Kodi ngati "anakoka" mpongozi?

Masiku ano akazi ambiri Kawirikawiri wa ubale wopepuka ndi mayi wa mwamuna wake, kuti kwenikweni kuti mpongozi "ndiri". Komanso, mawu amenewa nthawi zambiri analankhula osati okhawo amene ndangokwatira ndipo analibe nthawi kuti azolowere mamembala atsopano banja, komanso anthu amene ali kale ndi zinachitikira mwachilungamo yabwino. Kodi kuchita zinthu pamene mayi wachiwiri basi sapereka plaguing zonse zina ndi malangizo awo zofunika ndi zosafunika? Chinthu chimodzi motsimikiza: ngati inu "kuchipeza icho" mpongozi, ndiye musamatenge izo kenanso, chifukwa ngati aziloŵerera si nthawi, adzapitiriza yekha aziwonjezereka.

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Tiyeni tiyambe ndi choona kuti pamene munthu wamkulu okwatirana amakhala ndi makolo ake m'nyumba imene eni, ndi nthawi zikutipatsa mavuto ambiri. Poyamba, pamene anthu ankakhala mabanja akuluakulu, omwe anali nawo mibadwo osachepera atatu, mafunso ngati Komabe pamabwera koma ankawachotsera chifukwa chakuti zinthu zili choncho, ambiri anakhala ndi moyo imeneyi walandiridwa. Zokhudzana ndi zochita za aliyense m'banja chimadalira pa zaka wake. Tsopano onse kufuna ufulu, choncho zinthu zimenezi kwa Achinyamata ambiri ali wovomerezeka. Ndiye chifukwa chake, kuti "kuchipeza icho" mpongozi, womwe poyamba zinakonzedwa kukhala moyo osiyana, kaya makolo kuchokera mwamuna ndi mkazi. Zilekeni zochotseka angakwanitse nyumba, tiyeni kudzakhala kovuta, koma palibe munthu adzakhala maganizo nokha kumanga chimwemwe m'banja.

Kodi ngati mayi kuti "kupeza"? malangizo

N'kutheka kuti mwana ndi mayi mwamuna wake adzakhala anzathu, mofanana n'kutheka kuti iwo isanduke adani. Nthawi Real pamene iwo sangathe kufika pamodzi zoona, ochepa kwambiri, ndipo ngati zidzachitika, ndi okhudzana kapena kulumala maganizo, kapena ndi looping nthenda pa mwana. Nthawi zina zonse ndipo ayenera kuthetsedwa. Ngati inu "kupeza" mpongozi, poyamba pa zonse tiyenera kuyesa kubweretsa izo kucheza wosapita m'mbali. Yesani kudziyerekeza malo ake. Osati mophweka kutenga mayi, ndipo tiyeni tipite kwa mwana wake, mu moyo wonse wakhala padera. Choncho muyenera modekha kufotokoza kwa iye kuti mukondane mwana wake zosachepera ake. Yesani mwakachetechete kumvera malangizo ake ndi nsonga, mulole izo zikhale zosangalatsa, koma pa yomweyo amakhala monga inu mukuona koyenera. Nthawi zina chifukwa cha anawawidwa mpongozi amakhala nsanje ake. Pankhaniyi, mwana anazindikira a analanda dziko kuti "Okrut" n'kutenga mwana wake wokondedwa. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kufunsa wanu wokondedwa kuganizira mayi kwa iye alibe tanthauzo la zinthu. Pano pali njira ina yabwino kuti mungagwiritse ntchito ngati "anakoka" mpongozi pa nkhani zachuma. Njirayi imatchedwa "zotenga mankhwala". Ngati mayi chachiwiri akonda kupeleka malangizo awo, ndiye pa zosayembekezereka maonekedwe kusonyeza chisangalalo, ndipo analankhula za ntchito yake ndi ntchito milandu yonse imene ndi (maganizo ake) amadziwa bwino. Ndiyeno mwamsanga chokani ntchito kapena zosowa ina iliyonse, ndipo madzulo modzipereka zikomo ndi kundiuza ine chimene icho chiri inu mantha kupulumutsidwa. Chinthu chachikulu ndi kupeza mphamvu ndi kulimbika mtima kwa nyengo kusintha. Ndipo apo, kuyang'ana, onse pang'onopang'ono ndi kudzikonda kusintha.