N'zosadabwitsa kuti zinthu izi amuna sasangalala

Inu mukhoza kukhala mphunzitsi pa nkhani ya olimba ndi mafashoni amakhala olondola a kalembedwe ndi mphamvu kunyenga, koma ena zochita zanu zingakhudzire amuna zosiyana kwenikweni. Izi ndi zodabwitsa, chifukwa ndimachita kukhulupirira kuti akuchita zolondola. Koma kunapezeka, kugonana mphamvu ndinawona azimayi ambiri yachibadwa "zinthu" unattractiveness. Iwo kwambiri mosamala kulankhula angatani kuti angathe za izo. Panopa mukupitiriza mukulimbana ndi akuchotsa theka wabwino wa Cavaliers kuthekera kwina. Ndi nthawi kubweretsa zinthu pansi pa ulamuliro. Kenako, ife ndikuuzani za makhalidwe akazi kuti munthu wamba wapeza wosakongola. Pewani iwo, ndipo Woyesana dzanja lanu ndi mtima adzapezeka msanga.

Overreliance pa zodzoladzola

Kugula mumaganiza zodzoladzola ndi kuyesa kugwiritsa madzulo zopakapaka, inu muli kwambiri userdstvuete. Mu zodzoladzola mudali kubisa zolakwa khungu, milomo sikokwanira kuwala, akulankhula mokalipa ndi waufupi ndi ochepa nsidze. yaitali Kodi mwaphunzira kuti zodzoladzola amapanga nkhope yanu zimasonyeza zambiri, ndipo tsopano ali mantha kukaonekera kwa osankhidwa popanda zodzoladzola. Pazifukwa zina, akazi ambiri amaganiza kuti si wokongola, pamene anthu adawona mwachibadwa awo, kuthamanga kutali mu madera osiyana. Ndipotu si. Pakuti tani zodzoladzola kubisala malo akazi ambiri, ndi anthu sindikusamala za nsidze utoto, maziko ndi mithunzi akuda. Ndipo iwo sangakhoze kuima kupereka kundipsompsona milomo yake, thickly yokutidwa ndi glitter. Kuti agonjetse munthu, yekha manyazi kuwala ndi zikoti zingapo za mascara pa akulankhula mokalipa magetsi.

amakopeka ndi miseche

Palibe kusangalala ndi chosangalatsa kuposa kugawana ndi anzanu miseche, odzitukumula zoipa, posachedwapa ku moyo anzanu mangawawo. Komabe, imeneyi imagwira akakhala ndi anzake. N'chifukwa chiyani inu mumakhulupirira kuti mnzanuyo amavomereza khalidwe? Amuna ambiri sangakhoze kulekerera miseche ndi gossips kuwunika momwe anthu ndi kusadzidalira. Kodi muli kanthu kuti atiuze za moyo wanu? Kutaya mitu maganizo ndi kukambirana zolephera atsopano a anzanu mangawawo. Dziwani kuti anthu akukopeka ndi akazi amene amalemekeza okha, koma musati kupondereza ena.

kudzidalira

The kugonana chilungamo ndi mkulu kudzidalira amaonedwa toyesa wokongola kwambiri. Komabe, muyenela kuzindikira kumene akuthamanga mzere zabwino pakati pa chikhulupiriro ndi wodzimva. Palibe cholakwika chonyaditsa zipambano zawo, kusangalala ndi kupambana ndi kugawana nzeru ndi munthu wina. Koma musaiwale kuti anthu amangokhalira kutamandidwa yekha anawo regalia wake pachionetsero, zazindikirika ndi ena monga munthu narcissistic. kusankha Onetsetsani kuti mukudziwa za kupambana kwanu ku lachitatu maphwando. Komanso, kupeza mfundo bonasi kwa kudzichepetsa komanso kusowa obsessive kudzikuza.

M'mawu chowawa ndi munthu wakale wamng'ono

Inu mukhoza kuganiza kuti njira imeneyi mwina ntchito zana pa zana, koma zitengere mapulani anu lalikulu kulakwitsa. Kupopera matope wokonda moyo wake wakale, mudzakhala kuwuka panopa osankhidwa. Khalidweli, inu kumuuza kuti negativity ndi korona njira yanu. Komanso, nkhani za wakale chibwenzi (ndipo ngakhale ntchito ndi chikhumbo manyazi) amatengedwa kuti mudziwe kuti amuone. Ambiri mwina, osankhidwa omwe muli munthu amene amaona kuti maganizo akale akadali m'moto pachifuwa. Tsopano munthu azindikira katatu pamaso panu kupitiriza ndi chibwenzi. Ndipo nanga bwanji ngati, pambuyo kuswedwa naye, utenge kuwuseleula zolakwa zake ndi bwenzi wina? Koma bwanji ngati muli ndi nkhambakamwa chiwawa, ndipo mumakonda anawonjezapo?

