Zinsinsi za kulankhulana: momwe angayankhulire ana, makolo, bwana, ndi dokotala?

Munthu aliyense Mtsikana wotere kucheza ndi alendo zovuta chete pa tsiku loyamba zimapangitsa mthunzi ndi kutaya chidaliro, ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri sungakhoze kupeza chinenero achibale - ana kapena makolo, osanenapo kuopa kulankhulana ndi bwana. Tikupereka inu kuphunzira mmene ragovarivat ndi anthu kuzungulira inu.

Kodi kulankhula ndi ana, makamaka achinyamata

Nthawi zambiri ana salankhula mawu komanso akulu, kuwonjezera, iwo sangakhoze kuwerenga maganizo anu, si nthawi zonse mukudziwa zimene mukufuna kwa iwo, akufunsa funso "mmene sukulu inu?". Savutika kuyankha ambiri amavomereza "wamphamvu" kapena sakulabadira konse. Ndipo si chifukwa iwo ofuna kubisala chinachake, iwo sakudziwa basi momwe kudzimvera lolondola ndi kuyamba kukambirana ndi mafunso ambiri sanathe kupangira iwo ndi mutu zosangalatsa.

Yesani kufunsa nkhani bwino ndi maganizo, monga: "Kodi chidwi kwambiri lero?" Kapena "Mukuwoneka wotopa. Inu chinachake wokhumudwa? ". Ndipo nthawi kumva yankho, kum'patsa tcheru zonse ndipo musati kusinthana yomweyo ntchito nyumba. Ndipotu achinyamata womasuka pa nthawi ya ankapitabe olowa. Kodi mwana wanu kuti akuthandizeni inu anapereka tebulo, ndi pa nthawi ino kufunsa mwatsatanetsatane za nkhawa mavuto ake. Ndipo kumbukirani, ana ndi vuto, ndi likulu kalata!

Kodi mukulankhula ndi anthu achilendo

Ambiri a ife okayikitsa mu kampani ya alendo, ndipo ndi chibadwa. Komanso, pa kampani inayake yaikulu, pafupifupi onse, ngakhale eni chipani, amene ali kunyumba kumva kusapeza, zikayamba kapena zochitika. M'malo mofotokoza mmene wovuta, kumbukirani kuti ngati panali zifukwa kubwera, ndipo ena ndi. Ndi bwino kutenga nokha ndikuganiza: mmene mungathandizire ena kupewa nkhawa.

Funsani mlendo kwa inu, anakumana ndi eni chipani kapena kulankhula za chakudya - pafupifupi aliyense amakonda kulankhula za chakudya, ndipo izo usanakhale clichés mofanana nyengo. Fotokozani nkhani umene munamva kwa ena. Mwachitsanzo, ngati interlocutors makolo anu achinyamata, mukhoza nthano, ndinamva kwa abwenzi. Simuyenera mofanana mnzanuyo zokwanira kukhala kumva ndi chisoni.

Khalidwe loyenera pa phwando pa dokotala

Chinthu chachikulu ndi kudziwa chifukwa inu mwafika ku ofesi ya dotoloyo ndi Usaope kulankhula za izo. Pomaliza, inu thandizo ndi akatswiri osati ndingathe, komanso amafuna kukuthandizani. Ndicho chifukwa chake ntchito yaikulu pa phwando - kuthandiza dokotala, chifukwa iye sakudziwa inu ndipo sangathe kuwerenga malingaliro anu, ndi matenda nthawi zinalembedwa pa mphumi ya mtima.

The bwino ndi zambiri mukunenazi zizindikiro, kosavuta katswiri kudziwa chavuta ndi chiyani ndi inu mungafune - mankhwalawa kapena kusanthula. Fotokozani osati zizindikiro komanso yaitali bwanji zidzachitika, kaya zonse kapena variable.

Madokotala anthu kwambiri

Musatseke mantha anu, mfundo ndi mantha, adokotala omasuka pamene mulibe amabisala ndi kubisa. Komano, sanaganize kunja ndipo musati oterewa nokha pasadakhale, chifukwa pali chifukwa kuti inu mubwere naye, osati kwa inu. Mwina tiyenera atipatsa yankho la mavuto akatswiri.

Kulemekeza ntchito ya zachipatala. Iwo amagwira ntchito tsiku lonse ndi anthu, ndi kulemedwa mtima ndiyo nthawi zina wolemera, ngakhale kwa akatswiri. Ngakhale tikukhala m'nthawi XXI - mankhwala si wamphamvuyonse ndipo m'malo ambiri palibe zida zodula ndi mankhwala, ngati mwapemphedwa kudikira kapena kuika mu malo, n'zotheka kuti pali anthu pamaso panu wofuna chithandizo.

