Pikaper - ndi wonyenga wily kapena munthu osatetezeka?

Ngakhale kuti malingana ndi kuwerengera akazi dzikoli kuposa amuna, nthumwi zambiri za kugonana mphamvu mukuvutika ndi vuto kudziwana ndi atsikana ndipo simukudziwa momwe zinthu molondola ndi iwo. Makamaka nkhani ngati muli okhudzidwa nthawi yathu, pamene madona mu kudziwana ndi njonda, choyamba onse kulabadira maonekedwe awo, nzeru ndi kuwolowa manja. Amuna, pozindikira kuti mwina kuyang'ana pa okha pa galasi ndi kuzindikira kuti maonekedwe awo ali kutali ndi Buku, ndi mphamvu chuma (achilengedwe kapena umbombo) sanalole kuti akhale owolowa manja. Patsalanso chiyembekezo chimodzi - kuti ubongo kuti anyamata ndi kuyamba kuganizira mmene amukonde akazi okongola kwambiri ngati wosaoneka mu maonekedwe osati bwino kumbali ya zachuma. Ndicho chifukwa chakuti kukwiya moyo ndi atsikana anyamata anabadwa otchedwa bokosibode Atsikana "ng'ombe". Cholinga ali yemweyo - monga kugonana ofooka kukopa kwambiri monga oimira zotheka, kuthera pa aliyense wa iwo osachepera nthawi ndi chuma. Choncho, ndalama chuma sayenera konse. Choncho, novice madona 'munthu kupita trainings zosiyanasiyana pickups ndi "ubweya" malo themed kupeza mfundo ankafuna.

Ndipotu, kukatenga wojambula - ndi ndi osatetezeka munthu amene ayenera kunena yokha likuvutika akazi. Akazi zambiri anatha gone pabedi, nthawi zochepa ndi ndalama yaikulu pa izo, okongola ndi moti ake wovulalayo, m'pamenenso poganiza kuti kunyumba wamkulu macho. Nthawi zambiri chigweranso kuti munthu kotero omangika ngati "kusangalala" kuti kunyengerera akazi amakhala chinachake mofananira kuti masewera iye.

Komabe, kukatenga wojambula - si nthawi zonse munthu ankhanza amene "kum'mamatira" atsikana chabe chifukwa cha maso awo kuyang'ana mtundu wa Alpha wamwamuna. Zimachitika kuti munthu ngati mtsikana iliyonse, koma iye sadziwa umo kuyandikira kwa izo, chifukwa iye ndi mantha akukanidwa. Kotero iye akufunafuna mpata kukhala wodzidalira mwa iwo okha, kuyesera mwanjira kumvetsa kuwerenga maganizo a akazi, kumvetsa kodi ndi sangathe kukondweretsa wake wokondedwa. Iye kufunafuna njira yabwino ndithu tcheru anthu mtsikanayo ndi chidwi. Koma, mwatsoka, zimenezi kukatenga wojambula - ndi m'malo zosiyana lamulo. Kwenikweni, "kuchotsa" malamulo basi kuti akazi onse n'kotheka thupi.

Njira kwa bokosibode, pali ambiri, ndipo mosavuta pa Intaneti. Mwamwayi, atsikana kudziwa za izo, nawonso, ndipo alibe chidwi kuwerenga zimene anthu ali okonzeka kupita kwa wina Sitidzaiwala usiku ndi iwo. Ndithudi, palinso milandu pamene dona kudandaula pa maonekedwe kuti pikaper "kufalitsa", ndipo tsopano iye sakudziwa chochita. nkhani zimenezi si akukankha akazi kupita ku malo pa bokosibode kukhala wokonzeka kuti womdziwa iliyonse wamba.

Kodi "anyantchoche"? Kenako ikugwirizana msewu woyamba ali msungwana wokongola kwenikweni kuzunguza mitu funso ena zachilendo kapena kuthekera. Ngati "Chinsinsi kusiyana" unali wopambana, ndiye ife tikhoza chitani zina, kukwaniritsa ndi kukhulupirira ndi mtima wonse ndi chokomera wa osazindikira nzika kanthu. Ndipo njira yabwino mungadzitetezere wotero "chodabwitsa mwachibadwa" monga pikaper - kuchita "kusiyana chitsanzo" yekha. Ndicho chifukwa atsikana ndi kulowa "msasa wa adani" kuti aphunzire za mapulani awo sioneka ndi kuteteza ankadziwa zingakhale osafunika.