Inu amadalira kwambiri pa iye

Pankhani kukopa chidwi cha anyamata, mukufuna kuchita pa chiphunzitso cha anthu a maudindo miyambo jenda. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amakonda kumva kuti timawawerengera. Komabe, mu nkhani iyi, inu pachiswe kutali kwambiri. Ngati mukufuna kucheza ndi osankhidwa mphindi iliyonse wake free, inu muvale manja ake ndi mapazi. N'zokayikitsa kuti iye adzafuna nsembe danga yovomerezeka munthu. Achinyamata kuitana atsikana awa "popachikira". Osati kwambiri okweza tanthauzo, sichoncho? Kotero ngati inu muli mmodzi wa anthu amene ali maganizo amadalira mnzawo, ife ndikulangizeni inu kugwira akavalo pang'ono. Sudzakhala munthuyo kwambiri, ngati inu nthawi yocheza naye maola 24 patsiku. Sakukondani inu ngati inu kulankhula kokha za chikondi. Ndipotu khalidwe chabe tisiye iye. Onetsani kuti inunso muli malo munthu ndi kudzidalira.

"Angaloŵe Linga"

Wina kwambiri, zomwe sichisangalatsa amuna - inaccessibility izi. Pamaso pathu ndi amasiyana kotheratu munthu yozungulira. Panthawi imeneyi, mkazi amasewera kwambiri kudzidalira ndi dona palokha. Samalani, chopambanitsa chidwi, mukhoza anaberekera cavalier kuthekera kwanu. Mwina angaganize kuti safuna konse, ndipo angakonde kuona pafupi ndi mtsikana kwambiri tikuyamba ndi sociable. Kusewera "angaloŵe linga", mulibe kuonjezera chikoka anu, koma kumvutitsa yekha.

Inu kudandaula

Melodrama zimatiphunzitsa mtima kuti munthu nthawi zonse zidzasungunuka kukongola m'mavuto. Lifunika kutetezedwa, kenako wapeza achinyamata ndi wachikoka miliyoneya. Koma moyo weniweni kutali olemba zopeka, anazolowera kukhala ndi maganizo cliches. Ndipotu, palibe munthu akufuna yolumikizana likuwayenera ndi akazi amene akuvutika. Kotero kusiya kudandaula ndi pa aliyense tsiku kusewera poona zinthu. okondedwa wanu za chosakhwima wanu. Amene akufuna coddle inu ndi mavuto anu wosatha? Ngati anali njomba wochenjera, kukana izo. Ngati mayesero ndi masautso kwenikweni ndikutsatirani kupeza mphamvu zoti tithane nawo paokha. Ngati mukufuna tcheru anthu kalonga wokongola, ndiye kukhala kalonga naye. Psychology wa walakwa chifukwa izi si koyenera.

makongoletsedwe zosamvetsetseka

Ngati muli ndi chibwenzi, iwalani za makongoletsedwe zosamvetsetseka. Tikayang'ana kafukufuku, anthu sindimakonda kwambiri zosamvetsetseka ndi chipangizo amakonzera tsitsi madzulo. Iwo kulandira kuphweka, kukongola, chonyezimira ndi wathanzi tsitsi, ukuyenda pa mapewa ake. Ngakhale kuti tsitsi lowongoka ndi kumbuyo mmaonekedwe, kupita pa chibwenzi, amakonda stacking "yoweyula Hollywood." Kumbukirani kuti pafupifupi 75 peresenti ya anthu mu malo chidwi alendo tsitsi.

Kodi inu monga maphwando

olakwika yotsatira ndi osamvetseka kwa madona aang'ono. Atsikana ena akhoza kuganiza kuti kumulakalaka kusangalala ndi zonse maulendo kumalo azisangalalo zimathandiza mofulumira kukopa bwenzi angathe. Koma onse mungachite - ndi Scott mu maelstrom wa mofulumira, koma chosakhalitsa buku. Kusankha naye kwa nthawi yaitali yoopsa ubale, kusiya chipani mtsikana fano. Amuna ambiri kuyesera kukhala kutali ndi anthu okonda chitayiko nightlife. Oimira kugonana mphamvu tatsimikiza kuti atsikana amenewa ali ndi chizolowezi mwaphuma zochita kudwala-ankaona ndipo nthawi zambiri amapezeka mu zochitika zikanavulaza. Inde, kufuna extrovert jolly chichititsa, ndipo izo sizingakhoze izo, koma kusasamala wanu kusintha maganizo a anthu ndi madigiri 180.

Inu nthawizonse kugwirizana naye iye

Ndipo ndicho molakwika lalikulu mndandanda wathu. Koma zikuoneka inu sibwenzi anaganiza.

Iwo likukhalira kuti amuna supirira pamene wokondedwa wawo wonse kugwirizana nawo, kwenikweni akusuzumira pakamwa pake. Musaope kunena maganizo awo. Simufuna pakhale Kukolanaku? Ndiye poyera ndi moona adzasonyeza maganizo awo. Inu sangathe kukopa munthu Chabwino, ngati ku mbali ya mthunzi omvera. Achinyamata sindikufuna oyeserera, iwo ndimalota za mgwirizano zonse. Kungokhala nokha, ndipo mfundo imeneyi moyo udzakhala chinsinsi bwino anu.