Unrequited chikondi, choti achite?

Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti kugwa m'chikondi ndi munthu, likukhalira kuti nonreciprocal chikondi, chochita Zikatero, n'zovuta motsimikiza. Ndipotu, mtima wanu monga umawawukhira, iye akufuna m'manja mwa wokondedwa, koma mwatsoka, ndi zosatheka. Ndipo inu samvetsa kuti izi zikhoza kuchitika kwa inu, mkati inu monga adya udani ndekha, chifukwa sanali kukonda inu momwe inu mtima wake wonse ndi moyo. Ngakhale ngakhale mukuyesetsa zonse kumusonyeza yekha, kuti tisonyeze kuona mtima ndi maganizo ako onse idagwatiwa pa miyala wokhumudwitsa, kusamvetsa ndi osalabadira. N'chifukwa chake, ngati inu anakumana ndi chikondi unrequited, zoyenera kuchita nazo - ndiponso kuiwala ndi moyo kwa iwo okha, chifukwa inu zabwino zili mkudza.

Kumene, nthawi zambiri kuchita zimenezi ndi zovuta, pafupifupi mumamva mkazi m'chikondi, koma ndiribe njira zina kunja. Si mumathera onse a moyo wake chisoni ndi ululu. Kumene, ena akazi ayamba maganizo ndi malingaliro za moyo watsopano Iye samabwera kwa maganizo. Koma kunena zoona, mudzapeza chikondi chatsopano, ndi amene amadziwa, mwinamwake kusankha winawo ungakhale mwamuna tsogolo lanu. N'chifukwa chake simuyenera kukhumudwa ndi kukhala pa zomvetsa ndi zokhumudwitsa. Munthu ayenera nthawi zonse tizidalira tsogolo lowala. chikondi Unrequited, kodi kuchita zimenezo, mungathandize ochepa nsonga, koma inu nokha ndi kusankha thandizo kapena kodi mumatha kupirira ndi ululu yekha.

Unrequited chikondi, choti achite? Choyamba, muyenera kuyiwala za izo, ichi mufunika kuleka zonse phoning iye. Lekani sichimusangalatsa nthawi kuitana mokweza ndi kupuma mu chubu ndi kukhala Chete, kapena chinachake choipa akulira ndi kupemphera kwa msonkhano. Zokwanira manyazi, kumbukirani ulemu ndi kunyada. Ndipo ngati inu mukufuna kuwatcha iwo, ndi bwino imbani nambala ya bwenzi lake ndi kulankhula kwa iye, inu ndithu kukhala kosavuta, inu unrequited chikondi, choti achite ndi izo, iye akhoza kukuuzani inu.

Kusintha chirichonse mu moyo wanga. Ikani kwanu kasupe kuyeretsa, mungathe kupanga permutation. Komanso ayenera kutaya zinthu zonse kuti mukumbuke iye, ngati iwo ali okondedwa kwambiri kwa inu ndi kusangalala. Kapena mukhoza kulipira iwo pa nthawi anzanu, ndipo pamene fumbi zikukhazikitsa kuti abweze. Iwo ayenera Kusiya kulankhula ndi anthu amene kulankhula nawo nthawi zonse kuti nsomba zambiri kwa iwo kapena intrigue.

Njira yabwino kuti asiye chinthu - ndi kupita mutu woyamba mu ntchito. Cholinga chatsopano kuti muyenera kukwaniritsa posachedwapa. Kutsegula nokha ntchito. Kulola maganizo ako onse pa ntchitoyi bwino kuposa kuti chikondi chanu unrequited, chochita ndi kumene inu simukudziwa basi, sapereka mtendere wa mumtima. Mukhozanso kulembetsa maphunziro aliyense zomwe akhala akugwira kwa inu, mulole izo zikhale ndi galimoto sukulu kapena monga mimba kuvina. Sankhani nokha chinachake sanakonde. Lolani maganizo inu kuwasiya.

Dzisamalire. Pitani ku ometera, mungathe kusintha fano kapena monga tsitsi ndi kuvala zodzoladzola pang'ono. Ndipo bwanji? Yambani kuyenda pa nyumba zosiyanasiyana, discos, kumene mudzakhala nthawi zonse amakhala ndi chidwi mwamuna ndi pang'onopang'ono kuyiwala za mavuto awo. Amene amadziwa, mwinamwake mukapeza mkulu wake ndi mwayi potsiriza inu kumwetulira.

Choncho, chikondi unrequited palibe amene wafa. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kukhazikitsa nokha mu njira zabwino ndi kupita chitsogolo, osati kuyang'ana mmbuyo. Iwalani zakale ndipo kuti ndiwe wathanzi ndi wokongola, ndiyeno inu adzakhala! Ndipotu ululu pang'onopang'ono azipita, ndipo kenako inu kuiwala kulingalira za munthu ameneyo, popanda zomwe kamodzi chabe simungathe kulingalira moyo wawo.