalasi ndi malo ena osakhala nawo.
Koma izi zili pokhapokha pa chiyambi cha matendawa. Kenaka kuledzera kumapangidwira mosayanjanitsika, ndani komanso zomwe zingaganize za iwo. Vuto lalikulu kwa iwo ndi kusowa kwa mlingo wokhazikika komanso ndalama zomwe zingagulidwe.
Poyamba, banja la munthu wodwala limavutika. Pambuyo pake, amataya mwamuna wake, bambo kapena mwana wake. Kusokonezeka kwamanjenje, kuvutika maganizo, kumayembekezera makolo okalamba ndi "mwana" wamkulu. Ndipo kodi mkazi ndi mwana wake wamwamuna wamng'ono kapena wamkazi ayenera kuchita chiyani pamene "abambo" amakoka aliyense kunja kwa nyumba, kuwasiya opanda ndalama?
Ndi zovuta zoterezo zimakhala zovuta kupirira ndi kumenyana, kukhala ndi moyo komanso kumvetsetsa. Choncho, nthawi zambiri kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala kumabweretsa kusokonezeka kwa banja. Monga tanenera poyamba, pali kuthekera kusintha moyo wotero. Komabe, sikuti munthu aliyense wodalirika amavomereza kudzipatula yekha "zokondweretsa" zopanda pake.
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