Kodi kulankhula pa chibwenzi

Mwina nthawi mantha pa chibwenzi, kudandaula kuti chinachake chonga palibe mwamuna. Ulendo wa onse amakhala pa sangathe pamene muyezo ndi tilting mokomera bwenzi lapansi. Koma ichi ndi cholakwika. Kodi funso kodi nthawi zambiri dzifunseni pa tsiku? Kodi ndifuna ake / iye? Koma izi ziri chimodzimodzi zolakwika njira ndi unpromising. Funso lolondola ndi: Kodi munthu ngati ine? Kodi omasuka Ndikumva ndekha? Ndikufuna kupitiriza misonkhanoyi?

Kulipira mwatcheru zimene mnzanuyo akunena. Zinachitikira zoipa ubale zapitazi, wothiridwa chifukwa cha inu pa tsiku loyamba, motsimikizira akuti ayi wokonzeka kuyamba atsopano. Komanso samalani zimene mukunena nokha. Nkofunika kuti ndikhale woonamtima, koma osati kwambiri intrusive. Phunzirani kusiyanitsa ulusi yoyenerera tsiku loyamba, ndi zimene zili. Kambiranani za ntchito milandu chidwi ndi anzake, malo okongola kuti zafikapo, mabuku ankakonda ndi mafilimu. Pewani otchula ubale zoipa zakale, mavuto a m'banja ndi mavuto a zachuma.

Kumbukirani kuti choyamba maulendo angapo ayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito kuti adziwe ngati munthu ali bwino. Choncho Sikuti kuopa chete zovuta ndipo amayesetsa kuzikwaniritsa ilo pokambirana. Bwino kudzifunsa funso: "Kodi mumatani ndimatha nthawi wanga"

Kodi kukambirana ndi makolo

Wachinyamata, ana kutuluka chikoka makolo ndi kuyamba anagwirizana ndi anzawo anthu. Chifukwa, pamene mwana amakhala wamkulu, pakati pa iye ndi makolo anapanga mtundu wina wa phompho maganizo, kumene zovuta kusiya. Muyenera kuyamba kumanga mlatho pa phompho, chifukwa makolo anga ntchito kulemekeza malo umoyo wanu akuopa kulithetsa, potero kupangitsa mukulimbana mkwiyo wolungama wa zaka zochepa "ufulu". Ndi bwino kuyamba nthawi zonse kuuza makolo zimene zikuchitika pa moyo wanu.

Ubale ndi makolo zoposa ubwenzi. Iwo ankachita kuphunzitsa ndi kuthandiza inu, ngakhale ngati si nthawi zonse mudziwa bwino kufotokoza zolinga zawo. Mwina mungaganize kuti makolo kulamulira, kuyesera kuti akupatsani yokha kapena kudzela mwa inu kokwanira ndi maloto awo Komatu amayi ndi abambo akuyesera kukupulumutsani ku zolakwa iwo anapanga. Zidzakhala zokwanira ngati inu mungondipatsa makolo mukudziwa kuti ndinu odala kuti ali ndi moyo wanu kuti inu ndinu oyamikira.

Ndipo yolankhulana ndi makolo

Pewani kusakhutira ndi kukhala kwambiri kukwiya. Makolo kukalamba, ndi Ndipotu amene sangathe kuthawa. Iwo pang'onopang'ono, kuyiwala, nthawi zina obsessive, ndi mtima wanu chabe masks kuopa kutaya iwo. Makolo kuyambira tsiku loyamba moyo wanu inuyo kuthandiza ndi mpanda woteteza, ndipo ndi ofunika kwambiri kumva kufunikira kwake pa moyo wanu. Nthawi yambiri kukumbukira zochitika nkhani za moyo kuti mwakumana nazo pamodzi.

Kodi kulankhula ndi wamkulu

Kwa anthu ambiri, kaya ndi ntchito zawo zachitukuko, malo osangalatsa ntchito zimadalira khalidwe la kulankhulana. Kuti ogwira ntchito ndi kofunika kudziwa zimene zikuchitika, makamaka pa nthawi ya kusintha komanso mavuto azachuma komanso akuluakulu ayenera kudziwa maganizo a anthu amene akugwira ntchito kwa iye. Polimbana ndi mkulu lolemekezeka zofunika kuti athe chisoni. Ganizilani mfundo yakuti zili kupereka akuluakulu kapena zinanso Kodi bwana wanu kutsogolo kwa mabwana ake. kasamalidwe lero ndi kutha nokha mu malo amene kumvera inu, ndi malo amene amagonjera inu.