Kodi kuchita zinthu pamene inu amacheza ndi louts?

Mphamvu zazikulu za mwano ndi crudeness kuti ali opatsirana. Izi achabechabe, koma natikhutitsanso maganizo mavairasi zimafalitsidwa kwa munthu wina ndi mzake, izi zimachitika nthawi zambiri liwu limodzi kapena Mwachidule. Ziribe kanthu kumene kuopseza akubwera - anthu pa msewu, mu mayendedwe a anthu, mavenda pa golosale kapena apamtima m'deralo, pali njira lalikulu ochepa kuti chitetezo cha m'thupi mwanu kuti coarseness ndi mwano.

Kumbukirani kuti chipongwe ndi mwakamodzikamodzi amalandira inuyo

Khalidwe la anthu ena mocheperapo zimadalira ife, ndipo ngakhale kawirikawiri kwambiri anatumiza kwa ife. Makamaka a coarseness. dziko si anthu ambiri amene kudzuka m'mawa kuganiza, "Lero ndidzakhala nagrublyu pansi ndi mnzake." Nthawi zambiri mawu achipongwe ndi manja mwano - ndi limagwirira atasemphana chomwecho mwamwano ya ena, kapena chifukwa cha kufooka ndi odzikayikira.

The chowiringula ambiri popanda chifukwa kupeza chonyansa mnansi - unyolo anachita. kangati zosayembekezereka mwamwano amakakamizidwa aliyense wa ife kupsa iyeyo ndi "khola" pa ena. Koma m'pofunika kuti nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti khalidwe lathu zimadalira ife, osati anthu oyandikana nawo nyumba kapena ogwira aakulu chipatala, osadziwa khalidwe lake. Sitingaletse chikhalidwe cha anthu ena, koma ali ndi mphamvu kotheratu maganizo ndi zochita zanu. Si zolimbikitsa?

Sankhani zimene popenyana

Pakamwa pa "unyolo anachita" pamene inu amakwiya popanda chifukwa, mufunika kuleka ndi kudzikakamiza kuti achite chinachake zosiyana kwathunthu mopupuluma mwano. N'zovuta, koma pambuyo miniti poyamba kumakhala kosavuta, ndipo ngati inu kudzikakamiza kuti kumwetulira pa nthawi yomweyo, maganizo adzakhala kwathunthu kutha.

Musamalandire kusafuna kwawo kapena kulephera kukhala mwano ena monga chizindikiro cha kufooka. Kukana kutsogoleredwa ndi maganizo, inu kuteteza anu maganizo ndi maganizo moyenera. Potsatira lamulo imeneyi, pa nthawi muona kuti apanga chitetezo chokwanira kwa chipongwe mtheradi ndi crudeness. Ndi bwino kubzala chisokonezo m'malo zabwino, lowala, wamuyaya.

Khama ayenera kukhala wamwano

Pali nthawi zina pamene maganizo abwino ndi mawu abwino kosakwanira, chifukwa khalidwe boorish ndi mwano si nthawi zonse okha mawu. Mwina ndi bwino kuti uyitakase mikangano, ngati munthu ndinatuluka mu kukhota, kapena cholizira mu mtsinje wa magalimoto, koma pali zochitika komwe mwano munthu n'kofunika kukumana kuuma.

Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna wina analemba kumbali kwa inu kulakwa kwake ndipo tsopano ndinu udindo. Imeneyi, kunyalanyaza vuto kapena angapo mawu zabwino kupereka yankho. Komabe, yankho mwano kokha kukulitsa asapita mu timu, ndi kusokoneza maganizo a aliyense. Kwera awo kuuma pang'ono "kuti ngakhale" kapena kuti kuphunzitsa kubweretsa inu kukhuta makhalidwe osapitirira ola, kenako mumaona oipitsitsa. Chonchi mavuto ayenera chitani motere:

• Zingonena watilakwira zimene mukuganiza zochita kwake ndi momwe bwanji mwaukadaulo ndi maganizo.
• Distancing wotuluka munthu wakulakwirani.
• Ngati izi si kutsimikizira watilakwira kusintha zinthu dziwitsani kasamalidwe za nkhaniyi, kusunga bata ndi youma, businesslike kamvekedwe. Izi si kufooka, osati yabednichestvo - ziri wanu yekha ndi ntchito yake.

Gwiritsani zidule maganizo

Ngati sikudali Kwapafupi muli reciprocal mwano, kuyesera chimodzi kapena zingapo mwa zidule zotsatirazi:

• Tayerekezerani kuti inuyo akukumbatirana munthuyu anali mwano inu. Yesani kumumvera chisoni ndi kuganizira zimene akanakhoza kumupangitsa iye amaterowo. kanthu Izi yomweyo kuchepetsa maganizo anu oipa kwa munthu.
• Kupereka tanthauzo lomveka bwino maganizo awo. Mwachikulu kuunikira aliyense maganizo ndi zimene zimazunzitsa, itanani iye ndi kupeza chifukwa. Ntchitoyi adzakhala kudzilimbitsa inu ndi mwanzeru ku snapper pa inuyo.
• Pezani mwana wamng'ono ndi kulankhula naye. Chogonja chikoka kunja kukhumudwa, tili zambiri amachita zinthu ngati ana, kulera kulira mobwereza popanda. Kukula, timasiya kulira chifukwa zidole nekuplennyh chifukwa nzeru zathu zambiri, ife timvetsetsa - tsopano, kuwonjezera zidole, pali zinthu zina zofunika, zinthu zofunika kwambiri. Mukakonzeka kukhala mwano wina, kuuza mwana wanu wamkati ndi kuwasonyeza mmene mkwiyo ndi zonyozeka poyerekeza ndi zinthu zina ndipo maganizo.

mphamvu zochepa kudzilimbitsa nokha ndi kuyang'ana pa zinthu kuchokera kunja chingatithandize kukhalabe kudziletsa ndi maganizo mgwirizano mu nkhope ya kwambiri osayenera ndi achipongwe chipongwe.