Ukwati mu Mpingo: kuteteza chikondi

chikondi chenicheni si mantha kupanga zitsimikizo ndi malumbiro kupereka. anthu wathu atabwerera mfundo Pre-chosintha - ndipo anthu akufuna kukwatira kachiwiri. Tiyeni nthawi zambiri ndi minibasi, koma mwa kachitidwe ukwati mu mpingo amakhala ponseponse. Ndipo osati kwa achinyamata: ndi zambiri mu mpingo pali awiri amuna mu m'badwo ndipo anapempha kuti akwatirane naye. Nthawi zonse zokhudza mtima kwambiri ndi wokongola. Ngakhale ukwati mu mpingo - ndizokongola nthawi zonse.

Monga amadziwika, pambuyo ubatizo wa aliyense M'ngelo womusamalira akuwonekera. Pali chikhulupiriro wokongola, kuti banjali ukwati wapereka munthu zambiri mngelo amene amateteza banja. Pali nthawi zambiri pamene pambuyo ukwati mu amuna mpingo kuponya zakumwa ndi mkazi kawirikawiri anasiya kukangana. Kuti ukwati okhulupirira woyenera kuposa kulembetsa ukwati mu ofesi kaundula, monga ukwati mpingo kumaphatikizapo udindo waukulu si nkhani ndipo ndege wauzimu.

Mwa nkhani Batyushkov zambiri funso linafunsidwa ngati n'zotheka ukwati pamaso pa ukwati pa ofesi kaundula. ukwati Izi analolera milandu zikuluzikulu zambiri m'matchalitchi ang'onoang'ono a kumidzi kumene wansembe amadziwa oyembekezera mkwati ndi mkwatibwi kwa zaka zambiri ndipo ine ndikutsimikiza kuti iwo kwambiri akachita chiyani maudindo a m'banja. ansembe ambiri amakana kuti akwatire patsogolo kalembera, monga kulekana kwa mpingo ndi boma ukwati achipembedzo alibe mphamvu malamulo ali. Kotero, mkazi "mwangwiro kachipembedzo" ukwati sizikutetezedwa ndi malamulo, zofuna zake zakuthupi ngati osatetezeka ngati mchitidwe yosavomerezeka. Choncho ngati munthu anu aang'ono amapereka kupeza wansembe, amene korona popanda kulembetsa, ndi bwino kuthawa chotero mkwatibwi monga moto, chifukwa chakuti mukufuna chinyengo. Kalanga, pamene ukwati mu mpingo sadzakhala lofanana ukwati kutha ofesi kaundula, ayenera kukhala osamala kwambiri.

Mu ukwati, ndipo iye ali zikugwirizana yokhala osati kokha, si njira yachidule moyo kugonana. Iwo anabwera pamodzi osati thupi koma moyo ndi anthu achikondi. Ukwati mu mpingo amalenga kugwirizana kwambiri chauzimu, chotero mwamuna kapena mkazi akhoza za ntchito yawo ndi chikhulupiriro aphimbe machimo a mkazi wina.

Tanthauzo la ukwati kulumikiza anthu amene amakonda ndi kuwathandiza bwino kumvetsetsa za udindo wawo kulalikira kwa anthu ndi Mulungu wawo chikondi chenicheni ndiponso woganizira. Chikondi - mphatso ya thambo ndi kudabwa kumene wopyoza siteji ya chikondi ndi kukhala akulu msinkhu. Pitani ku mapeto a ukwati sikuthandiza, asayansi amati zimatengera osachepera chaka kudziwana musanasankhe zochita pankhani zofunika. Zedi, tilibe m'maganizo ndi ubale wabwino. Adama (amene adalowa ubwenzi wapamtima musanalowe m'banja) Abambo ambiri analimbikitsa apatukane. Masiku ano, pambuyo kulapa kwenikweni onse zotheka ukwati achipembedzo, koma nthawi zonse ndi njira zovuta. Sin umachititsa moyo ndi kuwononga ngakhale chikondi wamphamvu.

Kawirikawiri anafunsa funso: kodi chingachitike n'chiyani ngati ndife pogonana n'zogwirizana, kapena m'malo kuphunzira za yekha atakwatirana? Ndipotu abwenzi atakwatirana mwamtheradi sizichitika, vuto zingathe kuthetsedwa ngati anthu ali ndi misewu mzake. A "mayeso" kokha imfayo anthu kuyesa abwenzi atsopano, plunging nthawi zambiri tchimo. Ndiyeno mimba, matenda opatsirana pogonana ndi kuthi chifukwa chilichonse adzazunzika ndi mtima. Man machimo osatetezeka ku ziwanda, koma chifukwa moyo wake likupitirirabe chisoni.

Ukwati mu mpingo amalola tidzipereke ubale chikondi ndi kuwateteza ku zosiyanasiyana ziwanda. Okhulupirira korona okwatirana sangakhale mantha a mfiti ndi "anyamata" ndi chikondi chawo kuziwerenga-cuffs.

Kuteteza chikondi chanu - kupita kwa wansembe kuti kachisi yapafupi kulankhula za ukwati. Ukwati mu mpingo idzasintha ubale wanu ndi kukuthandizani kumva ngati munthu.