Malinga ndi kafukufuku, anthu amakhala wachimwemwe ndi zaka 65 79

Asayansi kugawana ziwerengero chidwi kwambiri ndi zodabwitsa. Mwa ophatikiza zaka omvera anachita kafukufuku kuti adziwe zimene anthu osangalala kumva okha monga iwo sachedwa nkhawa ndi unachitikira ngati moyo wawo wonse. Kunapezeka kuti m'badwo losangalala kwambiri m'gulu monga anthu zaka 65 79. Kodi inu mukukhulupirira izo?

Mfundo - zinthu wamakani

Zingatanthauze kuti chimwemwe chochuluka - ndi achinyamata. Koma pali nsomba. Aliyense kumbukirani kuti ndine mnyamata. Nthawi zambiri izi yochepa gawo ladzala zoyesayesa amanena yokha, ndi zokumana nazo kwambiri ndi chikondi unrequited, kusamvetsetsa akulu, kupeza malo ake dzuwa ... Ndipo nkomwe aliyense mu unyamata kudziwa kuti pano ali osangalala kudzakhala kuposa kale. Ndipotu ife sindikuyankhula za mfundo za chimwemwe, ndi kuzindikira izo monga anapatsidwa.

Mlingo wotsikitsitsa pa moyo umaoneka amene ali 45 ndi 59 zaka, komanso okalamba kwa zaka 80 kapena kuposa amene amavutika kwambiri ndi matenda ndi kusungulumwa. Mu zaka pakati gulu zambiri amaona wotsalira tsogolo la anthu kuposa akazi, ndi zoona.

Chavuta?

Avereji ya zaka - limene limapezeka, kuwonjezera, ife anachita nambala inayake ya zaka? Mwina mfundo yakuti pa zaka opangidwa mkulu mlingo wa nkhawa. Iye azindikira kuti moyo, koma ambiri simunachite kale. Mutatenga ntchito wangobadwa ndi anakulira ana - chinthu chimodzi. Ndipo ngati ndi ayi? Kusintha chinachake kenako, kusiya - sindikufuna. Kodi kuchita?

Ndi nkhani yabwino - nthawi ya nkhawa ana awo, amene sanayambebe anadziyesa mu moyo ndi udindo wosamalira makolo okalamba.

Komanso, kuyesa izi wosatha kuphatikiza ntchito komanso kusamalira banja, chifukwa nthawi zambiri kusadziwa azilemekeza lapansi. Mu mawu - vuto midlife.

moyo watsopano amayamba

zaka 55-60 - nthawi ya pantchito. Amene anganene kuti kusintha moyo kwambiri? Si onse kupita pa holide, koma osati onse, ndipo akufuna. Kuli kufotokozera: kupuma kwa moyo kungakhale kovuta ngati si boma wantchito penshioni kapena ambiri. Ndipo munthu utatsalirabe ntchito, ndi ena odzilamulira, ndi kukula nkhawa: mwadzidzidzi zipolopolo?

Komano, tsopano kuti amene anasankha kuthetsa ntchito yanga, inali nthawi yambiri ufulu. Iwo ali ndi mwayi potsiriza kuchita iwo, ndipo mwina kupeza chinachakenso choti ndichite, abwino kwambiri ndi msinkhu mtima. Mfundo pali prerequisites chakuti amakhalanso ndi khalidwe latsopano la moyo ndi osangalala kwambiri. Koma zimatengera pa katundu wa umunthu.

M'badwo wa chimwemwe

Owerenga ambiri kupeza kuti pakati pa anthu mu ukalamba (lachindunji kuposa: okalamba, koma umagwira) angapezeke zambiri kuposa anthu amene ali okhutira ndi moyo wawo. Iwo sanadandaule za tsoka lake, iwo amayang'ana pa dziko ndi maso wabwino komanso wanzeru. Inde, apa, mawu chachikulu - nzeru! Kwenikweni ndi zaka nzeru tikayamba kuyang'ana zinthu philosophically. Mavuto zaka awa sali anazindikira kotero bwinobwino. Zikuonekeratu kuti gulu m'badwo anayambitsa mawu akuti "musati mumukhumudwitse Mulungu."

Koma zimenezi onse chabe. Mu zenizeni, ndi choncho. Ana anakulira ndi okhazikika makolo awo, ndi lalikulu, sanalinso ofunikira. M'banja labwinobwino, iwo tsopano kuthandiza makolo komanso amayesetsa kukhala thandizo. Makolo ali ndi ufulu m'njira yabwino mawu - nthawi zonse iwo akhoza amadzipereka. Iwo ali ndi ufulu mmene amathera masiku awo, kodi ndalama. Ngati ndinu mwayi kwambiri - mungakwanitse kupuma mokwanira. Osati pogwiritsa kwenikweni mtengo - mu mzinda uliwonse pali malo kumene inu mukhoza kuyenda, kapezeni mpweya wabwino, kucheza ndi anzanu ndi zibwenzi. Azilemekeza okalamba anakhazikitsa ubwenzi wapadera ndi ofunda. Pamsinkhu uwu, mwamuna ndi mkazi womangidwa kwa wina ndi mzake kuposa unyamata wake. Kumene, pali mavuto ena amene akhoza angasokoneze moyo - ndi amadwaladwala ndipo mowirikiza kusungulumwa. Ndi zifukwa zomwezi anthu analowa zaka 80 wosaiwalika, nthawi zambiri amasiya kukhala wosangalala.

Ndi osaneneka, koma chidwi kwambiri

Iwo likukhalira kuti chizolowezi nkhawa kwambiri, komanso luso osangalala ... amadalira khalidwe dziko zinthu.

Choncho, anaona kuti zonse nkhawa chibadidwe lyubyam Arab dziko. Pasanathe atengeke anthu onse Chinese.

The Irish pafupifupi nthawi zonse osangalala ndi miyoyo yawo, ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti panali chifukwa chomveka bwino izo. Ngakhale ozizira ndi wotetezedwa mwa British kwakukulukulu samadziona mwayi. Ndipo zimenezi ngakhale kuti chatsimikiziridwirapo mwasayansi kugwirizana pakati pa thanzi, bwino - ndi maganizo chimwemwe.

Akazi amaona wachimwemwe osachepera zaka 38, amuna - mu zaka 53-55.

Ndipo potsiriza, kwambiri zosangalatsa mfundo: anyani, monga anthu, akhoza kukhala ndi mavuto mavuto midlife. Koma anthu mwanjira Mulungu yekha analamula! Chinthu chachikulu ndi moyo ndi kumvetsa mu m'badwo uliwonse pali chifukwa kukhala osangalala. Chimwemwe akasintha penapake msinkhu, koma chofunikira ake akanali yemweyo. Msatero inu!